Aries and Libra Compatibility – Fire + Air

aries + libra

Although these two signs are considered exact opposites of each other, this relationship and this love match can usually do really well together.

Both of them are cardinal signs, the only difference is the Libra is air and the Aries is fire.

When it comes to the Zodiac wheel itself, these two signs are on the exact opposite sides of each other. In most cases that means that there is very little compatibility between their opposing sign.

The interesting thing when it comes to these two together is the Libra tends to get revived in life by Aries spirit and enthusiasm. Whereas the Aries themselves really do appreciate how Libra goes through life with careful attention to themselves and the relationship that they’re sharing with their partner.

As the relationship starts to develop between the two of them, they may start to realize that there are often needs and desires that they both have that they’ve never realized, that were brought out by their partner.

This is what is considered often the case when you pair these two together, they do whatever they can to fulfill each other’s desires and needs when it comes to their relationship and love life.

That doesn’t mean that everything is always rosy between the two of these partners, as they both want to truly be the the leader in the relationship.

The Aries in this partnership will always want to be the dominant one in the situation, and the Libra has a need to bring harmony to the situation.

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Aries In Love | Libra in love

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Experts Discuss This Couple:

Melissa: Libra’s charm and adaptability suits the Ram. Sexually, sparks will fly if the Ram gives the Libra time for romantic verbal interludes (read them some poetry).

Celia: Don’t be fooled by Libra’s pleasant smile and gentle voice. They’re as determined as you are to have their own way.

Jenn: You two will probably end up clashing since you really are complete opposites. While you crave the need for constant motion the Libra strives for balance and harmony and will probably not be able to accept your risk taking tactics. You on the other hand will probably find that the Libra’s conservative ways are way to boring for you. This relationship will take a lot of work to keep it going. The word compromise will be at the top of the list here.

Lidia: This is an almost perfect partnership as you are at opposite sides of the zodiac, so in theory you should be able to support each other in all areas. The sexual part of your relationship may be a little disjointed to begin with, purely because Aries loves to be passionate and exciting in the bedroom, while Libra is tends to hold back a bit too much. This stems from the self-image Libra has of itself and only can your partner and friends make you snap out of this way of looking at yourself.

Take your partner off on a shopping spree, as Aries can steer Libra in the right direction to not only feel good, but look amazing as well. Aries love a good argument to vent all feelings that have been hidden away, while Libra does not react well to a good fight, so may tend to back away afterwards. Lots of support and compliments can win them back over though, but don’t use this trick too often!

Laura: The initial attraction between these two signs is a thing of beauty. Libra will thoroughly enjoy Aries’ direct and ardent nature. Aries is strongly attracted to Libra’s beauty. Aries will need to remember that most Libras prefer their counterparts to be polite.

Tracy: Libra is indecisive, peaceful and prefers calm. As opposite polarity signs there is likely to be a strong physical attraction here. With compatible ruling planets Mars and Venus this is a harmonious and romantic relationship.

Heidi: An attraction from the start. Opposites do attract, at least for awhile that is. Both enjoy the social scene, entertaining and having fun. However, in the long run, it will take a lot of work to maintain this relationship. Aries is more adventurous than Libra likes, and Libra is more harmonious than Aries prefers.

Keley: This can be a good match, but there will be quite a lot of compromise. Aries will find Libra a bit indecisive, and Libra may find Aries a bit aggressive. If they can meet halfway in these things, they have every chance of success.

Marcus: The gentle calm Libra will treat the Aries to a calming effect on their lives. The ram will envy and sometimes try to emulate their tranquility. There is an undeniable instant chemistry between these two, but the Ram has to learn how to handle the Libra with kid gloves. A Libra will not take kindly to being knocked off balance often.

David: They say opposites attract, and that is indeed the case with this pair. Aries brings energetic enthusiasm; Libra brings a refined intelligence and charm. Although the differences can cause difficulty, nonetheless Libra is generally a very compatible sign for an Aries.

Libra Man and Aries Woman


In a relationship, Aries woman and the Libra man find each other to be complementing each other and offering each other what either of them lacks thus a strong attraction is there between the two of them. Both of them have a friendly nature and this trait is loved by both of them. Libra man is blessed with the masculine beauty that can be captivating for many people. His attractive smile is his characteristic trait. The Aries woman gives support of all sorts to her man to keep a balance. The Libra man loves to take care of his partner and shield her. Her jealous nature can be irritating for a Libra man after a safe limit. They should avoid opposition to make a good couple.


Libra Man with Aries Woman

Libra Man Aries Woman Real Life Stories



As an Aries i am a strong confident woman. My Libra boyfriend won my heart at first sight. I was hypnotized by his smile and his charming manner. I didn’t know right away that he was the one at first, i was wondering was it a mistake because we argued a lot. we spent lots of time talking and laughing. We started to understand each other and realized how well we really complimented each other! After a break up we realized that nothing or no one meant more than we meant to each other. I cannot live w/o him. My soulmate for sure. He makes me soft and sweet, i make him feel alive and loved. I love that he is so caring and knows what to say to calm me down. I make him so happy like no woman ever has(he said). we are very open and honest with each other and i love that  i am able to talk with my man with ease… he is also my BF! Although he can Be a little judgmental i’m still OK with that. One thing for sure he warms my heart which use to be so cold. I’m going to marry this man.


Oh my goodness this has been the rockiest relationship i have ever had. Im exactly how they describe Aries girls selfish,dominant,impulsive,and most of all jealous. my boyfriend (libra) has too many girlfriends, well actually had because of my jealous nature now he has hardly any friends anymore, which i didn’t mean for things to happen this way but they did. Its just been really hard but we love each other so much so were still trying to make it work; we have broken up but realized we couldn’t live apart from each other so were trying to make it work. The best thing would be that he teaches me to calm down and the sex part is great, everything else needs lots of work.


I am absolutely in love with my best friend who happens to be a Libra. The minute we laid eyes on each other there was this undeniable energy that others around us couldn’t help, but to notice. We have been friends for 2 1/2 years and we have shared so many long days and nights of DEEP even sexual conversation. We have each others back and we take good care of each other, even on a sexual level. In fact I always say that whenever we are alone SOMETHING ALWAYS happens 🙂 We are so much alike, yet so different. I love the very thought of him and he’s on my mind CONSTANTLY! We’ve had our share of arguments usually because of my possessive nature, but we always come together at the end of the day and making up with him is so sweet and just what I need. He touches me mind body and soul in a way that no other man has. Without a shadow of a doubt…I love him with every fiber of my being : )

Aries Man and Libra Woman


A Libra woman and an Aries man form a loving and an amiable couple. They live a happy life together and their relationship is full of joy. A Libra woman has divine grace and beauty which makes it very easy for the Aries man to get attracted to her. Libra woman has the ability to guide others without trying to lead and dominate them and this perfectly matches the attitude of Aries man who does not like to be manipulated by others and wants to find his own way. Living together, there are almost no conflicts unless Aries let his ego take control of him.


Aries Man with Libra Woman

Aries Man Libra Woman Real Life Stories



I’m an Aries man and i have had plenty amount of lovers in my life. From Taurus, Cancer, Geminis, to Leos and Sagittarius.  I’ve never had one like my libra. She knows how to keep a conversation going that’s a for sure thing. We connect with the quickness like peanut butter and jelly with no milk on the side. We can talk for hours and hours on the phone without making up an excuse to hang up. She is so compassionate and caring even though we have our ups and downs like a roller coaster but just like every ride there has to be an end to every beginning. I try to keep myself from arguing with her but its just in my nature to start small quarrels but at the end of the day were laying under the same roof under the same bed covers. sexually and character wise we connect amazingly. she knows how to soothe me down a great deal and that’s what I love about her. Libra and Aries is the way i’m going to make sure it stays 🙂


Have dated a few Aries men in my lifetime, my very first love was one and to this day we both love each other a great deal and would even consider dating each other again. Dated back in junior high school and we’re in our 30s now 🙂 .I’m currently dating an Aries man I met about a year ago, we don’t get into arguments at all, the biggest rub between us is that he is on the go even more than I am, works a grueling schedule and its hard to coordinate quality time. that is my biggest rub, other than that great sense of humor we get along well and have a great time together, it will be interesting to see where it goes. I hope somewhere special because even in all his stubborn ways, I still care for him a great deal and find him as irresistible as he finds me :o)…side note, I think rising signs matter too, I need to find out his, but mine is Virgo, so that also has influence on our abilities to get along with opposite signs.


I met my Aries 1 year ago we’ve had maybe 1 fight and many disagreements. But nothing that made us stop loving each other. We had to learn to respect one another’s difference’s. I think Aries and Libra make perfect couples. We learned that in order to get something you have to give something. Be willing to sacrifice and the Relationship will be wonderful.

Libra and Aries Friendship

You could well be the most social couple in the universe, and will make heads turn.

These two can join together and make quite the Friendship if they’re able to work on their differences together. The Libra is quite stable in their lifestyle and they like it that way, but they might find that Aries bossy attitude can sometimes put them a little off.   The Aries will be able to bring the energy and the desire to the situation between them, while the Libra will bring common sense to make sure that they don’t get in too much trouble together.

the Friendship compatibility between these complimentary

Aries and Libra Relationship

As lovers:

Plenty of excitement and all at a fast pace.

Long-term relationship:

Very high chance of this relationship lasting long term provided you keep a fun element in it.

Short-term relationship:

So much energy and ego will explode when you first meet that you may both put each other on pedestals.

Read More about how the signs are in dating

Dating An Aries | Dating a Libra

Libra and Aries Sex

Dynamic and energetic frolics in the hay.

These two could find themselves going on some pretty intense sexual adventures together. Where it goes after that is anyone’s guess because there is a chance that it could either go towards a relationship or away from one. In the meantime though sexually speaking they will both be physically attracted to each other, and will have quite the rapport both emotionally and sexually with each other. Bring the heat!

The sexual compatibility between these two is pretty high

libra and aries sexually compatible

Read More about how the signs are when it comes to sex

Aries in Bed | Libra in Bed

Aries Compatibility with Libra Over all Score:

overall score 63%

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Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez currently has 10+ years of experience helping people navigate life with the use of astrology. When not working on the website she is busy writing her first book on love and astrology.


  1. Well,he’s really sweet and im not like most aries because im not spiteful and I listen to what he needs and we make things work.I’ve been with my boyfriend fot about 3 months and nothing bads really happened.We have had arguements but we love eachother so much we forgive eachother and kiss and make up.I have been with him all day and i had to leave and as soon as i left i missed him so much you cannot believe,so if you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are aries and libra it could work out because it has for me.

  2. AlphaAries says:

    With libras I am always fooled. I think I’m so into them at first. The chemistry is wonderful, it’s very easy to get along with a libra. The problem is, the libra starts to get annoying. They either give you too much attention or not enough. If they really like you, you’ll know it, their attentions will be dead locked to you. I had one libra who, after a year, started to care about other things more than me. After we were done he realized his mistake, and I realized mine. I regret the relationship and feel like I was too good for him. The second libra I dated, he was hooked on me, fell in love very quickly. I thought I could love him but eventually I got annoyed with him, realized how dumb he was, and felt like he wasn’t good enough. I never want a libra again (terrible for the long run), but I know they’d make good friends or sex buddies lol.

  3. I am a female Aries and he is a male Libra. We live up to our star signs, i am impatient at times and dominant where he is submissive and patient. He is a very passionate man and that really helps our relationship. He helps me to learn how to be more patient with him and other people. I have to work on being more understanding and less dominant and he has to learn to tell me off when im being like that! The relationship takes work because of our differences but we compliment each other so well.

  4. I met this libra 25 years ago he is my brothers best friend. I have had a crush on him all these years. I was married to a scorpio for 15 years and 3 months after he left I called my libra and things have been hot and heavy ever since. I do notice I like a little drama but he is so kind and nice, I love him to pieces! I feel we will be together forever and could work through anything together, we have been together for 8 months and it was really funny to find out after all this time he had felt the same way about me, something just draws us together can’t explain it. But don’t feel like I need to:)

  5. My girlfriend is a Libra, very calm, very at peace. And although I’m more about being on the go, I don’t really mind it at all. We have a very passionate kind of relationship and we have had so much fun together. We’ve been together for a little over six years now and it still feels exactly like the first time we met. We match in the ways we are passionate about our love. I teach her to live life with a bang and she teaches me to stop for at least a second to appreciate what I have in life; her. We DO tend to disagree on a lot of things and we have our fair share of arguments. We’ve been on the brink of splitting up many many times but I always realize that no matter how much we fight I can’t seem to be without her. She keeps things lively for me, sometimes makes me chase her and her sensual nature attracts me more than anything. She’s sexy and exciting and is up for anything. To be honest, I wanna marry this girl.

  6. I’m a libra male and so shes obviously an Aries. When I first saw her there was instant attraction and when we actually started talking it was even better. She always lifted my mood just being around her. We’ve been dating for a while now and although I do sometimes get annoyed with her selfishness and dominant type personality, it is never enough to break us apart. We agree on all the really important things and I have learned so much about from her. Even if it doesn’t work out I won’t be upset because it was an awesome time and it has made me a better person. If your one of those people who has the false believe that good relationships don’t need work and should be easy cuz it’s so “perfect” then this relationship is not for you. If your looking for an amazing relationship with just a few annoyances, then this relationship is definitely for you.

  7. ariesgirl says:

    I’ve been friends with mr libra for about 6 or 7 years, always got along. I felt attraction for him sexually about 3 years after I met him. We ended up being friends with benefits for quite some time, usually ended with me growing attached and he went away. However we remained friends. I recently ended a relationship which didn’t end well, and mr libra came into my life once more WITH a bang! Sending flowers to me, sending romantic messages, wanting to hold my hand, telling me really deep things. He said what had happened in the past with us was nothing to do with me /who I was he just had things to do, then he realised he wanted me forever. Funny how it ended up, but its early days at the moment. I really hope it works.

  8. Aries woman (; says:

    Me and this libra man have been off and on for a year now,. we actually argue but we End up being together again. he actually broke us up, but then he came back 4 months later, telling me he still loves me(: he a down to earth guy, he so calm. And amazing. he really sweet. Yes he a flirt , but he could be loyal . he so fun to be with, like I could be myself with him, and he could too, we could be on the phone for hours and talk about eachother life. I think this libra man is actually worth it. By the way, we have amazing sex 😉

  9. I am a female aries. The BEST relationship you could ever ask for. Known him for 7 1/2 years and there is never a dull moment. Yes you have to work for Aries/Libra relationships to work out but the reward is beyond anything you can imagine. The sex is greater than anything you can ask for and we understand each other on almost every emotional level. These two compatibility signs are spot on. When it works it works, when it doesn’t it doesn’t. There is no in between.

  10. I was married to a Libra Male for 20 yrs I did everything for him supported him in every way, all I can say is be careful Girls mine cheated from the start I often went to bed in Tears wondering why he didnt touch me I would ask him why he would never really say he was cold and mean and drank every night. What a Sneaky, lying Pos! I finally had enough and people talk about Aries I’m an Aries I’m Honest, hard working and I was a good wife, he married some young girl and feel bad for her because I know for a fact he’s still cheating but Not On Me Close to Dallas Texas

  11. This doesn’t just cover romantic relationships but Libras in general. Apart from one ex-boyfriend who has Moon in Aries, I have never been able to get on with them. They are too worldly (a trait shared with Aquarius), talk for hours about nothing in particular, get others to pick up the lion’s share of the work, and have the most massive galloping egos I have ever come across. I mean, we are talking galactic sized egos here. They can be very patronizing because of this. People do call them out on it eventually though. They’d do themselves a favour if they weren’t so “false” – ging an impression of being sickly sweet / ultra “reasonable” / “nice middle of the road good looking guy” when in fact they are completely the opposite. For some reason my energy just doesn’t work with them, I can find someone really annoying and then find out later their starsign was – guess what? Libra. I wonder why this is as it is such a constant pattern.

  12. Im 22 libra guy me and my gf just broke up after 4 years we were highschool sweethearts and ill be honest I thought I’d found my soulmate she was my everything but apparently she decided that she no longer felt for me and never said a thing during the past month she was being talked to by some guy who started it all. It’s only been a weak since the break up and all I want is to try and understand how this could of happened she was my one and it seemed like everything was perfect between us we liked the same things, did the same stuff, I’m still holding on the hope that maybe she’ll come back but idk all i can say is the 4 years with her were the best of my life she was my first true love. And now that shes gone so suddenly without warning all i can think of is how i miss her so. Just felt like sharing my story thats all.

  13. Guest Libra says:

    My best friend is an Aries. I am a Libra. We’ve been friends for fifteen years and our friendship amazes me! We have a balance that is hard to explain; we are SO different, yet, SO deeply connected. We share a common respect for one another that allows both of us to feel an immense sense of satisfaction in our friendship. We are highly intuitive of each other’s feelings, and, extremely protective of each other. We work so well with each other that it seems like we were destined to be partners. She inspires me to be a better person ever day of my life. I don’t know where I would be without her – my loyal, supportive, exciting, and hilarious best friend!

  14. I am an Aries female and my partner is a Libra also female. We are not so different at all. But at times she teases me and winds me up to cause a row but I never rise to it I just laugh at her and she laughs with me. Generally we get on really well and gel so good and the love between us is amazing. She’s the fourth Libra female I have dated but she is very different to the others I dated. She’s more loving, sweeet , kind and very gentle. But she always thinks she is right but I never challenge her on this I just say yes dear if you say so.and leave it at that lol. I love her too bits and I’d not Chang her for the world she is lovely and always makes me smile when I’m feeking blue. I do the same for her. So Aries and Libra can work its about compromising and love.

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