When it comes to matching these two signs together you really need to look at the other aspects in the chart, because this love match is considered unlikely but can still work if some effort is put in.
Virgo is an earth sign, and at the same time a mutable sign as well, whereas the Aries is a cardinal sign, falling under the fire sign.
These are NOT considered opposites to each other in any way, but they do tend to share very little in common.
Both of them have temperaments that are completely different to each other, and because of this and their interests it’s very common that a relationship like this will not work.
Virgo is a very reserved and cautious type of zodiac sign. Whereas the Aries can be very explosive at times and make rash decisions. They sometimes work against each other in their ideologies.
Both of these signs do enjoy helping other people out, but for very different reasons. At the same time they do take different approaches to help people overcome things that are blocking them in their lives.
That’s not to say that this relationship is doomed from the start, sometimes it takes a little bit of understanding to get past those things that might be in their way. Part of why they say every relationship takes time and effort.
If both of these two can recognize the tendencies that might overwhelm them in the relationship, then there is a chance that this relationship could actually work out. The key term right here is working together.
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What You Will Learn:
Experts Discuss This Couple:
Melissa: Virgo will analyze the Ram to death. No fun for romance or companionship.
Celia: You like to generalize, hate to bother with details and are bored by meticulous analysis. All the things Virgo’s good at
Jenn:You two share the same love of activity and both seem to be at you best when you are on the go. This is a very good combination and often favors successful marriages. The two of you should know right away weather this relationship is going to work out or not. This relationship is based on respecting each other and if the effort is put forth, you’ll have a relationship with the Virgo that everyone else will envy.
Lidia: This relationship may be a bit of hard work, but it will be worthwhile if you put all of your energies into it. To begin with Aries can be a bit forceful and try to steer this relationship in the direction they feel it should go, leaving Virgo to just put up with what is happening. Over time, Virgo’s become completely obsessed with love and throw every part of themselves into it, but this can stifle anyone at the best of times.
Aries have to learn to be patient and take love with a Virgo slowly, to be able to get the passion out in the open. Once all the teething problems are over, love is strong and the sexual part of your bond will pick up the pace very quickly and this is what Aries is most interested in. Whilst Virgo sees love as closeness and romance, Aries see love as being a more passionate and instant sexual attraction, so find a compromise to make it work!
Laura: Aries’ exciting demeanor and Virgo’s tendency to analyze details, may seem like the odd couple. However, Virgo also has a sunny side and Aries needs someone to cool their heels. If Virgo can slow Aries long enough to fill in the details that they so often overlook, Aries can pull Virgo away from overemphasizing the details, through more action, less thinking.
Tracy: The archetypal Virgo is more concerned with thinking than acting, which is in direct opposition to Aries. Romantically, Virgo will probably be eager to please though Aries may feel that they should show more initiative. Both signs could learn a lot while in this relationship though they are not naturally compatible.
Heidi: An intriguing start to the relationship, however, as time goes on, this relationship may become more of a chore than it’s worth. Virgo tends to be critical of Aries and Aries extravagant nature tends to bother Virgo. Each will probably disapprove of the others life style.
Keley: This partnership stands a good chance if Aries tries to be a bit less aggressive, and Virgo tries to criticize a bit less. Even with these problems, there does tend to be a strong attraction between these two.
Marcus: Rams run on pure emotional instinct and charge full speed ahead, while Virgo’s run on brain power and tend to skip the emotion and feeling. Pay your admission to the park because this is going to be an emotional roller coaster. A love match here, at best, would be trying.
David: The motivated, fast-paced Ram prefers to leap first; the concerned Virgin prefers to think things through. Aries is direct and straightforward; careful Virgo tries to be sensitive. These styles can be difficult to reconcile.
Virgo Man and Aries Woman
A Virgo man has a rational approach combined with an intellectual mind and required knowledge of all aspects of life. He loves to be successful and tries to get it by legal yet shortcut methods. If he is annoyed, he does not vent his feelings and keeps them buried inside. With an Aries woman, a Virgo man gives her unconditional love. He learns a lot from his partner and gets a new vision of the things around. The Virgo man is the only one who is regarded her impulsive nature and aggressiveness as a good trait rather than an annoying one.
Virgo Man Aries Woman Real Life Stories
We’ve been very happily married for 17 years! I talk and he pretends to listen. He is very sweet and giving. Without judging me, he inspires me to be a better person. He is deep and mysterious, and I feel childlike and light-hearted next to him. We have two kids, one who is disabled. This challenge breaks up many couples, and we are proud that we haven’t let that happen. He can judge our kids too harshly, and I work hard to counter that. We’re both optimistic and creative. Sex is amazing. He is a very attentive partner.
This has been the best relationship of my life. Me & my Virgo man have been together almost (2) years. We are different but yet the same in that we are both very honest, loyal, share great sense of humor and we act real silly kidding around with each other a lot. Even when things are serious we can make each other laugh. We are both no-nonsense type individuals and we make love to each other’s mind. We have learned to give one another space to do our own thing (I’m carefree and independent) and he is very Workaholic.) but we make it work because we truly love each other, but express it different ways. I’m very affectionate, warmhearted, playful and somewhat childlike which always seem to draw him closer to me. He has more reserved nature that is very sexy, charming and gentlemanly with a sheepish/devilish smile. He is very protective of me and if I need anything all I have to do is ask. He loves by doing not saying. Sex is absolutely the best. Very attentive lover. WE’RE GOOD MATCH! maybe we are an outlier when it comes to the sexual side of things, you have to work at it!
I (Virgo man) had a relationship with an Aries woman for about a year. We had a wonderful physical connection and loved to share stories and laugh about things together. But as soon as any kind of conflict arose things would spiral out of control like a nuclear reaction. When feeling slighted, she was never satisfied until everything was burned to the ground and there was nothing left but smoke and ash. Once her temper was lit, nothing was sacred, nothing was out of bounds, and she wouldn’t stop until she had humiliated me and degraded me to the point that I never wanted to see her face again. The worst part was it seemed like she derived some twisted satisfaction from seeing how much she could humiliate me. In the end, I just couldn’t take it anymore.
Aries Man and Virgo Woman
The relationship between a Virgo woman and Aries man has both emotional aspects and practicality. They get along with each other in spite of having different views regarding life. An Aries man has novel ideas and a bit childish attitude which is certainly different from the mature and to-the-point nature of a Virgo woman. This difference can offend the Aries male whereas he loves the politeness and witty brain of Virgo woman. Both members of the pair show concern and love for each other which are the positive aspects of the relationship. A happy life can be led by them if both of them try to understand that they have different but good natures.
Aries Man Virgo Woman Real Life Stories
I’ve been in a relationship with a Aries man for more than 6 years. I do believe that they are very spontaneous and yes they do not like to be told what to do but again who does. He keeps me on my toes and our relationship is full of excitement. When we get into an argument it’s hard to sit down and try to resolve it because he doesn’t have the patience to sit and listen, in that aspect sometime’s it could be hard but we eventually resolve our problem. He is very generous and an amazing lover, my ex-boyfriend was an Aries too, I do know if it’s just me but I think you’ll be surprised on how many Virgo’s are attracted to Aries and vice versa.
I’ve had quite a liking for an Aries over the last few weeks, and I must say that they’re a completely different kettle of fish. Having someone challenge my set ideas takes some getting used to! Originally I thought he was pretty insufferable, but he’s since changed my mind with his suave charm and warm personality. He already cares a lot for me and I like how he can make me blush at will with a compliment on my elegance or intelligence — he knows exactly what to say and how to say it. There’s also a surprisingly sensitive and naive heart beneath all of his bravado, and often he won’t talk to me when he’s upset so I won’t know that he’s feeling vulnerable. I understand he wants to be the Knight In Shining Armour around me, so I never make any bones about it. I respect his personal space when he wants to be alone and, in turn, he respects mine. I didn’t expect to get on with an Aries at all, but I’m enjoying the ride so far. They’re certainly an adventure and a half to be around.
So, it’s been a little over a year since I’ve been in a relationship with this Aries male. No one’s ever made me feel so beautiful. He is cute, smart, athletic, loyal, responsible, affectionate and honest. It’s true they are very forgiving and that has really helped our relationship move forward. I know we’ve hurt each other more than once before, but all I can say is that I owe this happiness I hold within my heart to every fight that brought us closer. He is the only one in the world who can truly handle me. He would never let go and knowing this is what makes me want to stay with him forever. Yes, he’s quite possessive although he tries not to make it so evident, not that I mind – at all. His optimism is contagious and he never fails to make me smile. For him it was love at first sight, while it took some time for me to succumb to his boyish charm. He’s never given me a reason to fantasize about anyone else…because I’m more than convinced it can’t get better than this. I love him!
Aries and Virgo Friendship
8 out of 10 is you only see each other occasionally. 2 out of 10 if you live in each others pockets.
These two can combined pretty well as friends because they have very strong personalities that shine through. The Aries in this case lives their life in a very carefree way, whereas the Virgo is intellectually quick on their feet. So when you add these two as friends you can create a pretty powerful friendship. As long as they don’t get under each others skin.
the Friendship compatibility between these two is Medium
Virgo and Aries Relationship
When the passionate meets the contemplative kind there’s not a great deal of hope.
If you just stay in touch as occasional friends you will learn a lot from each other.
You may well be mesmerized with each other at first glance but this rarely lasts with this mix.
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Aries and Virgo Sex
By year two you’ll be sleeping in different rooms and probably different cities.
These two usually don’t really connect on a sexual level. The Aries is looking for a connection that is more physical and passionate, whereas the Virgo needs to be connected to them on an emotional and intellectual level in order to have the intimacy that they’re looking for. This pretty much causes a major disconnect unless they can find a halfway point.
The sexual compatibility between these two is pretty low
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Aries Compatibility with Virgo Overall Score:
overall score 45%
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