Aries and Virgo Compatibility: Sex, Love, and Friendship
Aries and Virgo Compatibility Key Takeaways:
A relationship that is often clouded by misunderstandings, Virgo is often overly critical of Aries’ activities. The two struggle to get on the same page. In terms of long-term relationships, this is one of the harder combinations to make work. However, there can be an intense physical connection between these two signs, which can lead to sporadic moments of passion.
Compatibility: Low ( without effort being put in)
Read on to learn how you can make things go smoother
Aries sees Virgo for the first time as stylish and cool. A person who is very intelligent and well-informed. They also recognize a person with a fiery sense of passion that they have yet to discover. The fact that they will find that out for themselves is what attracts them.
Virgo, on the other hand, sees Aries as impulsive and bold. A strong-willed individual who can be very stubborn at times. Despite that, they see someone who could spice up their lives. They do need somebody who is going to spice up their routine days.
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It comes down to this: Will these two be able to establish a lasting relationship?
Let’s look at what the two have going for them and against them. You can also read what our experts have to say about this couple!
Are Aries and Virgo Compatible?
When matching these two signs together, you need to look at the other aspects in the chart because this love match is considered unlikely but can still work if some effort is put in.
Virgo is an earth sign and, simultaneously, a mutable sign. In contrast, Aries is a cardinal sign falling under the fire sign.
These are NOT considered opposites, but they share very little in common.
Both have temperaments that are entirely different from each other. Because of this and their interests, it’s very common for a relationship like this to not work.
Virgo is a very reserved and cautious type of zodiac sign. Whereas Aries can be very explosive at times and make rash decisions. They sometimes work against each other in their ideologies.
Both of these signs enjoy helping other people out, but for different reasons. At the same time, they take different approaches to help people overcome things blocking them in their lives.
That’s not to say that this relationship is doomed from the start; sometimes, it takes a little bit of understanding to get past those things that might be in their way. Part of why they say every relationship takes time and effort.
Suppose both can recognize the tendencies that might overwhelm them in the relationship. In that case, there is a chance that this relationship could actually work out. The key term right here is working together.
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Experts Discuss This Couple:
Jenn:You two share the same love of activity and both seem to be at you best when you are on the go. This is a very good combination and often favors successful marriages. The two of you should know right away weather this relationship is going to work out or not. This relationship is based on respecting each other and if the effort is put forth, you’ll have a relationship with the Virgo that everyone else will envy.
Laura: Aries’ exciting demeanor and Virgo’s tendency to analyze details, may seem like the odd couple. However, Virgo also has a sunny side and Aries needs someone to cool their heels. If Virgo can slow Aries long enough to fill in the details that they so often overlook, Aries can pull Virgo away from overemphasizing the details, through more action, less thinking.
Tracy: The archetypal Virgo is more concerned with thinking than acting, which is in direct opposition to Aries. Romantically, Virgo will probably be eager to please though Aries may feel that they should show more initiative. Both signs could learn a lot while in this relationship though they are not naturally compatible.
Heidi: An intriguing start to the relationship, however, as time goes on, this relationship may become more of a chore than it’s worth. Virgo tends to be critical of Aries and Aries extravagant nature tends to bother Virgo. Each will probably disapprove of the others life style.
Keley: This partnership stands a good chance if Aries tries to be a bit less aggressive, and Virgo tries to criticize a bit less. Even with these problems, there does tend to be a strong attraction between these two.
Marcus: Rams run on pure emotional instinct and charge full speed ahead, while Virgo’s run on brain power and tend to skip the emotion and feeling. Pay your admission to the park because this is going to be an emotional roller coaster. A love match here, at best, would be trying.
David: The motivated, fast-paced Ram prefers to leap first; the concerned Virgin prefers to think things through. Aries is direct and straightforward; careful Virgo tries to be sensitive. These styles can be difficult to reconcile.
Virgo Man and Aries Woman
A Virgo man approaches life rationally, with a keen intellect and a thorough understanding of all aspects of life. Success is important to him, so he uses legal but shortcut methods to achieve it. He keeps his irritation inside when annoyed and does not express it openly. With an Aries woman, this man loves her unconditionally. Through his partner, he learns a lot and sees the world from a different perspective. He is the only one who regards her tendency to be impulsive and aggressive positively rather than negatively.
How to Be Successful in This Relationship
He hears you, but may not obey… wait.
He does not need to be told anything more than once. Don’t demand that he pays attention to you, especially when he’s working on something. If he doesn’t respond immediately, just wait, he will. A Virgo cannot stand the idea of your being upset; he wants to be helpful and do the right thing by you.
Ignore the criticism and see the wisdom.
You can expect him to be critical at times, and mostly of the impulsive and emotional way in which you’ll generally approach problems. It’s instinctual for him to analyze problems rationally, come up with a solution, and take care of it. Learning to be calm and level-headed in the face of misunderstandings will resolve his worry, and his criticism will turn into wise advice that will work for you.
Believe in him.
Believe him when he tells you that he has faith in your dreams; he’s not possessive and will even encourage you to do your own thing and make your own way in the world. You’ll see that the kind of total love you seek is being as a gift, without the expectation of something in return.
Aries Man and Virgo Woman
The relationship between a Virgo woman and an Aries man combines the emotional and practical. Although they have different views on life, they can get along. An Aries man has a creative mind with a childish attitude, quite different from her mature and straightforward way of thinking.
While he’s offended by this difference, he loves her politeness and witty brain. The couple shows concern and affection for one another, two positive aspects of their relationship. They can lead a happy life by understanding each other’s differences.
How to Be Successful in This Relationship
Trust each other.
Trust that he’ll do the right thing by you, as you do by him. You’re both prone to be “all in” when it comes to love; he may just need to be reminded more often than you do.
Turn the ordinary into the extraordinary.
A liberal dose of imagination from you can spark an unimaginable blaze in the passions of your man. You have the ability to turn an ordinary experience into an extraordinary one by simply pointing out little things in everyday life that he misses. If he has to be the loudest or the first to cheer while watching a sports event on TV, you don’t need to call him on it, just review the statistics with him later, but not during intimacy or “quality time.”
Ditch the self-criticism.
Don’t use self-criticism as a way to get sympathy from him. You tend to be harder on yourself than anyone else, while he rarely is. He’ll take your advice, but expects you to do the same, and as you get used to “walking your talk”, he’ll help you learn how unnecessary most of your worries are.
Aries and Virgo Friendship
8 out of 10 is you only see each other occasionally. 2 out of 10 if you live in each others pockets.
These two can work together pretty well as friends because they have potent personalities that shine through. The Aries, in this case, live their life in a very carefree way. In contrast, the Virgo is intellectually quick on their feet. So when you add these two as friends, you can create a pretty powerful friendship. As long as they don’t get under each other’s skin.
The Friendship compatibility between these two is Medium.
This is what this friendship means to you Aries
To you, looking good is very important. You are also very stylish. As your friend, Virgo loves seeing you at your best. Even as friends, they like to be able to take care of you since they are naturally caring people. Allow them to assist you in your life. Let them ease your burdens or help you in some way. Be sure to thank them for their hard work and show them much appreciation. They will remain loyal to you for as long as you do that.
This is what this friendship means to you Virgo
Your friendship can sometimes feel like you’re being pushed. Sometimes too hard or too far. Since Aries is constantly moving, they rarely stay in one place for very long. When they are around, it’s hard not to feel energized by their presence. This fire sign brings a lot of excitement and motivation to your friendship. This is why you need to take charge and set the boundaries that you feel are necessary. If you take some control and keep boundaries firmly in place, they won’t be able to push you too far. Don’t let them dictate how things should be; let them have all the power. Make things fair for both parties.
Virgo and Aries Relationship
This is what the relationship means to you Aries
When you are in a relationship with someone, you don’t mind if they fuss over you. Most of the time, it’s not a problem for you. However, it’s a whole other story if your partner manipulates you or tries to control your life. Make sure your interests are clearly defined. Set your own boundaries. Virgos make wonderful friends and great companions, and, in a romantic sense, they make incredible lovers and great partners. The important thing to remember is that it takes work to achieve that. Put in the effort if you think your partner is worth it!
This is what the relationship means to you Virgo
Love-wise, Aries can cause you to fall in love too fast. At the very least, they can make you smitten. When they have you in their grasp, you will notice that they seem narrowly focused on what they are interested in. Your partner may challenge your patience and tolerance, but you still have a chance to create a successful relationship. The first step is to find something that you both share. Get to know each other. Find something you have in common. Take the initiative now and then. Shock them by asking for or insisting on something you want.
As lovers:
When the passionate meets the contemplative kind there’s not a great deal of hope.
Long-term relationship:
If you just stay in touch as occasional friends you will learn a lot from each other.
Short-term relationship:
You may well be mesmerized with each other at first glance but this rarely lasts with this mix.
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Aries and Virgo In Bed
Virgo’s ability in bed will blow Aries away. Besides having the ability to get the job done in the bedroom, they will enjoy the synchronicity they have with their partner. But they may be disheartened if there is no passion involved.
In the bedroom, Virgo will appreciate the energy that Aries brings. They are also very adventurous and outgoing and love to try new things.
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Are they soulmates?
When it comes to relationships, the Virgo needs a firm structure in their daily lives. Aries wants to be in charge, and somewhat of a dominant position in the relationship. A relationship between these two is very hard to maintain most of the time. There is a chance that this match could actually work out if both partners have planets like Mars (desires), the Moon (feelings), Venus (love), and Mercury (mindset) in other signs that are harmonious. It is still possible for them to have a happy relationship.
If it doesn’t work out
The reason is probably due to Virgo’s need for structure and organization in a relationship. They might think that Aries takes too many risks in life or cannot establish stability in relationships.
In this case, Aries’ view of life is at odds with their partner’s. As they need to live a life that is spontaneous and conflict-free.
How to fix the issue
Relationships are always challenging, and this one is no exception. It isn’t something that can be resolved overnight. The Virgo in this situation needs to learn to loosen up and relax a bit. They need to be more relaxed in their approach to life. Aries need to work on their relationship skills when it comes to their partner. Although they have a spontaneous aspect to their lifestyles, they need to take this relationship more seriously. If both partners can do that and put in the work, there is a chance that it just might work out in their favor. At least it could help.
Summary
This relationship may be a bit of hard work, but it will be worthwhile if you put all of your energies into it. To begin with Aries can be a bit forceful and try to steer this relationship in the direction they feel it should go, leaving Virgo to just put up with what is happening. Over time, Virgo’s become completely obsessed with love and throw every part of themselves into it, but this can stifle anyone at the best of times.
Aries have to learn to be patient and take love with a Virgo slowly, to be able to get the passion out in the open. Once all the teething problems are over, love is strong and the sexual part of your bond will pick up the pace very quickly and this is what Aries is most interested in. Whilst Virgo sees love as closeness and romance, Aries see love as being a more passionate and instant sexual attraction, so find a compromise to make it work!
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I have been with my aries man for 5 years now. We have 2 kids and are still young. Which does not work in our favour. We do have our good times but he is so insensitive, bossy, disresepctful, hot headed. What angers me the most is the reckless outlook he has with life. We are engaged but I am having serious doubts, i dont think we are compatible enough for a marriage! Aries and virgos will only work if there is compromise and communication.
Got a Virgo man that has the biggest heart I ever saw. He is picky and fussy but this is the real love of my life and I can’t do without him. As picky as he is (and I am 100% Aries)! I am proud that he chose me for his mate. Know your man, love him completely and this will be the best relationship you will ever have. I have never been loved like this before. Amazing in bed. Built like a Greek god. Very athletic and attractive. Very protecting of me and tries to ground me. It’s tough but we are both learning. I cam see progress so don’t give up on this relationship. It is worth the effort you Aries put into it!
So, it’s been a little over a year since I’ve been in a relationship with this Aries male. No one’s ever made me feel so beautiful. He is cute, smart, athletic, loyal, responsible, affectionate and honest. It’s true they are very forgiving and that has really helped our relationship move forward. I know we’ve hurt each other more than once before, but all I can say is that I owe this happiness I hold within my heart to every fight that brought us closer. He is the only one in the world who can truly handle me. He would never let go and knowing this is what makes me want to stay with him forever. Yes, he’s quite possessive although he tries not to make it so evident, not that I mind – at all. His optimism is contagious and he never fails to make me smile. For him it was love at first sight, while it took some time for me to succumb to his boyish charm. He’s never given me a reason to fantasize about anyone else…because I’m more than convinced it can’t get better than this. I love him!
I’ve had quite a liking for an Aries over the last few weeks, and I must say that they’re a completely different kettle of fish. Having someone challenge my set ideas takes some getting used to! Originally I thought he was pretty insufferable, but he’s since changed my mind with his suave charm and warm personality. He already cares a lot for me and I like how he can make me blush at will with a compliment on my elegance or intelligence — he knows exactly what to say and how to say it. There’s also a surprisingly sensitive and naive heart beneath all of his bravado, and often he won’t talk to me when he’s upset so I won’t know that he’s feeling vulnerable. I understand he wants to be the Knight In Shining Armour around me, so I never make any bones about it. I respect his personal space when he wants to be alone and, in turn, he respects mine. I didn’t expect to get on with an Aries at all, but I’m enjoying the ride so far. They’re certainly an adventure and a half to be around.
I suppose the difference between those who get along from those who do not get along has to do with the day they were born. This affects each sign significantly, although most information only feature the sign’s month. I will attribute our ever so happy, loving, sexy, crazy fun relationship to that fact. Although we are said not to be compatible, we are the most compatible couple I know. Really. I have known this man for 7 years now and we love each other more and more each day. This love goes against everything astrologists say about this union. I feel extremely blessed to have such a special relationship. I feel like I’ve loved him before… and I will love him forever more.
Amazing relationship.. LUST at first sight, turned into LOVE.. I’m in the medical field.. he’s in real estate.. we met at a bar, and i wanted him really bad, but WHAT A DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE. He was extremely respectful and didn’t dare cross the line, unless I wanted him to. Frustrating at first, but with him.. all i had to do was ASK and I received.. and that goes for EVERYTHING. He fell for me, and I for him… and he’s GREAT support.. I’m very impulsive and i make haste decisions.. he helps me slow down and to think things through thoroughly.. and he manages money very well (unlike me— i spend A LOT).. He likes to spoil me, but i am very cautious because i rather him save that money for our future. I told him that.. and that’s EXACTLY what he does. The sex is phenomenal and the support system is great.. Only downfall is i’m a bit flirtatious (so is he) however he gets a bit jealous of me flirting or talking to other men
I’ve been in a relationship with a Aries man for more than 6 years. I do believe that they are very spontaneous and yes they do not like to be told what to do but again who does. He keeps me on my toes and our relationship is full of excitement. When we get into an argument it’s hard to sit down and try to resolve it because he doesn’t have the patiance to sit and listen, in that aspect sometime’s it could be hard but we eventually resolve our problem. He is very generous and an amazing lover, my ex-boyfriend was an Aries too, I do know if it’s just me but I think you’ll be surprised on how many Virgo’s are attracted to Aries and vice versa.
I (virgo man) had a relationship with an Aries woman for about a year. We had a wonderful physical connection and loved to share stories and laugh about things together. But as soon as any kind of conflict arose things would spiral out of control like a nuclear reaction. When feeling slighted, she was never satisfied until everything was burned to the ground and there was nothing left but smoke and ash. Once her temper was lit, nothing was sacred, nothing was out of bounds, and she wouldn’t stop until she had humiliated me and degraded me to the point that I never wanted to see her face again. The worst part was it seemed like she derived some twisted satisfaction from seeing how much she could humiliate me. In the end, I just couldn’t take it anymore.
I am a virgo female, met an aries female nearly 6 years ago. We met online, talked for 9 months before finally meeting in person. I moved to her state (after proposing to her) only to find out she had been talking to someone else for quite a few months. We worked things out, but life threw us some curve balls, causing me to have to move back to where I had come from before moving in with her. She was supposed to follow me, but backed out. Soon after, she started dating one of my best friends. I didn’t have any contact with her for over a year. I thought about her every day though. Then suddenly one day, she requested me on FB. My heart dropped to my stomache. I accepted, and it was like we picked up where we had left off. We decided friendship was the best because of the distance (i live at the top of the US she lives at the bottom) I only accepted this because I was so happy for her to be back in my life.She has had my heart all of this time, but sadly I have not had hers. :'(
So I’ve got a Virgo as a bestfriend. She’s my better-half and I wouldn’t have it any other way. She tells me when to quit, when to stop, when to be polite and when enough is enough. She is my rock and I don’t think I’d be here today without her. Without judgement, she inspires me to be better. To this day I have not figured her out yet but thats okay. She’s mainly the quiet one and when I can be, I am her voice. She helps me shine. I hope one day I can help her shine too. We’re both so broken, but we find hope in each other. We disagree on almost everything. We both share the same great sense of humor. When we’re both in a dark place we can pull each other out into the sunlight. If either of us leaves the others side we just lose it. In other words she’s the Watson to my Sherlock ^_^ Without her I wouldn’t be me. Our friendship is perfect and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I wish she could see through my eyes. I don’t want her to be anymore than what she is now – Absolutely Amazing.
I’m an Aries and he is a Virgo. Our relationship started off as not having much in common but always being there for each other no matter what. We began talking to each other about personal issues and telling stories that would make one another laugh and smile. It was perfect. We realized eventually that we had more in common than we actually thought. The relationship ended after 9 months because we grew distant. 5 months later we met again and in an instant we fell back in love at first glance. We decided to try it out again being that we both changed and matured. We’re flawless together. We trust each other in ways that we never thought was possible. We are simply perfect. It’s the relationship that I had always wanted. He never fails to make me smile when I’m down. He is the most handsome and adorable guy out there and I would do anything for him. We never argue. We’re attracted to each other emotionally, physically and we are happier than ever. It’s been almost 2 years. I love him.
I am an aries woman dating a virgo man and instantly fell in love with him. He is smart, intelligent, hardworker, patient, and shy. I love all these traits about him. I hope it works out in the long run. I can be inpatient and I have a bad temper and go off when upset. He shuts me out c ompletely then I go crazy making up to him. He has some traits I dont like. He can be boring he doesnt talk as much as I do and he is so serious and cheap. We have great sex and overall I love him. He is a caring guy who loves children. I hope he ask to marry me one day because I will say yes. He really balances me out and put his foot down with me and tell me to calm down because im so crazy at times. Lol
I have been with my virgo man faithfully for 3 years, and we just welcomed our first child into our lives. We first met over our summer break, we instantly clicked. We had a very close long distant friendship for about a year. When we met up again we fell in love and have been for the pass 2 years. Most of our relationship was long distance, and I visited him every school break. He is now back home and we argue everyday. Virgo men can be controlling, secretly sensitive, cheap, and harsh at times, and with the aries woman, we can tend to be very independent, aggressive, and thoughtless at times with our actions and words. And both can be selfish at times. Somehow he deals with me and has never given up on me! …..All in all we’re in love and we enjoy being parents to our little one. Most importantly we can’t live without each other!
Met my match and can i just say that we have probably been together in another life. He completes me, attentive lover, caring, actually wants to listen to me talk his ear off, wants a family, very family oriented, gentleman, sweetheart, when he’s serious it’s very well thought out and warm hearted. He loves to workout and be healthy, smoking weed represents his earthly nature i guess. We may disagree on so many things but we learn to adjust and adapt, he can be cheap and settle but he’s a hustler and works for that money. He is a secretly shy sensative male, he will need a push every now and then or someone to motivate him build his ego, which is why i think he’s so fond of me being affectionate and loving toward him. We would do anything for each other and we’ve only been together for a little amount of time. I wish to always work hard and keep our relationship healthy and alive, you have to work real hard to understand each other to make these two signs work out too be perfect :)
I am an aries girl with a virgo boyfriend. We have very strong feelings for each other but don’t necessarily know what it is that connects us. We care for each other but aren’t the best at expressing our feelings to each other. We have been together for several months and the differences are getting more apparent which causes some arguments (we cool off and make up right away every single time). Our communication needs work but through it all we still care deeply for each other. I am irrational, impatient and quick tempered at times and he’s stubborn and emotionally blocked. But I have learned so much from him like curbing my selfishness, thinking before reacting and being kind and respectful. He is a wonderful person that always try to make me and others smile. Once we work on our issues I know our relationship will progress much further. Oh and the intimate moments are fireeee. He never dissapoints!!!
I’m an Aries Lady (Moon in Aquarius) and my Virgo (Moon in Scorpio) is my perfect guy. I’ve dated quite a bit and with my high ideals, it’s hard finding anyone to compare. It took a lot of patience (mainly on my end) to get through our differences in the beginning of our relationship, but one year later and I couldn’t imagine my life without him. He’s amazing, powerful, patient, and kind. He’s affectionate, admirable, sexy, and goofy. He’s my friend, my lover, and my soul-mate. You’d think with my Moon placement that it’d be a hard match, but being adaptable (as all us Arians typically are) there weren’t many issues. He brings out all my best qualities and FINALLY do I have a man who makes me feel like a lady without feeling like I need to be dominated. I love my Virgo :)!
We’ve been together for almost a year now, well, all I can say is that it is hell of an emotional rollercoaster! He’s my best friend yet he is my worst enemy. There’s too much differences between us yet there’s so much attraction as well. So whatever happens, how hard we fight, there’s some sort of this attraction that pulls us back together. its amazing yet frustrating at the same time. We hate each others guts yet we cant stay apart! Just amazing! lol
Im virgo woman. My boyfriend of 2yrs is an Aries man.We were friends for a year before we finally dated. He’s a great lover. Awesome protector. Can be a bit aggressive and controlling at times but its only with best interest at heart. Very outingoing. Personalities clash at times because we’re total opposites. I’m more reserved and old fashioned. He’s more spontaneous and mysterious.. which draws me to him the most. Such a carefree spirit. Im still trying to learn to be a lil more careless while teaching him patience and serious responsibility. We still have a ways to go but we’re the perfect team wen together. We may have different views of life but one thing is the same..wen we love together we love deeply and forever!! I love him so much!! I couldnt imagine being without him its a spiritual tie. Strongest bond I’ve ever known?
I have been with a Virgo Woman for about 6 months. In the beginning sparks flew, I really loved her intelligence, curiosity, and being doted on. We really thought we complimented each other, like her strengths were my weaknesses, and vice vers. Things went well until we started having minor(at least I thought they were minor) problems. For her, problems are monumental. She over analyzes every little nuance in the relationship, finding problems where there are no problems. Everything is analyzed; body language, facial expressions, intonation, daily routines, touch, etc.etc. She holds it all in, until she bursts. The straw that breaks the camels back can be anything, and the flood of criticism ensues. Communication is impossible at this time, and any discussion from me is analysed, which then leads to arguments about talking points, vernacular, grammar use. It’s madness for the Aries!! I feel like I’m walking on thin ice around her, just waiting for the next blow up.
My darling is a Virgo. We’ve known each other for over 6 years and have been together for a year. I’ve dated quite a bit, and many different astrological signs. My Virgo is THE only one who makes my heart content, something I’ve struggled with in the past. I overanalyze little issues, b/c I believe in a fairytale romance, something which he has exceeded. My man is perfect and I know he’s the one! The only other sign that’s come close to getting me close to feeling like I could settle down was my Gemini boyfriend of 3 years. He was exciting and fun, but jealousy got in the way and he would lie about sketchy situations. He burned that trust bridge, something I have never had to worry about with my Virgo darling. VIRGO AND ARIES FOR THE WIN! :)
I love him dearly , fought and tried very hard for our relationship for about 5 years off and on. But it’s just not a good match at all this is something I’m actually trying to get out of now. my dad is also a virgo a lot of Miscommunication that leads in to horrible arguments. we just view life differently I feel like at this point the love I have for him isn’t worth fighting for anymore I will not be happy & our relationship will lead to divorce. A lot has happened during our breaks ( because of his disappearing acts & being promiscuous ) but I’ll say if it’s already been 2 years for you and it’s still not as comfortable as you wish for an Aries , get out now Virgos are very manipulating and will make you feel like it’s your fault they hide their emotions and That’s not something aries woman are comfortable with. Trust me in the long run you ( Aries ) will not be happy !
yes i`m dating a Leo he`s very loving and supportive but at times He can be a little over the top with things…He`s very proctive of me just a little comment from a another male can throught him off for the wrost .But he`s very loving and really takes the time to see what makes me happy,sad,mad,or cry
So.. I have been married to my Aries husband for almost 1 and a half years. We fought a lot in the beginning as we got used to one another and there were many times that I wanted to walk out but he would beg me to stay. I criticized him alot because I didn’t understand him. There is however an indescribable connection with my aries that made me feel as though I could never leave him and live with myself. It wasn’t guilt. Whether I knew it or not, I loved him beyond words and had so much (and still do) to learn from him. Aries are amazing people!! We still fight now (although a lot less) because we have learned to work together and support one another. We also have a great deal of respect for each other. We have a bright future and I can’t wait to have children with him. Good luck to all you Aries-Virgo couples out there. Remember good things/ people/etc. are hard to find and are definitely worth fighting for!! And that honesty is the best policy!!
Me and my virgo have been together for almost 8 years now. We met in high school, we went to the same college and now we are going to study and live together in China. We started as friends, we used to talk for hours after school, then we started dating. We had some issues at the beginning because altough he was gentle, he didn’t know how to express his feelings and was really really cold to me when we argued. I was super hot tempered and these differences caused a lot of suffering to us both. We managed to work that out and now we communicate and express feelings very well, without big arguments. Sex with him is awesome, I’m very atracted to him and for his reactions I can tell that he has plenty of sexual pleasure with me. I just would like if he was a bit more creative in bed, because I really enjoy new stuff. We have a wonderful time together, he’s my best friend and we talk about everything. We make plans together, and he’s very sweet to me. I love him more than anything.
I am an aries woman who met my Virgo soulmate when I was 15 yrs old. From the moment I met him I loved him. The problem was that I was dating his friend. Over the yrs, well after it was over with the friend, we’d keep in touch, living over 1000 miles apart he was still able to make me feel loved and appreciated. I love him! The problem? I literally do not comprehend his thought process/need for everything to be perfect/insistence on beating a dead horse. I just don’t get it and I’m always left wondering how the end result always comes to us being apart. No matter how hard we try. It’s like we speak different languages sometimes. I miss him
So I (Virgo) met my now Aries husband almost 3 years ago and the attraction was instant. He presued me like I was the last woman on Earth and once he had my heart, he cherished it. He married me within 5 months of meeting me for the first time. In the beginning of our marriage, it took a while to get used to one another- different personalities, styles, etc. Thus, we fought and at times, alot. But these times made us stronger, not weaker. We are more in love today than we were when we first met. As a person, my Aries is patient, loving, generous, supportive, faithful, hardworking, and funny. The sex and intimacy are off the charts good. We enjoy every moment that we are not at work, together. We enjoy the big and small things together like eating ice cream on the couch or traveling abroad. So..Aries or not, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am so thankful because everyday feels like a dream come true- a real fairy tale