Cancer Man (June 22 to July 22)
Cancer boys are so secretive. And daydreamers too. He has so many moods you don’t know WHO you’ll get, will it be the charming and flirtatious Cancer guy or the dark, artistic, brooding Cancer guy (that one is said in a booming voice.)
He has high expectations for his friends & loved ones — he expects them to be perfect in every way — smart, gorgeous, a go-getter, and a fab host. Yeesh.
He is a fantabulous listener and can make you feel like the center of the universe (which you probably are anyway) He takes love very seriously and would never dream of cheating.
He loves to eat and drink but won’t dress up for any occasion, clothes are bothersome. Crudeness and vulgarity turn him off, that is, until you get to know him and then, well. . .
Cancer men have a reputation for being sensitive. They are not unpredictable, but their behavior is greatly affected by what they feel or think.
For example, if offered words of affection, Cancer men will feel on top of the world, while criticism and arguments will leave them feeling hurt.
These men are generally very loyal people to their partners, or anyone close to them.
For example, he is very cautious in his relationships because he is aware of how much it will hurt to be cheated, to get upset over something not worth being upset over, or even hurt themselves. Although he may at some point harm someone through carelessness, i.e., an accident.
This could upset the people surrounding him, but he is very attuned to what he can do to avoid that from happening in the first place.
He is sometimes a drama queen, there’s no other way to put it.
When he feels hurt or upset, rather than communicate in a rational way to resolve the issue or problem, he makes a big deal out of things, further complicating the issues and circumstances.
A cancer man is not really a fearless character. Is that to say they are scared or unwilling to take risks?
No, simply because they enjoy comfort and tranquility more than anything else, they tend not to open themselves up to risks beyond what they’re ready to handle.
It’s still likely that a cancer man will react with courage when the situation calls for it, but that’s simply because of their nature more than any kind of conscious decision on their part.
Cancers are known to be very emotionally driven. They’re always glad to remain close to those they love and in many situations, you will find them in the company of loved ones or family because their lives are filled with these special people who make their hearts glow.
The Cancer man especially loves keeping close to his favorite people in his world (which is why he tends to fall apart when one of these beloved people passes away) He definitely would not be comfortable sitting alone or doing activities that are viewed as less social by most.
Rubbing elbows with friends and his loved ones is what makes him thrive!
Cancer Man Good Traits
- Known to be super sweet
- Big-hearted with a huge sensitive side
- Very emotional sign, Honesty is the best policy
- One of the best to communicate through Physical contact. Do you love kisses and cuddles? then you will get kisses and cuddles!
- Romantic with a side of cheese
- Close to family and friends
- Makes one of the best hosts of the zodiac
- You will feel safe 100% by his side
- Can’t lie to save his life
Cancer Man Bad Traits
- Mood swings alert!
- doesn’t know how to handle losses very well when he feels attacked
- Has a hard time verbally communicating wishes and thoughts unless necessary.
- prone to jealousy.
Cancer Man in Love
This man is full of love and passion. He is indeed very emotional and affectionate. Most of the time, people consider them needy when they get emotionally upset.
Cancer men can appear overly demanding when dealing with someone who needs a little space and leads an independent lifestyle. Since they don’t give them enough space.
These relationships don’t usually work out.
However, the best partner for this person is someone who enjoys spending time with their loved ones. Someone who adores holding hands, sweet kisses, or simply living life together.
There’s a good chance that this combo will work out, and they will enjoy a happy life together.
In relationships, they often have the tendency to overreact, which causes problems.
Sometimes they take everything you say to heart. Other times they might take a small issue, and make it bigger than it really is.
This can sometimes cause a lot of problems in a relationship. You always want to make sure that your partner is honest with you, and you never want to walk on eggshells, right?
Therefore, what cancer needs to do in this situation is de-stress a little bit. Focus on the big picture, and not on the small stuff. When they’re able to do that, they won’t push their partner away.
One positive thing that they bring to a relationship though is that they are sometimes very affectionate or so loving. In all honesty, there’s nothing wrong with that! Who wouldn’t want someone who shows them love every single day?
Their loving nature makes it hard for them to become hostile or aggressive, but that doesn’t mean they’re weak or incapable of defending themselves or others.
They ensure that any problems the couple may have are addressed and discussed.
Their views on resolving conflicts are simple – they always try to do it with a lot of love and the closeness that they share with their partner.
By resolving things in this way, they can maintain their relationship and keep the love alive.
This is the boyfriend you would bring home to visit your parents. He is very family-oriented and can more than likely win over your parents.
These guys are well known when it comes to the fact that they are affectionate and loving. They show a compassionate and caring side that sometimes other signs can’t match.
Always there for their partner, they make sure they have everything they need. He is an excellent support system!
But when he is your man, you have to understand that he does have some insecurities and anxiety. There might be times that you have to reassure him that he is the one for you.
Or show him that you can be trusted with his heart.
Since he’s very attentive, he might feel the need to always be with his partner. As if he has an insatiable desire to be around them at all times.
However, this man is always honest and upfront. When it comes to his feelings, this man will never fail to show them.
The man will tell you many times how much he loves you. He might even announce it to the world!
Make sure you always stay in touch with him when you’re with him. This is one of the most important things that helps keep him connected to you, and it also helps reduce his insecurity a little.
Helping him feel more confident with you might encourage him to give you more alone time.
There’s just something about this man that makes them irresistible as boyfriends. Maybe it’s their passionate nature or the way they know how to make you feel special.
No matter what it is, they make great partners and are worth taking a chance on!
How To Get A Cancer Man’s Attention
What to focus on:
- Due to cancers being very emotional, they do tend to have their highs and lows a lot. When he’s having fun, you go and have just as much fun as he is. When he’s not having a good day, do what you can to help pick him up.
- Be a genuine person around this guy. He is quite intuitive and he knows when somebody is not being truthful with him
- He does like to be social and do social things but in moderation. Sometimes he just likes to sit on the couch and watch movies and cuddle up.
- Due to that emotional capability that he has, you’ll find that when you are having a good time, he is having a good time. On the flip side of things when you’re not doing too well, he will be very sympathetic to what you’re dealing with. It’s almost like your issue is becoming his.
- He likes to be with somebody that will stimulate his mind. He really enjoys spending time with somebody that can carry on a conversation.
What Not To Do:
- Tread lightly when it comes to disagreeing with things that he believes in. If there’s one thing that can really bring him down it is somebody that trashes things that he believes him. He might take that as a personal slight against him.
- Don’t try and control this man either. If you’re trying to get your way on a matter, take a very diplomatic approach to it. If you take the time to work out an agreement with him you’ll find that you will get your way more often than not.
- When you go out to see him try and leave your personal emotional baggage at home. As soon as you’re with him if you’re in a bad mood or upset he will pick up on it pretty quickly. Your bad mood will quickly turn into his bad mood. Due to him being emotional, He truly cares about your well-being.
- He appreciates Beauty even though he doesn’t date women just for their looks. Just make sure that you don’t get too careless about your personal appearance, more so your hygiene. That doesn’t mean that he’s expecting you to be a supermodel 24 hours a day. he’s realistic as he knows that he can’t be looking his best all the time, neither can you. He just loves to be with a woman that will take care of herself.
How to Attract a Cancer Man
How to Attract a Cancer Man. The Cancer man is extremely sensitive and full of emotions and feelings. For those women who are looking for a man who listens to them and shows emotion, then the Cancer man is the perfect partner for you.
Cancer men are full of passion, romance, and feelings and they are always willing to let you know how they feel at any given time.
To attract him, you need to stimulate his emotions and cater to his need for passion and love. Cancer men can be shy and reclusive, so you may need to make the first move when trying to attract a Cancer.
To really win over a Cancer man, you will also need to get inside his head and really understand his emotions. If you aren’t able to grasp the severity of the Cancer man’s feelings, then he may not want to continue a relationship.
He is also not interested in superficial or shallow people. They love to interact with other dreamers who love to socialize about the soft side of life.
They want to love and be loved, so you will find yourself immersed in plenty of passion by dating a Cancer.
In your quest on how to get him, you will need to support his dreams. They are also very romantic, so surprise him with a beautiful, candle-lit dinner in your lingerie. The Cancer man wants his partner to continue the passion and romance even after dating or in a relationship for a long period of time.
They are also very sensitive, so you need to be very gentle when you criticize them. If you can balance criticism with his feelings, he will appreciate your advice. They are also very faithful men, so enjoy the most romantic and sensitive zodiac sign as your special man.
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Dating a Cancer man
How to approach him for the first time
out of all the signs, this is one of the most fearful when it comes to approaching women. They never want to be in a situation where they have to face rejection.
Unless they can truly feel 100% safe with the person that they are trying to be with, they will never initiate the first move even if they truly want to.
If they do make the first move it’s probably because they really truly want you in their life and they’re risking it all for one shot.
You really need to make this man feel like he is important to you. He needs to know without a doubt that you are truly interested in the possibility of dating him. Be the brave one and ask him out.
Show him the side of you that cares a lot. He truly is a very sensitive type of guy.
Showing him that you care will help get him out of his shell. By seeing your vulnerable side you will be able to secure this guy as your own.
So you got your first date
almost right away you should let him know that you are interested in him. He likes the idea of being reassured that he is liked.
You can do this by showing him some affection towards him through light cuddling ( from behind quick cuddle) or playful contact.
He likes his women to be very warm and affectionate. If you come off as cold or detached, his interests will start to wane quickly. His guard will go back up very quickly.
This is one of the men of the zodiac signs that has no problems showing that he has a gentle soft feminine side.
If you can listen to him as a friend, be caring, and be a lover all in one, this will be one of many dates you will have with this gentleman.
Sexually speaking if you’re looking for your first date to go beyond just a goodnight kiss or a hug, you need to initiate some affectionate hand-holding, and just start giving him that flirty look.
His preference is that he wants a woman that is sensual and very passionate, but he’s also a realistic person and knows that that is not going to come within the first night.
So you want to get out of a date with a Cancer man
- be completely insensitive to any feeling he has.
- Show him a side of you that you know he would not like to see.
- Turn yourself off, just be as cold as possible towards him
- Make it seem like you’re not having a good time at all
his zones are the Chest, breast, and neck. These are all very sensual and sensitive areas on him. Hit him with those passionate kisses and you’ll have him going.
Sex With A Cancer Man
Cancer is so adaptable and will love to have it your way. They are better than any other sign at tuning in to the needs and wants of others. You will think this man is psychic if you play along.
Thrill him by insisting that you go back to his place. Cancers love their homes and will delight in a thoughtful host gift.
But be careful now; Cancers are emotional signs so make sure you pay close attention and be sensitive to his feelings long before you even think about sex.
Turn Ons: A 24-7 relationship. You want to be best friends, roommates, and lovers, and wouldn’t dream of making plans without including your mate. Sex is more emotional than physical for you, so your partner has to want a complete connection with you.
Turn Offs: You’re so sensitive that you can’t handle a lover who’s not in touch with her feelings. A woman who’s ultra-carefree makes you feel vulnerable and unwanted. While you’ll put up with criticism from a lover, it hurts you deeply — even if you don’t show it.
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