The Cancer Man
Cancer boys are so secretive. And daydreamers too. He has so many moods you don’t know WHO you’ll get, will it be the charming and flirtatious Cancer guy or the dark, artistic, brooding Cancer guy (that one is said in a booming voice.) He has high expectations for his friends & loved ones — he expects them to be perfect in every way — smart, gorgeous, a go-getter, and a fab host. Yeesh. He is a fantabulous listener and can make you feel like the center of the universe (which you probably are anyway) He takes love very seriously and would never dream of cheating. He loves to eat and drink but won’t dress up for any occasion, clothes are bothersome. Crudeness and vulgarity turn him off, that is, until you get to know him and then, well. . .
What You Will Learn:
- 1 His Profile
- 2 Cancer Man Personality
- 3 The Crab is his Symbol
- 4 Moon Is His Ruler
- 5 Water Is His Element
- 6 Cardinal Is His Quality
- 7 Cancer Man Traits
- 8 How To Get A Cancer Man’s Attention
- 9 How to Attract a Cancer Man
- 10 Dating a Cancer man
- 11 Erogenous zones
- 12 Sex With A cancer Man
- 13 How to Keep your Cancer man around
Cancer men have a reputation for being sensitive. They are not unpredictable, but their behavior is greatly affected by what they feel or think. For example, if offered words of affection, Cancer men will feel on top of the world, while criticism and arguments will leave them feeling hurt.
These men are generally very loyal people to their partners, or anyone close to them. For example, he is very cautious in his relationships because he is aware of how much it will hurt to be cheated, to get upset over something not worth being upset over, or even hurt themselves. Although he may at some point harm someone through carelessness, i.e., an accident. This could upset the people surrounding him, but he is very attuned to what he can do to avoid that from happening in the first place.
He is sometimes a drama queen, there’s no other way to put it. When he feels hurt or upset, rather than communicate in a rational way to resolve the issue or problem, he makes a big deal out of things, further complicating the issues and circumstances.
A cancer man is not really a fearless character. Is that to say they are scared or unwilling to take risks? No, simply because they enjoy comfort and tranquility more than anything else, they tend not to open themselves up to risks beyond what they’re ready to handle. It’s still likely that a cancer man will react with courage when the situation calls for it, but that’s simply because of their nature more than any kind of conscious decision on their part.
Cancers are known to be very emotionally driven. They’re always glad to remain close to those they love and in many situations, you will find them in the company of loved ones or family because their lives are filled with these special people who make their hearts glow. The Cancer man especially loves keeping close to his favorite people in his world (which is why he tends to fall apart when one of these beloved people passes away) He definitely would not be comfortable sitting alone or doing activities that are viewed as less social by most. Rubbing elbows with friends and his loved ones is what makes him thrive!
Cancer Man Personality
- Known to be super sweet
- Big-hearted with a huge sensitive side
- Very emotional sign, Honesty is the best policy
- One of the best to communicate through Physical contact. Do you love kisses and cuddles? then you will get kisses and cuddles!
- Romantic with a side of cheese
- Close to family and friends
- Makes one of the best hosts of the zodiac
- You will feel safe 100% by his side
- Can’t lie to save his life
- Mood swings alert!
- doesn’t know how to handle losses very well when he feels attacked
- Has a hard time verbally communicating wishes and thoughts unless necessary.
The Crab is his Symbol
The Crab is a perfect symbol for Cancer because of how volatile the sign can be emotionally. They’re possessive, tough, and protective on the outside but vulnerable and within an inch of their lives on the inside.
They may not let you pass through their barriers with ease unless they decide to let you in, but just beware of those claws! They offer him protection as well. they can penetrate deep and hurt more than just the heart.
Moon Is His Ruler
The dark and mysterious moon rules over their cancer sign. So if you find it hard to understand or comprehend this man at times, now you can understand why. The Moon rules over our self needs, our desires to feel safe and secure, and our need to be nurtured, with the moon itself being maternal energy.
The moon brings feminine energy, and just like she rules over the oceans and seas, she does the same thing with emotions. The moon has a very strong and forceful influence over our own personal and emotional ups and downs.
It can bring different emotions to different situations. On one side of the equation, it can bring inspiration, creativity, and Imagination. On the other side of things, it can make us ill-tempered, unreasonable, and brash.
The Sun is the polar opposite of the Moon, which is cool and hidden from plain view. The moon loves to disappear and then reappear mysteriously, just like people who are born under the sign of Cancer!
The influence of the Moon is deep and far-reaching and its secrets can be hard to decrypt. Don’t worry that doesn’t mean that this man is up to no good. It also doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have your best interest at heart. It just means that he can be mysterious in how he thinks, and how he makes decisions. He just like many of his counterparts is emotionally charged.
Water Is His Element
Cancer is definitely a water sign who places its heart on its sleeve. You can tell he’s sensitive because if you look into his eyes, you’ll see an infinite pool of emotions. He’s the type that can hold a lot of bitterness or resentment towards a person if they cross him the wrong way.
On the other side of things, he’s able to care very deeply for people. He is rather affectionate, and enjoys giving his affection and love freely to the right person. If anyone could ever give unconditional love, it’s him. Something he would love to have in return.
The cancer man has the capability to adjust to circumstances and changes more so than the other two water signs. Just like the water itself, this man will be able to naturally blend in with your lifestyle.
One thing that he is really good at doing is being able to look at things from your point of view unless you’re in an argument with him. He will take your side against other people, but he will do his best to understand where you’re coming from if you both are in disagreement.
Water signs are known to be very insightful and intuitive. He is likely to take a lot of time to figure you out and find ways to relate to you.
Water signs are known to be very emotional. So much so that they sometimes take on other people’s emotional baggage. That can be something that drags them down in life and starts to really weigh heavily on their shoulders. They really want the best for the people that they care about the most.
Cardinal Is His Quality
The cancer man is a cardinal sign who has an attitude of strength. Every decision that he makes originates from his emotions. Even though he leads with the heart, he will not let anyone stand in the way of getting things accomplished. Obviously carried out in his own way and not in the way of others.
Cancer Man Traits
Loves to be at home loves his mum unless there is some very deep reason why not! Habitual and steady he tends to have sunglasses on his wallet moths for when they next see the daylight, but when he thinks it is a worthy cause can be very generous. Tends to be romantic sincere and prone to jealousy.
How To Get A Cancer Man’s Attention
What to focus on:
- Due to cancers being very emotional, they do tend to have their highs and lows a lot. When he’s having fun, you go and have just as much fun as he is. When he’s not having a good day, do what you can to help pick him up.
- Be a genuine person around this guy. He is quite intuitive and he knows when somebody is not being truthful with him
- He does like to be social and do social things but in moderation. Sometimes he just likes to sit on the couch and watch movies and cuddle up.
- Due to that emotional capability that he has, you’ll find that when you are having a good time, he is having a good time. On the flip side of things when you’re not doing too well, he will be very sympathetic to what you’re dealing with. It’s almost like your issue is becoming his.
- He likes to be with somebody that will stimulate his mind. He really enjoys spending time with somebody that can carry on a conversation.
What Not To Do:
- Tread lightly when it comes to disagreeing with things that he believes in. If there’s one thing that can really bring him down it is somebody that trashes things that he believes him. He might take that as a personal slight against him.
- Don’t try and control this man either. If you’re trying to get your way on a matter, take a very diplomatic approach to it. If you take the time to work out an agreement with him you’ll find that you will get your way more often than not.
- When you go out to see him try and leave your personal emotional baggage at home. As soon as you’re with him if you’re in a bad mood or upset he will pick up on it pretty quickly. Your bad mood will quickly turn into his bad mood. Due to him being emotional, He truly cares about your well-being.
- He appreciates Beauty even though he doesn’t date women just for their looks. Just make sure that you don’t get too careless about your personal appearance, more so your hygiene. That doesn’t mean that he’s expecting you to be a supermodel 24 hours a day. he’s realistic as he knows that he can’t be looking his best all the time, neither can you. He just loves to be with a woman that will take care of herself.
How to Attract a Cancer Man
How to Attract a Cancer Man. The Cancer man is extremely sensitive and full of emotions and feelings. For those women who are looking for a man who listens to them and shows emotion, then the Cancer man is the perfect partner for you.
Cancer men are full of passion, romance, and feelings and they are always willing to let you know how they feel at any given time. To attract a Cancer man, you need to stimulate his emotions and cater to his need for passion and love. Cancer men can be shy and reclusive, so you may need to make the first move when trying to attract a Cancer.
To really win over a Cancer man, you will also need to get inside his head and really understand his emotions. If you aren’t able to grasp the severity of the Cancer man’s feelings, then he may not want to continue a relationship.
Cancer men are also not interested in superficial or shallow people. They love to interact with other dreamers who love to socialize about the soft side of life. They want to love and be loved, so you will find yourself immersed in plenty of passion by dating a Cancer.
On your quest on how to attract a Cancer man, you will need to support his dreams. Cancer men are also very romantic, so surprise him with a beautiful, candle-lit dinner in your lingerie. The Cancer man wants his partner to continue the passion and romance even after dating or in a relationship for a long period of time.
Cancer men are also very sensitive, so you need to be very gentle when you criticize him. If you can balance criticism with his feelings, the Cancer man will appreciate your advice. They are also very faithful men, so enjoy the most romantic and sensitive zodiac sign as your special man.
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Dating a Cancer man
How to approach him for the first time
out of all the signs, this is one of the most fearful when it comes to approaching women. They never want to be in a situation where they have to face rejection.
Unless they can truly feel 100% safe with the person that they are trying to be with, they will never initiate the first move even if they truly want to. If they do make the first move it’s probably because they really truly want you in their life and they’re risking it all for one shot.
You really need to make this man feel like he is important to you. He needs to know without a doubt that you are truly interested in the possibility of dating him. Be the brave one and ask him out.
Show him the side of you that cares a lot. He truly is a very sensitive type of guy. Showing him that you care will help get him out of his shell. By seeing your vulnerable side you will be able to secure this guy as your own.
So you got your first date
almost right away you should let him know that you are interested in him. He likes the idea of being reassured that he is liked. You can do this by showing him some affection towards him through light cuddling ( from behind quick cuddle) or playful contact.
He likes his women to be very warm and affectionate. If you come off as cold or detached, his interests will start to wane quickly. His guard will go back up very quickly.
This is one of the men of the zodiac signs that has no problems showing that he has a gentle soft feminine side. If you can listen to him as a friend, be caring, and be a lover all in one, this will be one of many dates you will have with this gentleman.
Sexually speaking if you’re looking for your first date to go beyond just a goodnight kiss or a hug, you need to initiate some affectionate hand-holding, and just start giving him that flirty look.
His preference is that he wants a woman that is sensual and very passionate, but he’s also a realistic person and knows that that is not going to come within the first night.
So you want to get out of a date with a Cancer man
- be completely insensitive to any feeling he has.
- Show him a side of you that you know he would not like to see.
- Turn yourself off, just be as cold as possible towards him
- make it seem like you’re not having a good time at all
his zones are the Chest, breast, and neck. These are all very sensual and sensitive areas on him. Hit him with those passionate kisses and you’ll have him going.
Sex With A cancer Man
Cancer is so adaptable and will love to have it your way. They are better than any other sign at tuning in to the needs and wants of others. You will think this man is psychic if you play along.
Thrill him by insisting that you go back to his place. Cancers love their homes and will delight in a thoughtful host gift. But careful now; Cancers are emotional signs so make sure you pay close attention and be sensitive to his feelings long before you even think about sex.
Turn Ons: A 24-7 relationship. You want to be best friends, roommates, and lovers, and wouldn’t dream of making plans without including your mate. Sex is more emotional than physical for you, so your partner has to want a complete connection with you.
Turn Offs: You’re so sensitive that you can’t handle a lover who’s not in touch with her feelings. A woman who’s ultra-carefree makes you feel vulnerable and unwanted. While you’ll put up with criticism from a lover, it hurts you deeply — even if you don’t show it.
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How to Keep your Cancer man around
share with him too
Finally ladies, a guy that loves to talk about his feelings. He is a good listener when it comes to your own issues, and can equal that out by being a good talker as well. He will share his innermost feelings and thoughts with you, and will also be very caring when it comes to your innermost feelings and thoughts as well. He does have the ability to get very emotional over things.
Feed this man
This is a man that truly loves his comfort food. Sometimes when he’s down in the dumps even something as simple as chicken wings will get this guy in a better mood. He is also always down for a home-cooked meal. If you can show him that you are a better cook than he is, then he will be all yours. He’s not expecting you to slave away in the kitchen though.
Show interest in his Hobbies
Take time out to understand what kind of things he is interested in. If this is something that you could see yourself getting into then why don’t you take the time to get to know more about it? If he’s interested in baseball as an example if you’re not as knowledgeable on it as he is ( you might only know the basics ), ask him about it because he’ll be more than happy to tell you how the game is played. He will love that you showed interest in the first place.
Take the time for family and friends
This is a guy that really has a soft spot for his family and his friends. If he sees that you love your family as much as he does it will also bring you both closer. Becoming one with his inner circle will help you integrate into his life even easier. So take the time to get to know his friends, and if he lets you meet his family take him up on it. As you integrate with them you will see a big smile on his face.
Leave him alone when he needs to be left alone
When a cancer man starts to get into a bad mood, he really needs time to brood over it. This is the moment that he kind of pulls back into his shell. He will take his space when he needs it, and you should give him the space that he needs. When he wants to talk about what’s going on you will definitely be one of the first to know.
This is a guy that needs to have a little positive reinforcement in his life. If you tell him things like you failed at doing something, or that his dreams are stupid you will lose this guy. Make sure those crab claws never come out by picking and choosing your arguments wisely.
Accept his ever-changing emotions
The cancer man is ruled by the moon. So just like the moon has different phases, so does this man when it comes to his emotions. You have no other choice but to do that with this man. Sometimes he’ll be very happy and other times he will be sad. That’s what makes this a Man of Mystery, but a good and worthy mystery indeed.
bring him into your home
This guy is the quintessential homebody. There is nowhere he would rather be. He would love to spend morning, noon, and night with you there. Whether it involves just a quiet time with the both of you together there, or even if you’re inviting guests over for a dinner party. The great thing about inviting him in is that he will do his fair share to help you keep the place thriving. His place will become your place, your place will become his.
Cuddle Em Up
This truly is one of the most romantic signs of the zodiac. He has no problem holding your hand in public, or even cuddling Under the Stars. In fact, one of the best recipes that cancer loves is that of cuddling+ kissing + hugs.
Give him that Romance
The funny thing about this one is he will probably try and romance you more so than you can imagine. So the more that you try and romance him the more you’ll get it in return. He will appreciate candlelit dinners, romantic walks on the beach, and even cuddling under the blankets and talking about you both as an item. There is no level of romance that this guy will not move to.