The Gemini Guy
This boy can not stop moving! He is just so damn restless. Unfortunately, whatever he is doing at the time takes a backseat to what he THINKS HE COULD be doing. His brain is always a few steps ahead of his body. Gemini men are usually big talkers, full of wit and wisdom and utter coolness. If he fails at something, well lookout because he will sink into dark, bottomless despair that is just no fun at all. This boy relishes freedom so no pinning downtimes and places and meetings, he wants to be born free like that cheesy lion cub from that movie. Call him a Peter Pan — he’ll never grow up. Women rarely come in as a high priority with this guy. But he’s usually pretty darn bright.
What You Will Learn:
- 0.1 His Profile
- 0.2 Gemini Man Personality
- 0.3 The Twins is his Symbol
- 0.4 Mercury Is His Ruler
- 0.5 Air Is His Element
- 0.6 Mutable Is His Quality
- 0.7 Gemini Man Traits
- 1 How To Get A Gemini Man’s Attention
- 2 How to Attract a Gemini Man
- 3 Dating a Gemini man
- 4 Erogenous zones
- 5 Sex with a Gemini man
- 6 How to Keep your Gemini man around
The Gemini man tends to be intelligent and quite witty. You’ll find that they tend to take on more than one project at a time and manage to balance many things at once.
People say you can’t eat healthily, work out, socialize, hang out with friends and family while still having a loving relationship with a partner? Gemini is proof that this isn’t true, because he can multitask like a pro. To have harmony in their lives, everything has to be balanced.
It’s amazing how well they communicate, they’re never at a loss for words, and they always say what they think. They always say the right thing at the right time. Plus, they’re pretty opinionated, so they talk a lot, especially if it’s a good conversation. There’s no end to what these guys have to say.
They’re always learning new stuff because they need facts and details to form their intelligent viewpoints. Perhaps to keep up with what their friends are talking about, or maybe to catch up on some gossip.
These guys might have trouble staying focused since they are plugged in 24/7. Since they’re able to balance a lot of things in their lives, they do the same thing inside of their minds. Therefore, they could be thinking about one thing, move on to another, sometimes come up with a solution, other times forget to go back to them.
The Gemini man continues to laugh and be energetic as he grows older. They’re always active, happy, and fun to be around. Health challenges in the future and aging aren’t going to stop them.
Gemini Man Personality
- Loves to exercise or participate in some type of sport
- extremely curious type of man, always willing to try new ideas
- intelligence and good with conversations
- One that loves to enjoy freedom
- Also loves solitude
- very sociable loves to surround himself with friends and family
- Very generous in both his time and heart.
- Being a mutable sign himself, he is both flexible and adaptable to any situation.
- With loving his alone time, his distance might make you worry but don’t worry as he will always come back.
The Twins is his Symbol
The Gemini is a lot like their symbol the twins. They actually are one person but have two minds that go at very different paces. Even though you might think you know what is coming next when it comes to this man, they will amaze you by their difference of opinion and how quickly their mood can switch.
Some people might find this distracting, but if you’re a person that loves surprises you’re in for a treat. They will definitely keep you on your toes in a relationship, or life in general.
Mercury Is His Ruler
Gemini is the third sign of the zodiac and falls under the influence of Mercury. People born during this period are characterized by their lively and talkative nature. Self-expression is very important to him. He is truly not happy or content unless he’s discussing or chatting to someone about anything. It doesn’t matter what the topic is he just wants to talk.
Mercury makes them especially intrigued by people and their lives. One thing about Geminis, in particular, is that they usually will remember the person well, and that first impression will be what stays with them for the rest of time. So when it comes to this man first impressions are important.
Gemini is a high-energy person, often nervous and fidgety. It’s very hard for them to be comfortable staying in one place for too long and, unfortunately, even harder to keep as a partner for life. When they do find somebody that they can be with, then they can settle down and move into that kind of lifestyle, but it might take a little work.
If you’re going to get this man and you have to do what you can to capture his heart. One surefire way of doing that is to work with his own traits and qualities. See exactly how you can mold into their lifestyle, with the hopes of sticking with them.
Air Is His Element
Gemini could be none other than an air sign, as they are truly one of the chatterboxes of the zodiac. They want all the information about something before they give their thoughts on it. They like to engage in some friendly gossip every once in a while too. This kind of gossip gives them more insight into others’ lives and makes it easier for them to understand the true intentions of friends, family, and co-workers alike.
As an air sign, these individuals need to have spaces to roam — so when they’re in a relationship, their partners must be careful not to suffocate them. They are always searching and watching for anything interesting. This is a sign that truly has FOMO (fear of missing out). They don’t want to miss anything that they would find completely interesting.
The energy of the air sign is the energy of thoughts. They are always interested in what others feel or think about them. They will always have their cell phones by their side, checking text messages, or even watching their social media profiles. These signs really do love their technology, and as such might find themselves wasting a lot of time on social media apps. To the point that at the end of the day they might wonder where all the time went.
Mutable Is His Quality
Gemini Men fall under the mutable sign, which means they are very adaptable to change and circumstances around them. They can adapt and adjust their personality to suit any given situation.
Gemini Man Traits
Restless and active and inclined to be fickle in love. They are easily bored with you and always want to be in two places at once. Capable of living life in the fast lane,
THE homely clingy type will break her heart over him. Words are his masterstroke if you aren’t there then he will live the one he’s with.
How To Get A Gemini Man’s Attention
What to focus on:
- When you’re out at a social gathering you must realize that you might have to learn how to entertain yourself. He is pretty much a social butterfly and enjoys socializing with people at parties. Just go out and be as social as he is with other people. If you are Wallflower by Nature, then you just have to realize this guy likes to work the room.
- He always has to be on the go no matter what. If he’s run out of things to do, you can take advantage of this moment and get him to help you out with things that you might have needed help with doing.
- He’s a smooth guy when it comes to arguing. He will do everything he can to make you forgive him, and you’ll notice that if you’re mad at him it won’t be for very long.
- Life with this man certainly won’t be boring, because he’s always coming up with something new and interesting to talk about or do.
- This is the type of man that will show up late to an important dinner or event. Take note of his average response time. If he shows up 15 minutes late usually, you do the same thing. That way then you don’t waste any of your time.
- This is a man that likes to talk a lot, so make sure that you pay attention to him. If you show that you’re actually interested in his conversations and not bored he will like that.
What Not To Do:
- When you’re talking to this man don’t try and speak over him when he’s talking. Remember also that you won’t be able to outtalk this guy since he is a very talkative one. If somebody can out-talk him he starts to resent it.
- Wait till you’re alone to bring out the personal displays of affection. He’s not the type of man that likes to have that out in public very much.
- This is the man that truly fears boredom. So don’t try and hold him back from doing things. He always needs to be on the go so if you restrict his movements he won’t like that very much.
- You have to understand that this guy when it comes to certain situations might flip flop on his thought process. One day he might have one opinion on something, the next day he might have a completely different one. Just wait it out and see what opinion wins over the other.
How to Attract a Gemini Man
If your center of attraction is a Gemini man, then beware of the twin personalities. Gemini men are sweet-talking creatures whose personality can change on a whim.
To attract the Gemini man, you will need to first stimulate his mind with a fun, exciting, and entertaining personality and conversation. Because of their constantly changing behavior patterns, attracting a Gemini male takes a lot of versatile conversation this is always upbeat.
Stimulating his mind isn’t a difficult task if you have a lot of topics to talk about. Always change the subject and keep the Gemini male engaged in the conversation by asking him plenty of questions about himself.
As long as the Gemini male has plenty of topics that keep him talking, he will be attracted and intrigued by you.
After you’ve got him mentally, attract a Gemini man by being actively engaging and free-spirited. Gemini males like lots of physical activities that are filled with surprises.
Take up dancing, riding, skiing, or even travel together to keep the relationship healthy.
Gemini males have a desire for constant activity that is surprising and somewhat dangerous. Be ready for your Gemini male to want to do dangerous things like hang gliding, white water rafting, or even sky diving.
It’s fun to tease a Gemini man as well. They love any kind of stimulation whether it is physical or mental. Always keep your subject new and fresh, or the Gemini male can get bored and wander into another’s arms.
Be flirty and interesting, and the Gemini male will surely be intrigued by your advances. Communication is the key to attract and keep the interest of a Gemini man.
They aren’t interested in the beautiful and boring, but rather they fall deeply in love with the average people who are witty and charming.
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Dating a Gemini man
How to approach him for the first time
this is the gentleman that is always on the go. So what you really need to do is find a way to Peak his interest. If you can do that (and yes you can!) he will take notice of you. Your goal is the find a way into his mind.
This is where you can initiate some playful or sweet mind games. Now I’m not talking about the type of Mind Games that messes with somebody’s head, I’m talking about ones that will get into his mind and make him think about you in a very positive way. Mentally stimulate him, be flirty. That’s the way to get a date with this guy, get him thinking about you.
If you’re able to penetrate his thoughts to the point that he starts thinking about you all the time or at least most of it, you won’t have to be the one that asks for the first date. You’ll be the one accepting or declining his offer.
So you got your first date
he likes to have a person that he can match wits with. You will find that no matter what the conversation is you both can talk about anything and everything for hours.
Keep the date entertaining, by working on that conversation between the two of you, do things that will also keep him guessing about where the night is going. The most important part is to keep this first date light.
Sexually speaking if you’re looking to have him on the first night it won’t take much of an effort to get him into the bedroom like with any man.
The only thing is that you should give him the chance to connect his heart and mind to that experience.
This is basically the type of guy that you could start a conversation with on the couch, continue it down the hallway, and finished it off right on the bed. Then he’s yours.
So you want to get out of a date with a Gemini man
- when having a conversation just go on and on about boring subjects, and don’t stop until he’s rolling his eyes.
- never let him get a word in at all. Just keep the conversation flowing where turns into a one-person monologue.
- basically just Bore him to death
his zones are the hands, arms, and fingers. Take the time to lightly suck on his fingers, kiss on his hands, and up to his arms. Also, you can initiate some light tickling to go with it.
Sex with a Gemini man
Gemini is full of surprises and the twins of the Zodiac will always have you wondering who will show up next. Sex is playtime for the Gemini so put on your game hat and come prepared to laugh in delight.
Better yet come dressed up in a French maid outfit and be the fantasy. Gemini is the sign of communication so feel free to verbally express yourself. Just don’t you dare get emotionally heavy or crude and ruin his good time.
Turn Ons: A lighthearted woman with a sense of humor who’s not looking for more than what you can offer at the moment. You need your space and a lot of variety, so if a mate has her own life you don’t feel like you’re shortchanging her. Frequent quickies are just fine with you too.
Turn Offs: Demands. Having a Talk with a capital T just draws a blank stare from you. Giving you the silent treatment when you’ve screwed up is the surest way to get under your skin. And a woman who doesn’t understand the meaning of a fling doesn’t understand you at all.
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How to Keep your Gemini man around
Let Him Live his life
Now I’m not saying for you to let him leave your life and move on. I’m just suggesting that it’s probably best to keep him on a very light string or leash. This is a guy that loves to travel and be out in the world. That’s just the nature of him since he is ruled by the planet Mercury.
Have fun on your own as well
Now, this guy is a fun person, and what he’s looking for is the same in return. So be the type of person that likes to socialize. Go out and have fun, laugh your heart out, and joke away. If you’re at a party and he sees that you are having fun as well, he will wonder why. He’ll come over and ask you what’s so funny or what’s going on. Let him in on it! He will get it.
understand that he might not like talking about his feelings
He’s not the type of guy that likes to express his feelings too much on Topics. He is indeed a guy that loves to talk, but some things are just better left unsaid in his mind. Gemini is known to not disclose things that are too private to them. If it is important to him he will bring up the discussion with you.
Leave the drama for high school
This is a man that likes to keep things on the light side. That doesn’t mean that he takes life lightly all the time, it just means that he doesn’t want things to be bogged down. He is an air sign so he does not do feelings too well. So things that are dramatic and deep are things that he likes to keep away from him. Always keep things light and fun.
Keep Communication Open with this man
This guy is the type of person that always has to keep the communication going. Whether that involves making a phone call to you during the day to see how you’re doing, or even texting you while he’s at work. If you send him a good morning text telling him that you’re thinking about him you’ll have him smiling ear-to-ear.
Don’t spend your time trying to figure him out
Remember that Gemini is the twins. So you never know what aspect of him you’re dealing with. He is a really deep guy, to begin with, so the best decision to make is not to waste time trying to figure out what he’s thinking.
Be flirty with him
Make sure to keep everything kind of light with him as well. He tends to keep it light himself but does have a naughty side that is also kind of innocent in a way. They love a woman that will tease them, and who is a big flirt. The keyword when it comes to flirt is that they’re a big flirt with only them. Throw some winks his way, or lick your lips at him. Very shortly you’ll figure out exactly what gets him going.
Get excited about things
One of his biggest pet peeves is completely boring. If you can show this man that you get excited over things he will completely love that. He finds that women that find life thrilling are amazing.
Keep up on events
Always keep yourself informed on current events or anything to do with travel or technology. This is a guy that’s always up-to-date about things. He will talk to you about the latest movies that are coming out, books that he can’t wait to read, songs that he jams to in the car. It may seem like a lot of work but this is one of the things you need to do when dating a Gemini guy.
Be the fantasy girl
He loves to play games in the bedroom. More so in the role-playing section of things. He likes things to get hot but not too kinky. Different outfits will also get his mind going and more. Keeping it a little spicy in the bedroom will keep him in your life.