The Virgo Guy
Ruled by his mind he is. Work comes first. Always. He is very picky about whom he “chooses” as his friends and you can bet they will be an interesting and eclectic bunch, all probably pretty darn smart. Because he is hypercritical of his own work, expect him to be the same concerning other people’s work and behavior. He finds women, um, er, “curious.” Many life-long bachelors are Virgos because they don’t quite “get” women and they are so obsessed with working. You will never find a Virgo guy wearing any clothes with a swanky label in ’em. He despises anything trendy. Wow. This sounds just like my friend and he’s a Virgo. Damn.
What You Will Learn:
- 1 Virgo Man Personality
- 2 The Virgin is his Symbol
- 3 Mercury Is His Ruler
- 4 Earth Is His Element
- 5 Mutable Is His Quality
- 6 How To Get A Virgo Man’s Attention
- 7 How to Attract a Virgo Man
- 8 Dating a Virgo man
- 9 Erogenous zones
- 10 Sex With A Virgo Man
- 11 How to Keep your Virgo man around
Virgo Man Personality
- Super attractive and can be one to be organized
- Patient and intelligent makes the right decisions after analyzing the problem and all solutions.
- Romantic and sincere
- Super faithful type of guy
- Sensitive, and this makes him want to be the type of guy to go out of his way to help solve issues.
- Likes people that peel back the layers and let them see the real you.
- not a one-nighter type of man.
- long term relationship type material.
- Is a good lie detector, if you lie he will know. ( this isn’t a bad personality trait unless you want to keep a secret)
- Can be a perfectionist at times
- may take him a little time to show interest
- doesn’t like one-night stands if that’s your goal, if not this isn’t a bad thing.
The Virgin is his Symbol
The symbol of the Virgo man is the Virgin, but be aware that he is not as innocent as he seems. There are times in life where he can be seduced to the dark side, so he’s not always the faithful and loyal partner. These men can be very self-reliant and always working on perfecting things in their lives.
Sometimes they also give the impression of being unreachable or unavailable. This is because they won’t just give themselves to any person out there. They want somebody that they know is worth every moment that they put into them.
If you really want to obtain this man what you really need to do is make him understand or believe that he himself is not an easy catch. He himself will appreciate the fact that work was involved to obtain his heart.
Mercury Is His Ruler
Mercury is the planet that rules Virgo. Gemini is the only other sign that is ruled by Mercury. Unlike Geminis who tend to be chatterboxes, he is the type who spends a lot of time thinking and analyzing. All the fantasies and events that come up in his life tend to keep him busy. He is not truly satisfied unless he has something to think about.
With all of that mercury energy flowing through his veins he can be very curious and investigative. The planet is influential in how we convey to others our wishes and desires. As well as how we communicate to other people who we are.
To really grasp this man, you have to get inside his head. Any person who has spent any time with a man born under this sign knows that this can be a grueling task.
The energy of the planet is dynamic, and it can disperse in a variety of ways. Virgo may even be overwhelmed by his mental energy at times. At the same time, it has a greater impact on other people.
He probably has many thoughts running through his head at the same time. It is not unusual for him to travel one road, only to wander off in a completely different direction. That’s just how his mind works.
Earth Is His Element
This is a man who personifies the meaning of the Earth sign. He is a man who enjoys the great outdoors and is very respectful of the environment in which he lives and surrounds himself. He is looking for a companion that feels the same way.
The Earth signs see everything logically. In any situation he finds himself in, he can make a smart decision based on his strong judgment and a solid grasp of facts. However, that logic can be his downfall at times, since he can get caught up in it and sometimes overwhelm other people with his judgmental or critical analysis.
His true feeling when he acts this way is that he is being helpful or supportive. Those who are analytical may understand his point of view very well, while those who are more carefree may be offended.
His highly critical nature can cause him to have many restless nights. He appears to be especially sensitive to negative things, even though he tends to observe everything from all sides and in great detail.
Although the Earth element grounds him, the Mercury in his life makes him a bit more Airy. His body is firm on earth, but his thoughts can be a bit elusive and confusing on occasion, even for him. When dating a man born under this sign, it is important to always remember that he lives in his mind.
Mutable Is His Quality
As a mutable sign, he can adapt to changing circumstances. If he feels that adapting is his only choice, there is no convincing argument or good enough reason for him to change his opinion.
He may appear inflexible or rigid to others. The opposite is true, however. He has the power to change his thoughts, his views, his external appearance, as well as his mood and behavior whenever he desires to do so.
How To Get A Virgo Man’s Attention
What to focus on:
- He does tend to show no emotion or can be cold at times. He might even seem immune to your tears or feelings. Just know that deep down inside he is very concerned about your well-being, and mentally analyzing a way that you can help you out. He might not show it but he generally does care about you, he just shows it in a different way than most other signs do.
- If he feels like you don’t care about something, he might test you by starting an argument with him. He will only do this because he’s trying to find out what your true feelings are about the topic you are both discussing.
- This is a man that Believes In fairness above all. So if you’re in an argument with him it’s best to appeal to his sense of fairness. You will definitely score a point with him if you do.
- He likes to play a paternal role (fatherly) in somebody’s life, so if you take the time to let him know that you count on him for things, he will do his best not to let you down.
- He may have a belief in how you should behave around him and other people. Do your best to find out what he expects of you, and keep the status quo. If he expects too much from you then move on.
- This guy is the ultimate problem solver, and once he’s taken the time to think about how to fix the issue he will. So if any issues are plaguing you currently, give him all the details that he needs to know about what is going on, and you can rest assured that he’ll take care of it.
What Not To Do:
- When you can see that he is deep in thought, do your best to give him time to work through it. One thing that he does not like is when somebody interrupts his thought process. He is deeply analyzing all possible outcomes to come to a good decision.
- Arguments happen with the best of us. When it comes to arguing with this man, it’s best to do it diplomatically. If you cross him, He will more than likely give you the silent treatment until he has calm down.
How to Attract a Virgo Man
How to Attract a Virgo Man. If you have never dated a Virgo man, then you haven’t experienced a perfectionist. The Virgo man is a perfectionist, and he brings that into all aspects of his life. He will also want a partner who attempts to keep things perfect even though mistakes will happen.
The Virgo man is extremely analytical and over-thinks many areas of life. If you want to attract a Virgo male, then you need to appeal to his analytical and critical thinking. When approaching him, ask him about life, philosophy, or even the more serious subjects of religion and politics.
The Virgo is one of the more insecure zodiac signs. To attract a Virgo, you will need to be very supportive and often reassure him. He needs a partner who can help him through the bad times and let him know everything will be alright. When dating and attracting a Virgo man, give him advice on things of which he is unsure.
Give him helpful ideas and critiques, but don’t do it too harshly or you can scare away a Virgo male. Be kind to him when giving him criticism and he will appreciate your advice.
Virgo men can sometimes be unorganized, so buy your Virgo man gifts that help him become more organized. A more organized Virgo will become surer of himself and he will love and appreciate you for helping him increase his confidence. When you do offer advice for your Virgo man, make sure to keep harsh criticism at a minimum, or you may find that he becomes defensive and avoids you.
If you manage to win over a Virgo man, he will forever be attached to you. Virgo men are loyal if you prove yourself to be behind him through thick or thin.
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Dating a Virgo man
How to approach him for the first time
This is a guy that takes his time to get what he wants. So the best approach to obtaining this man is to take things slow and steady. He’s not known for making hasty decisions so he’ll take his time when it comes to whether or not he wants to be with you.
When it comes to the heart he’s not known to gamble with his emotions. If something happens too fast or comes across as happening too suddenly he will look at it very suspiciously.
This is the man that really likes to date somebody that has the same interests as they do. So if you have that going for you, you’re already halfway there.
He needs to be stimulated mentally for you to get his attention, appearance itself will not win this man over.
So you got your first date
this guy is a gentleman to a T. What that means is he is not expecting the night to be a wild and crazy one.
He likes the first date to be in a place that’s not too flashy, somewhere where he can have a stimulating conversation to get to know you better. Take this time to get to know him better as a person, and keep your emotional thoughts in check. Don’t start talking to him about the emotional aspects of a relationship.
He does have a complex personality that you will have to navigate through, but as you peel back those layers you will notice a sensual man that has your pleasure in mind. Just probably not on the first date. Then again if you drive him wild you never know.
He is looking for the type of woman or partner that can slowly integrate him into a world of pleasure and hot experiences. As he becomes accustomed to you, you will start to notice that he will put your pleasure above his.
If you can provide what he’s looking for. This is a guy that would genuinely support you and be generous with his time.
The truth is this man really needs to take the time to analyze his thoughts and feelings about whether or not he’s going to give you the chance to have that. Don’t fret if it takes a little bit.
So you want to get out of a date with a Virgo man
- call him a crazy guy
- when he’s being logical laugh at him
- when you talk to him don’t be logical
- become a very impractical person
- be a very dull conversationalist
- be messy and unorganized
his zone Is his stomach. Either use your mouth tongue or fingers to move over it to tease him.
Sex With A Virgo Man
Virgos seem so uptight and prudish, right? Well, a little but he’s just really picky so if he picked you, enjoy. Virgos are the sign of service so he will work hard to please his partner. Still, the virgin does have standards so make sure the sheets are clean and your toenails trimmed.
He’s got excellent taste so wow him with a classic goddess gown. Don’t offend him with raunchy behavior or weird positions. He’s passionate but never undignified.
Turn Ons: A woman who needs a little help and guidance. An artistic or spiritual gal can bring out the softer, otherworldly side of you (even if you don’t quite understand it) while letting you take care of the details of living in the real world.
Turn Offs: Drama queens. Fights rattle your nerves, so if a mate needs to cut you down to bolster herself up, you’re destroyed. If a woman expects you to be a big spender or an alpha male, she’s better off with someone else
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How to Keep your Virgo man around
keep this man busy
This guy is definitely a thinker. So you have to help him make sure that that mental energy goes somewhere. Get him out into the real world and away from his mind, by either going to the movies or going out for a walk or something. Even a party could help out. When he’s left alone he tends to think about things more than he should. It would be one thing if his thoughts were pure happiness, it’s another thing if he’s going into his mind to worry more than he should.
let the criticism roll off your shoulders
He does tend to criticize people a little bit more than he should. You have to understand that in a relationship with this man, he believes he is doing it for the greater good. He doesn’t seem to notice that it’s really bothering you as much as it is. If you show that you appreciate his efforts to try and help, he will work even harder to try and be kind.
Since he is an earth sign he always has the mindset that he always has to be living in a stable situation. So make sure that you are making an honest living, and taking care of yourself financially as well as physically. Irresponsible actions really drive him crazy so don’t bring that into his lifestyle.
Try not to criticize him
Yes, I know that I just mentioned earlier that you should let the criticism that he brings to you roll off your shoulders. The problem is this man cannot take the heat when it comes to getting criticism in return. He can dish it out but he just can’t take it. Mentally speaking he thinks just like the symbol of his sign that he is perfection.
keep everything on the down-low
This is definitely a man that you don’t want to kiss and tell about to your friends. He enjoys living a lifestyle that’s more private than most. So if he hears any stories about himself that he told you from somebody else he will be overly upset. Gossip is something that he likes to hear about other people sometimes if it is saucy, but when it’s about him it blows his top. So keep everything about your relationship on the down-low. I’m speaking about the dirty laundry part, there is no issue with you talking to your friends about you being in a relationship with this man.
Keep everything sparkling
If there ever was a man of the zodiac that is a germaphobe this is the guy himself. So make sure your hygiene habits are top-notch. Or that your house or place is clean. You’ll see the same thing about him when you go to visit his house. His hygiene habits will be first in class.
his mind is it his own
This is a guy that is definitely very private and has a shy side to him. As mentioned previously, he has a lot of mental energy that he has to deal with. So he has a tendency to be stuck in his own mind at times. If you take the time to talk to him about things he might open up about it. If you try and pry it out of him then you’ll find that he mentally will shut you out.
Keep the mood light
This man tends to over-analyze everything. As everyone knows analyzing things is some serious business when it comes to brainpower. So the best thing that you can do for this guy is keep everything light in your relationship. Keep the focus on the love and happiness you both feel in your relationship. The happier he is the more he will be tempted not to analyze things.
Let him serve you
Virgos true calling is to be somebody that serves others. Which is kind of hard to believe because this gentleman is really a Hermit in disguise. If he offers to cook a meal let him. If he offers to go the shopping for you both, let him. Just make sure that when you do he doesn’t feel like you’re taking advantage of him. Also, trust me, this man will know when you’re patronizing him as well. To get around that all you really need to do is show him genuine respect and love towards him, and appreciation for him as your guy.
Remember that you’re part of a team
This is one sign that can be content living by himself as well. So if he feels like he’s not getting what he needs out of the relationship he will walk away. This is where you have to bring in the team mentality. You both are two players on the same team. Share the load, make everything equally 50/50. Without this, his mind will start thinking that he can do the same things but by himself without having to deal with a relationship.