Virgo Man (August 24 to September 23)
Ruled by his mind he is. Work comes first. Always.
He is very picky about whom he “chooses” as his friends and you can bet they will be an interesting and eclectic bunch, all probably pretty darn smart.
Because he is hypercritical of his own work, expect him to be the same concerning other people’s work and behavior.
He finds women, um, er, “curious.” Many life-long bachelors are Virgos because they don’t quite “get” women and they are so obsessed with working.
You will never find a Virgo guy wearing any clothes with a swanky label in ’em. He despises anything trendy. Wow. This sounds just like my friend and he’s a Virgo. Damn.
What You Will Learn:
There is no doubt that Virgo men are known for their excellent organization skills, which makes them stand out among the other signs of the Zodiac.
As a rule, they like things very neat and meticulous, and they enjoy beautiful decorating and aesthetically pleasing decor.
As a result of having many sensibilities, they dislike when time passes too quickly so that they do not have time to gather their emotions and thoughts.
Moreover, they can be very critical of themselves and their lives, sometimes to an extreme degree, as well.
What is worse is that this tendency to criticize can lead to becoming possessive and judgmental of their partner too, which is definitely not healthy for a relationship.
It is true that most of the time, these men are hardworking professionals, but that isn’t always the case. They are generally friendly people who love to help others.
The feeling of being useful makes them happy, and they’re delighted to give others joy and satisfaction.
This is the reason why they have a strong need to find meaning and purpose in everything they do.
Their thirst for knowledge is never quenched! Everything interests them. This is true whether it is someone who wants to be an academic or just someone who enjoys reading.
It is their nature to want to learn as much as they can about a particular subject or a wide range of topics.
Many people believe that Virgos have a cold disposition, but that could not be further from the truth. It is the logic that drives them and not the emotion that motivates them.
In order to make the best decision, he would like to take into consideration all the factors involved in every situation.
As a result, he will be able to make confident decisions, and he won’t have to worry about regretting any of them.
Despite his ability to feel deeply ( and trust us its there!), he is usually driven by logic-based thinking rather than his emotions. So keep that in mind if you are questioning his feelings towards you.
Virgo Man Traits
- Super attractive and can be one to be organized
- Patient and intelligent make the right decisions after analyzing the problem and all solutions.
- Romantic and sincere
- Super faithful type of guy
- Sensitive, and this makes him want to be the type of guy to go out of his way to help solve issues.
- Likes people that peel back the layers and let them see the real you.
- not a one-nighter type of man.
- long term relationship type material.
- Is a good lie detector, if you lie he will know. ( this isn’t a bad personality trait unless you want to keep a secret)
- Can be a perfectionist at times
- may take him a little time to show interest
- doesn’t like one-night stands if that’s your goal, if not this isn’t a bad thing.
Virgo Man in Love
When these men are in love with someone, passion and desire are not what drive them to be with their partner.
They approach relationships analytically and practically. It’s almost like when they find someone they want to be with, they look at them as a whole, instead of following their hearts alone.
They do a deep dive and analyze everything about their partner.
What kind of lifestyle do they live now or want to live in the future? What are their future plans? Does their personality match up with theirs or does it clash?
These are all things that they consider when they’re with somebody or fall in love with them. Constantly evaluating how things will be if they stay together.
That doesn’t mean for one second that they don’t love the idea of being in love. Virgo men fall in love all the time.
They absolutely enjoy the feeling that love brings to their life when they have it. They just have a different way of looking at things.
He can be very self-critical sometimes. Due to his self-criticism and his love of helping people out, he’s extremely attentive and meticulous when it comes to love.
He is always planning things down to the tiniest details.
He’s the type of guy that will leave love notes on your pillow. Or make you breakfast in bed. Or do even the simplest of things during the day just to put a smile on your face.
Because he absolutely enjoys making the person who has his heart Happy. These guys are always dedicated to the cause.
Their loyalty and devotion to their partner are unmatched. They put a lot of effort into making their relationship successful.
Negative aspects of a Virgo man can sometimes include being highly critical or very harsh in their comments towards their partner. In addition, he sometimes overuses arguments and other instances to make a point.
Effectively pointing out their mistakes. He rarely realizes that many of these moments can be seen negatively by those around him.
This Virgo man needs to get into a relationship with somebody that doesn’t take criticism too heavily. An individual that can just like criticism roll off their back is perfect for him.
This type of person understands that constructive criticism is meant to help them improve, not tear them down.
The little things won’t bother them, and they will be able to focus on the positive aspects of the relationship.
But we’ll put that criticism aside for a moment. They may criticize you at times, but that doesn’t mean they don’t love you.
They still give everything that they are to their partner when they are in love with them! They can love somebody like no other and show them lots of love and affection.
This guy makes a very sincere and honest boyfriend. He prefers to be in a relationship that’s very heartfelt and candid.
He doesn’t want to be with someone that deals in lies or deceit. He can’t stand dishonesty!
He also doesn’t want to be with a partner who displays jealousy. If he’s dating somebody and he is their boyfriend, it should be widely stated that she has no competition.
So there’s no reason for jealousy whatsoever!
They prefer to deal with someone who is at least on the same level as them. They want to be with a girlfriend that doesn’t show any immaturity. Of course, they still want to have fun!
In love, he’s just as dedicated and focused as he is in life. So you’ll never be questioning how he feels about you.
He’ll always make sure that you know so there will be no issues. He would be hoping that you would be the same way. He wants everything in the relationship to be open and honest.
He will show you all of the warmth and love that he has in his heart in the best way he knows how. He will do whatever it takes to show you the affection and tenderness you deserve.
You won’t have to worry when you’re in a relationship with this man outside of whether or not you are keeping things open and honest with him.
Because of his dedication to his girlfriend, he will clearly prove he is a loyal and faithful partner.
How To Get A Virgo Man’s Attention
What to focus on:
- He does tend to show no emotion or can be cold at times. He might even seem immune to your tears or feelings. Just know that deep down inside he is very concerned about your well-being, and mentally analyzing a way that you can help you out. He might not show it but he generally does care about you, he just shows it in a different way than most other signs do.
- If he feels like you don’t care about something, he might test you by starting an argument with him. He will only do this because he’s trying to find out what your true feelings are about the topic you are both discussing.
- This is a man that Believes In fairness above all. So if you’re in an argument with him it’s best to appeal to his sense of fairness. You will definitely score a point with him if you do.
- He likes to play a paternal role (fatherly) in somebody’s life, so if you take the time to let him know that you count on him for things, he will do his best not to let you down.
- He may have a belief in how you should behave around him and other people. Do your best to find out what he expects of you, and keep the status quo. If he expects too much from you then move on.
- This guy is the ultimate problem solver, and once he’s taken the time to think about how to fix the issue he will. So if any issues are plaguing you currently, give him all the details that he needs to know about what is going on, and you can rest assured that he’ll take care of it.
What Not To Do:
- When you can see that he is deep in thought, do your best to give him time to work through it. One thing that he does not like is when somebody interrupts his thought process. He is deeply analyzing all possible outcomes to come to a good decision.
- Arguments happen with the best of us. When it comes to arguing with this man, it’s best to do it diplomatically. If you cross him, He will more than likely give you the silent treatment until he has calmed down.
How to Attract a Virgo Man
How to Attract a Virgo Man. If you have never dated a Virgo man, then you haven’t experienced a perfectionist.
The Virgo man is a perfectionist, and he brings that into all aspects of his life. He will also want a partner who attempts to keep things perfect even though mistakes will happen.
The Virgo man is extremely analytical and over-thinks many areas of life. If you want to attract a Virgo male, then you need to appeal to his analytical and critical thinking.
When approaching him, ask him about life, philosophy, or even the more serious subjects of religion and politics.
The Virgo is one of the more insecure zodiac signs. To attract a Virgo, you will need to be very supportive and often reassure him.
He needs a partner who can help him through the bad times and let him know everything will be alright. When dating and attracting a Virgo man, give him advice on things of which he is unsure.
Give him helpful ideas and critiques, but don’t do it too harshly or you can scare away a Virgo male. Be kind to him when giving him criticism and he will appreciate your advice.
Virgo men can sometimes be unorganized, so buy your Virgo man gifts that help him become more organized.
A more organized Virgo will become surer of himself and he will love and appreciate you for helping him increase his confidence.
When you do offer advice for your Virgo man, make sure to keep harsh criticism at a minimum, or you may find that he becomes defensive and avoids you.
If you manage to win over a Virgo man, he will forever be attached to you. Virgo men are loyal if you prove yourself to be behind him through thick or thin.
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Dating a Virgo man
How to approach him for the first time
This is a guy that takes his time to get what he wants. So the best approach to obtaining this man is to take things slow and steady.
He’s not known for making hasty decisions so he’ll take his time when it comes to whether or not he wants to be with you.
When it comes to the heart he’s not known to gamble with his emotions. If something happens too fast or comes across as happening too suddenly he will look at it very suspiciously.
This is the man that really likes to date somebody that has the same interests as they do. So if you have that going for you, you’re already halfway there.
He needs to be stimulated mentally for you to get his attention, appearance itself will not win this man over.
So you got your first date
this guy is a gentleman to a T. What that means is he is not expecting the night to be a wild and crazy one.
He likes the first date to be in a place that’s not too flashy, somewhere where he can have a stimulating conversation to get to know you better.
Take this time to get to know him better as a person, and keep your emotional thoughts in check.
Don’t start talking to him about the emotional aspects of a relationship.
He does have a complex personality that you will have to navigate through, but as you peel back those layers you will notice a sensual man that has your pleasure in mind.
Just probably not on the first date. Then again if you drive him wild you never know.
He is looking for the type of woman or partner that can slowly integrate him into a world of pleasure and hot experiences.
As he becomes accustomed to you, you will start to notice that he will put your pleasure above his.
If you can provide what he’s looking for. This is a guy that would genuinely support you and be generous with his time.
The truth is this man really needs to take the time to analyze his thoughts and feelings about whether or not he’s going to give you the chance to have that. Don’t fret if it takes a little bit.
So you want to get out of a date with a Virgo man
- call him a crazy guy
- when he’s being logical laugh at him
- when you talk to him don’t be logical
- become a very impractical person
- be a very dull conversationalist
- be messy and unorganized
his zone Is his stomach. Either use your mouth tongue or fingers to move over it to tease him.
Sex With A Virgo Man
Virgos seem so uptight and prudish, right? Well, a little but he’s just really picky so if he picked you, enjoy. Virgos are the sign of service so he will work hard to please his partner.
Still, the virgin does have standards so make sure the sheets are clean and your toenails trimmed.
He’s got excellent taste so wow him with a classic goddess gown. Don’t offend him with raunchy behavior or weird positions. He’s passionate but never undignified.
Turn Ons: A woman who needs a little help and guidance. An artistic or spiritual gal can bring out the softer, otherworldly side of you (even if you don’t quite understand it) while letting you take care of the details of living in the real world.
Turn Offs: Drama queens. Fights rattle your nerves, so if a mate needs to cut you down to bolster herself up, you’re destroyed. If a woman expects you to be a big spender or an alpha male, she’s better off with someone else
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