Libra Man (September 24th to October 23rd)
Not generally very athletic, very in tune with his intellectual side, creative and sensitive. He is really very fair, concerned with justice to the point of obsession. He likes to make everyone happy.
The Libra guy has very acute intuition in a sense having X-ray spy vision, so don’t try to pull anything over this one. Women are rarely good enough and he can never make up his mind if he should date this one or that.
But he can be a real pushover if the woman (or man) is confident and in control. Libra men especially like flattery. And they like to please a woman (or man), if you know what I mean.
Those who are Libras want to live a balanced life. Rather than indulge in excess, they prefer to live moderately and responsibly.
They try to avoid any emotional outburst in public or private, control any intense feelings, or impulsiveness that could possibly lead them to feel sad.
When it comes to this man, he must stay true to himself. His core identity.
He seems to view life as meaningful only if he can share it with other people. Occasionally, when he needs some alone time, he feels awkward and difficult during those times.
It’s because he has a deep need in his personality to be close to other people.
Additionally, he needs the ability to have an easy-going relationship as this is extremely important to him. He wants a relationship in which he has freedom, and does not feel caged or jailed by his partner.
Due to this, he usually avoids relationships that have features such as expectations, restrictions, rules, and constraints.
Although he is social and likes to be able to connect with others, not even his partner can make him give up his independence and individuality. It is a core fundamental aspect of his character that he just can’t give up.
He hates disagreements and conflicts, and he will run as fast as he can from them. Particularly when it comes to relationships, he dislikes confrontations, arguments, and even petty differences.
When there is a conflict with a partner, he believes it should be resolved with talking it out, compassion, and a lot of love.
But without those elements, he might just run away. Although he might run from the conflict, it’s not because he pretends they don’t exist or can’t deal with them or help deal with them.
He just prefers those methods for resolving the problem.
He knows how to brighten up any room. Known for his calm demeanor, his close companionship, and the desire and ability to work out problems, he is well-liked by many.
His ultimate goal is to stay close to those he cares about most and to bring Harmony into their lives as well as his own.
No matter what’s going on in your life or his, he wants to make sure he prevents tension from building up between you. As a result, he will carry a sense of peace, calm, and lightness wherever he goes.
Libra Man Good Traits
- Is a man of amazing taste and has a great aesthetic sense
- Loves being around people and has a lot of different groups of friends
- Feels more alive in a relationship
- he’s a good listener and will make you feel comfortable
- Likes to go away to take time to renew himself and you as a couple
- Attracted to people that realize his dreams and help him make them happen.
- Super romantic
- Won’t waste time in relationships that have no meaning or future.
- Long term relationship potential
Libra Man Bad Traits
- Is flirtatious by nature, which can get him in a little trouble
- Not really known for his empathy
Libra Man in Love
When a Libra man is in love with someone, he wants to have a relationship that has substance. His goal isn’t to be involved in anything that might be considered shallow or insignificant.
They want to be in a relationship that can be relatively calm with very little drama. Sharing their lives with somebody that they enjoy spending time with.
Someone who makes them feel that once they get off work, they want to run home and spend as much time with them as possible.
They don’t like relationships that require you to take risks to continue. Whether this is anything to do with being the other man, illicit affairs, or relationships where nothing good will come out of it.
They don’t want to be involved in anything that doesn’t have the possibility of a successful future.
He’s all about balance, even when it comes to relationships.
That’s why when he’s with someone, he needs to keep peace and tranquility between them and their partner. And that everything is balanced out between the two of them and everything is equal.
That’s the partner that they need! They don’t work well with people who demand things. They don’t like it when somebody tries to take a controlling stance on them.
They definitely do not have any time for anyone that shows jealousy.
One of the things they are great at is conflict resolution in relationships. When a problem arises between them and their partner, they definitely want to figure out how to solve it so that the relationship can continue.
So they like to resolve problems and handle difficult situations with compassion, love, tact, and generally just talk everything through.
Their belief is that this combination will help them deal with any problems they may face in a relationship with their partner.
The best partner is one who will help them resolve conflicts. When you have a relationship where one person tries to fix things and the other doesn’t say a word, nothing is ever resolved.
This is one of those men that you shouldn’t miss! You know when you have him in a relationship that he’s there for the long haul.
He’s not going to be the type of guy that runs off to be in an illicit affair. If he has everything he needs at home, he’s happy!
Libras and generally known as a very social sign. Quite frankly, they’re real social butterflies! There’s no doubt this guy has a lot of friends and acquaintances.
Even though his social calendar will still be vital to him, once they get a girlfriend, that will all change!
When it comes to being with his girlfriend, all he can see is her, he doesn’t look at other women! He simply can’t get enough of her!
He will be very loyal and dedicated to her. He will show her a lot of passion and deep romance.
They’re very concerned about Aesthetics. Especially when it comes to themselves and how they look. They care a lot about their appearance and do their best to look after it.
After all, they want to make sure that they are some good eye candy on their girlfriend’s arm!
Anybody that’s looking to have a Libra as a boyfriend lucks out when it comes to arguments. These guys absolutely hate them.
They’ll try to avoid them because they simply don’t know how to handle conflict. They just think arguments are absolutely no fun!
So they would prefer to talk things out. Even though they don’t like arguments, they’ll take the time to listen to everything that their girl has to say.
They will carefully digest what they say and see what they can do to rectify whatever has gone wrong. Just don’t expect them to say anything in return since they might not know what to say at the time.
How To Get A Libra Man’s Attention
Things to do:
- As shallow as this sounds this man loves to judge beauty by his eyes. So if you’re interested in influencing him it’s best to keep yourself appealing to what type of woman he looks for.
- When it comes to love, he’s more into the word love itself, than the true experience of it. That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t want to feel love. This is a man that you have to keep the romance alive with, and you can do that by attaching sentimental things to your relationship. Or giving him tokens of appreciation and love. Help open up his heart.
- If you are his woman, he will always consider you his number one. So do what you can to keep up with that status. Just don’t burn yourself out trying to do that. The most important thing is to be you.
- It’s important to keep an aura of tranquility and peace around you. One thing this man truly hates is being around confusion and disagreements.
- He likes it when people come to him to ask him for advice on problems or issues they’re dealing with. When he does show his problem-solving technique, he usually shows a rational approach.
- This is a man that truly does not like to hurt anybody’s feelings at all. It’s important for you to read between the lines when it comes to the things that he says and does. If he’s not truly into a relationship, he does have the tendency of staying in the relationship even if he doesn’t want to. By reading between the lines will know the truth about how he feels.
Things not to do:
- He truly likes to analyze anything and everything that he comes across. Do not let this trait of his drive you crazy. There are some instances in life when this actually becomes a good trait. Let it be one that works for you not against you.
- He is known to be fickle at times. This is because when he’s thinking about things he’s truly analyzing them. So don’t count on any decision that he makes as the end result until he tells you that that’s the case. His answer might flip flop all the time until he comes to the final decision
How to Attract a Libra Man
How to Attract a Libra Man. The Libra man is an analytical man who needs time to think. The way to attract a Libra man is to stimulate his mind with a great conversation that makes him think about things.
The topic may be anything from philosophical ideas, education, or even politics and religion.
The Libra male isn’t interested in a simple-minded conversation. He wants to have conversations only with people who are at a greater level of thinking.
The Libra man is a symbol of air and refinement. Although he loves to analyze things, the Libra man is also very interested in peace. He doesn’t like to constantly argue with his partner.
He wants peace in a relationship, so nagging him may scare him away. The Libra male will even avoid confrontation and do whatever it takes to stop an argument.
If you want to attract him, you need to keep up appearances and be socially acceptable. Libra males are not shallow, but they want what is perfect in the world, so they hold beauty and intelligence at a higher level than shallow, ordinary-looking girls.
The Libra man likes to travel to places where he can analyze and learn things such as historical landmarks, museums, or other educational places.
How to attract a Libra man? through open conversation relating to things, he is interested in while keeping the conversation light.
The Libra male is interested in all forms of art. If you want to attract him, plan a trip to an art museum, lunch, and an afternoon of learning. The Libra male will fall for anyone who stimulates his mind and also enjoys nature’s beauty in the world. If you enjoy all of these things, then you will surely attract a handsome, compatible Libra male.
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Dating a Libra man
How to approach him for the first time
when you approach this man for the first time, it’s good to come at him with a light-hearted feel. He likes a woman that’s friendly and gracious. Someone that shows a side of her that is lovely and delightful.
The kind of relationship he is looking for is one that has a lot of balance within it.
A relationship where there is a lot of equality between the two people. He’s not the type of guy that wants it to be 80% him and 20% her.
This is the gentleman that has a keen eye for the aesthetic. He is attracted to women that are feminine in appearance, and that take care of themselves.
This doesn’t mean you have to be a supermodel gorgeous, it just means that you have to show that you care about yourself.
He is definitely not the type of guy that is crazy about women that are aggressive, or that come across as boisterous or loud. This one trait can push him away faster than you could ever imagine.
If you are the one asking him out on a date, it’s best to do it in a way that’s going to be softer in nature. Don’t be aggressive in this case.
So you got your first date
Now, this guy is a quintessential romantic man. He loves Romance and is into a woman that embraces the same values.
He is equally happy whether it’s a candlelight dinner for two or a social event that takes place in a pleasant ambiance.
To him, the ambiance is what makes the date perfect. Whether it be the candlelight or the music that’s playing at that moment. All of those things are important to him.
Sexually speaking if you’re out to get him on the first date, this guy is a true lover. So if your intentions are to seduce him as soon as you possibly can, he will be ready and willing.
By the end of the night, you’ll have messy hair and won’t care if you choose to.
One thing that you do have to take into consideration is that he has very traditional values.
So you want to get out of a date with a Libra man
- dress like you don’t have a care in the world
- start cursing like a truck driver
- completely forget to brush your hair
- play some hard rock while you’re eating dinner
his zones are the bum and the small of the back. use gentle and firm strokes on both areas. This will get your man going.
Sex With A Libra Man
Libras were born to mate. This sign is always looking for a life partner even in the sack. If you’re it, lovemaking will be incredible; if not, ho-hum.
This Venus-ruled sign knows all about love so just follow his lead.
He will appreciate a beautifully decorated boudoir and he will be so disappointed if your undergarments weren’t selected to impress him. But keep it refined with the goddess ruled Libra; he wants sophisticated, not savage.
Turn Ons: You’re happiest when you have lots in common with your mate, so you look for a gal who’s smart, refined, romantic, idealistic, and generous. You’ll court each other years into your relationship and mark each anniversary with meaningful touch.
Turn Offs: Head cases. Too much dependency or emotional volatility throws you and everything in your life out of whack. You want a balanced, harmonious, reliable relationship made up of two equals.
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