Scorpio Man – Sex, Attraction, And His Personality

The Scorpio Man

Flat out — these guys are ruled by the thing in between their legs. No joke. He is restless and looking for his next sexual adventure. He can be hypnotic, charming and just plain intensely sexual. A high voltage sign should be hung from his neck. Scorpio’s respond well to kindness and never forget it and always repay. But they can make enemies so easily, partially because he is so damn hostile sometimes. Often Scorpio men are drunks or prone to a bit of self-destructive drug play. Icky stuff. But because he can muster up power like no one else, he can also overcome those addiction pretty safely.

Scorpio Man Personality



  • Not afraid to go for what he wants, socially, professionally and personally
  • intense and energetic
  • known to be a charmer, and loves to be a seductive
  • wont forgive cheating ( id say this is a plus )
  • he will be direct with you.
  • does have a sensitive side to him as well.  Knock that wall down.


  • Can sometimes be arrogant
  • Can be hard to read as a person, patience is needed with this man
  • Has a wall up, you need to knock it down to get at his heart.
  • can be brutally honest and frank, no filter!
  • Can be jealous and possessive

His Planet – Pluto


Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the 9th planet in our solar system that was recently demoted to a dwarf planet. This should come as no great surprise as, in astrology, Pluto is the planet of transformations and regenerations. Pluto brings changes to our life as well as many lessons.

Pluto is intense, volatile and bold, which clearly describes a Scorpio. It is a transgenerational planet as, on average, it stays approximately 12 years in each sign. Thus, it influences generations of people, which are then transformed as it moves through the Zodiac.

With transformation comes death and rebirth and Scorpios will go through many of their own transformations throughout their lives. For this reason, Scorpios are complicated. Just when you think you understand them, you don’t. Pluto’s orbit is unusual; welcome to the mind of your Scorpio.

His Symbol – Scorpion


Normally thought to have just the symbol of the Scorpion, true to his planet, Scorpio has both the symbol of death (scorpion) and the symbol of transformation (eagle). You may catch glimpses of both in your guy, however, he will likely be closer to one than the other.

His Element – Water


Scorpio is a Water sign who can either be murky and dangerous or clear and serene. Regardless of which, his emotions will highlight his life and your relationship. However, Scorpios are masters at concealing their emotions but not their disdain for your transgressions.

Scorpios are well known for their insatiable sex drive but few understand the intense spiritual transformational they experience during intercourse and orgasm. If you can connect to his consuming sexual energy, your relationship will evolve to a much higher level.

Jealousy is Scorpio’s most stinging quality and can ruin an otherwise wonderful relationship. Rather than mope and complain, a Scorpio will insult and accuse. But true to his Water nature, he cannot handle the same such treatment.

His Quality – Fixed


Stubborn and controlling, Scorpio is the quintessential Fixed sign. From the Latin root fixus meaning to latch on to or fasten to, Scorpio latches on to the one he loves with a possessive nature that can be either comforting or suffocating. Your challenge will be to understand the intensity of this guy’s world if you really want to enjoy living in it.


Scorpio Man – He’s like a magnetic force whose power transcends the sexual plane. He’s got mystery and power going for him… just a very masculine presence. His reputation is terrible though, because his character flaws tend to mostly show up in his love life. Sex brings his nature to extremes.

So much energy and passion in one man makes him an easy prey for seduction; if that’s all you want out of the encounter with him. Forming a relationship with him…well that’s a different story altogether.

He wants nothing more than to have a relationship to soothe his very sensitive nature but for you, living with all that jealousy and unexpressed anger might not be so easy. His defenses are endless and he will never allow any woman to dominate him.

He’s the type to keep you dangling endlessly and then cut you loose altogether, without mercy. And if you dare be upset over it, he’ll truly be surprised because in his world, his the only one entitled to vindictiveness.

In matters of the heart, he always knows the net worth of what he wants… moneywise, timewise, effortwise…and if it’s too much, he’ll simply walk away. He’s aware of how attractive he is to women and takes advantage of it to the point that he can easily make any woman come to the boiling point in bed.

One of his most attractive sexual aspects is the fact that he knows what a woman wants, and if he doesn’t feel threatened by those needs, he’ll do everything he can to meet them.

He appears friendly and easygoing but that’s only what he wants you to see. Beware of underlying feelings always. He might be a lot to handle, but he sure as hell brings out the best in you!

Scorpio Man Traits


If you fall for anything it will be those eyes, whatever the colour they will be intensely penetrating and probing. You must be careful though jealousy rides high with him and he tends to be possessive but hates to be possessed. Plays with two sets of rules one for you and one for him!

How To Get A Scorpio Man’s Attention


What to focus on:


  • He has an innate ability to be able to read your mind almost. You’re going to have to get used to being like an open book to him. He will be able to look right for you and know if you’re lying or telling the truth.
  • If he brings up his pet peeves and one of them is something that you are known to do, agree with his point of view on it, and then do what you can to change the conversation to something else.
  • He comes across as a dominant male, so you always know what he is interested in or what he wants. He will always let you know.
  • He loves it when somebody will show that they appreciate his attention. He’s very sympathetic when it comes to people that he cares about. So take the time to show him that you appreciate him. He will be considerate of your feelings.
  • When it comes to his demands try to cater as much as you can to the issues that don’t matter so much. If something is important to you and you stand your ground he will admire that. He’ll also give you what you want.
  • He almost has a magnetic personality, and a lot of women are attracted to that aspect of him. You will really have to pull back the reins of jealousy if that’s something that you have as a trait.
  • He is truly passionate about everything in life including his sex life. You won’t last long in his life if you have a cold demeanor and are not as sexually intimate as he is.
  • This guy hold all of his deepest thoughts close to his heart. It might take a little time for him to reveal everything about him. So be patient, in time he will reveal everything you need to know.


What Not To Do:


  • If he desires any affection or attention from you then make sure that you provide that to him. If you make up excuses all the time to not do it he will look for it from somebody else. That’s not to say you should put yourself in an uncomfortable position if you don’t feel like it’s what you want.
  • This is definitely a man that you don’t want to come across Crude to. Don’t goad him, as he has one of the worst wrath’s of all of the zodiac signs. He can split somebody in half with just his words.
  • Don’t think that you’ll be able to hide very much from this gentleman. When it comes to finding out the answers he needs to know about things he’s like Sherlock Holmes. It won’t take him very long to find out the answers.


How to Attract a Scorpio Man

The Scorpio man is passionate, impulsive, and very intense.  To attract a Scorpio man, you will need to be able to find yourself compatible to the “bad boy” and you will need to compliment his same passion.  Scorpio males are attracted to beauty and elegance and don’t care too much for small talk like the Gemini male.

Scorpio men are intrigued by beauty and passion, and they are also extremely curious people.  To attract a Scorpio male, you need to be open and care free providing answers to his curiosities, or he may become quickly bored of you.

If you plan to go out on a date with a Scorpio male, you need to attract him by participating in fun, outdoor activities.  Scorpio males are usually best suited for water sports since their passion draws them to places like lakes and beaches.

To attract a Scorpio man, be prepared to be very outgoing and social. Scorpios love anything social like parties, concerts, charities and other social events that bring out engaging interaction with people.

Since Scorpio males are especially passionate, the can also become jealous and envious of you, so make sure that you always pay attention and stay focused on him or the jealous side of the Scorpio may come out.

You will need to constantly keep your Scorpio man interested.  Scorpios are known to be adulterers and cheaters, so to keep him focused on you takes a lot of skill and intrigue on your part.  Always stay attractive and keep traveling and sports related activities as part of your relationship or you may find your Scorpio male falling into the arms of another woman.

Scorpio males are also the best love makers always concerned with pleasing women, so you will enjoy the night with your man.

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Dating a Scorpio man


How to approach him for the first time


Now this guy is the type of guy that likes to be with somebody that’s passionate about life and the life that they live. In one regard he’s the opposite of a cancer guy, he can do without the sweet aspect.

He’s attracted to a woman that has a very sharp mind, but also has a very sensual side to her as well. The big thing to note is that without the sharp mind his impression will start to fade.  He needs that mental stimulation.

He’s not the type of guy that you play Coy with, because he doesn’t like to be manipulated in any type of way.

The most important thing you have to remember though is that this guy himself is very much into discretion. Not just within the relationship aspect of life but also business as well. Make sure that any advances you make towards him are done in private between the two of you, and not with any people being around being able to see.

So you got your first date


For your first date it’s best to go with something that’s a little bit more feminine and sophisticated with your clothing choice.   Make him say wow in his mind. A sweatshirt and yoga pants will definitely not get the desired outcome that you’re looking for.

Don’t pry into his personal life when it comes to asking him questions to get to know him right away. Leave those types of questions for a later date.  Try going for imaginative conversations to get his mind going, and for food choices maybe pick somewhere that has exotic foods.

Being flirty is never a bad thing either.

This is a man that Prides himself on his ability to control a situation. That doesn’t mean that you need to be manipulated into a situation you don’t want to be in, but if you let him practice having a little bit of control over the night his interest in you will become even more so.

Sexually speaking he could devour you if you wish that night, because it’s not a myth that he’s a sexy beast.  He knows what he wants and how to get it if you allow him to have that.

So you want to get out of a date with a Scorpio man


  •  start to giggle nervously around him, even if it’s not funny
  •  don’t take anything he says seriously and just laugh it off
  •  flirt with other guys in front of him, ignore him when he gets jealous
  •  start telling him all the intimate secrets you know about your friends
  •  start to gossip

Scorpio Man Compatibility


Aries woman

These two together can make quite the loving and passionate couple, but they must overcome some obstacles to get there because possible conflicts in arguments can arise. That is why the compatibility for these two is pretty average. This woman initially attracts him due to the fact that she is considered to be a challenge in his mind. If the both of them can work through possible conflicts this relationship has a chance of working.

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Taurus woman

These two together can have a complicated existence in a relationship. Their compatibility rating is considered average. Which means that in order for this relationship to make any Headway, they would have to work together to overcome some obstacles that might come in their way. There is a chance for these two to work out, but it might be slim.

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Gemini woman

This is not another coupling that considerably has very little compatibility. Pretty much in both in regards to their astrological signs, and in their personality traits. That doesn’t mean that this relationship can’t work, it just means that they have to put in a lot of work to be able to make their relationship what they want it to be.

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Cancer woman

These two as a couple have a lot of things that they share and have in common on a day-to-day basis. Due to that fact they have a lot of compatibility with each other. Even though both have a different way of expressing their love and feelings for each other ,they have what’s considered a high level of compatibility.

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Leo woman

Together they don’t have very much of a chance when it comes to an actual romantic relationship. So when it comes to love there’s very little compatibility at all. One thing that they can completely agree on though is their love of sex. If they’re looking for a short-term relationship that is full of hot moments this would be the one that they would go for. They both understand sex pretty well.

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Virgo woman

These two have a lot of differences with each other, but even that can help them form a beautiful couple. They both like a relationship that is both tranquil and very calm. The only problem is they might find that they have a big obstacle in front of them, which is that they demand a lot from each other and they want Perfection from their relationship.

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Libra woman

This is a couple that can get together and be everything that they would want to be in  relationship. They are the type that will fall in love and become Inseparable from each other. When they become joined at the hip,  they will find that they have a balanced and very loving relationship. So that it’s a high compatibility combination.

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Scorpio woman

What happens when you mix a Scorpio man and a Scorpio woman together? You have what’s considered a very fiery relationship. This relationship can work out, they just need to make sure that they’re both on the same page when it comes to things. If they can do that this will form a very good foundation for a relationship that will last for a very long time.

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Sagittarius woman

These two can form a very attractive and interesting couple to say the least. There is a high compatibility rate with the two of them, even though in most cases they seem to be misunderstood with each other.

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Capricorn woman

These two together can form what is  a very balanced relationship. When the foundation is laid they find themselves in a very comfortable relationship that is full of love and romance . The both of them have a high level of compatibility with each other.

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Aquarius woman

The problem that these two face is that they both look at life in different ways. That’s not to say that there’s no possibility of a love relationship between these two, it’s just that they’ll have to work through a lot of different situations to be able to get there. A lot of people consider this to be a low compatibility match up, but with a little bit of help and a little bit of work they can make it happen.

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Pisces woman

These two together can become quite the stable couple. The fact that when you blend these two signs together they will find themselves in a situation where they are very different, but at the same time they’re also very similar in a lot of  ways. With this woman he’ll find a lot of trust that he’s looking for in a relationship, and the happiness that he’s looking for as well. This is one of the most ideal couples for his sign.

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 Erogenous zones


his zone  is his genitalia. I don’t think I really need to go into too much detail about what you should do over that situation.

Sex With A Scorpio Man


Scorpio rules the genitals and is the master of lovemaking. They take their rulership and their talent for seduction seriously so no joking around. Expect hot, heavy, emotional, skillful, high frequency and explosive power. He may overwhelm you at first but just relax; this is his astrological territory.

You’re with the connoisseur of sex so you might want to pick up a book or two on the fine art of lovemaking if you want to seal the deal with this man.

Turn Ons: A good girl who is willing to be corrupted. You want to push limits and you’re turned on by the difference between daytime and nighttime behavior. At heart you’re not a philanderer: You’ll commit to two girlfriends at once and stay faithful to both of them.

Turn Offs: Someone who’s untrustworthy, even if you’re not monogamous. You need a strong bond (even if it’s only for one night), and once a woman breaks her side of the agreement, your legendary jealousy and possessive streak come out.

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How to Keep your Scorpio man around


give this man space

This is the guy that definitely needs his space and the privacy that goes with it. Scorpios are known to be very independent. He works in the opposite type of way than other signs, meaning the less that you demand of him the more he’ll give back to you. He always needs to feel like he’s in control.

don’t be a fixer

The one thing that Scorpios have a hard time dealing with is failure. They absolutely detest if somebody comes along and helps fix their problems for them. Let them be the ones that fix their own mistakes,and adapt to their own situations.

help him to stop holding grudges

As everyone knows Scorpio has one of the hottest streaks of the zodiac sign. They love to hold grudges,and sometimes the only fix for that grudge is revenge. Heal this harmful trait of his, by reminding him or teaching him about the power of forgiveness. Help him to let things go.

Embrace Life Changes

This guy’s life will go in every direction possible. Whether that direction is up or down it is always dependent on the situation. When it comes to dating a Scorpio man you have to deal with changes that happen.

So take the time to embrace those changes. If you do, you can evolve in this relationship with this man. He really is a roller coaster of emotions.

Laugh more

This is definitely a guy who has a very vengeful and quite dark mood. That’s not to say he’s always that way. He needs a little bit more laughter in his life. He needs something that will offset this passionate and intense personality traits. If you break out some teasing that is done in a playful way or bring some humor into the mix he will love it.

The passionate part is great,the passionate part about revenge is not so much.

Take the time to win his Trust

One of the things that is at the very center of this man is that he has a hard time trusting anybody. Sometimes he has a very difficult time letting people get close enough for him to learn to trust. It might take a little bit of time but one of the best things you can do is help him to gain trust in you.

By doing so once he fully trust you,you’ll break down that wall around his heart and he can love you with all of it.

Refuse to fight with him

This man has the ability to be callous a lot of the time. When he does attack verbally it’s usually a sting that lasts a long time. This is his defense mechanism or a way for him to express his displeasure in something. Best thing you can do is tell him that what he said was hurtful,and refuse to battle it out with him. With a Scorpio choose your battles wisely.

Let this man lead

He is definitely a guy that likes to be in control of situations including relationships. They need to truly feel that winning feeling. Failure to them is not an option. Offer your support to him and avoid situations where you’re both battling it out for control of the relationship.

Sex is an important aspect

Scorpio can just never get enough sex. Also it’s not just a physical intimacy that they’re looking for but also the emotional. He looks at the act of sex as a bonding experience between him and his partner. It’s almost like it’s a very spiritual experience that he has when he has sex.

An eternal Bond can form between the two of you if he feels that the experience is beautiful. It would be at that moment that he would see that you truly love him.

Be completely loyal

As everyone knows Scorpio is one of the most jealous zodiac signs there are. If you are in complete love with this man you have to do everything you can to let him know through your words and actions that you are into him. Even though he gets a bad rap for his fiery attitude, he really does give it all to the person he loves to be with. He will treat you like a queen.


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Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez currently has 10+ years of experience helping people navigate life with the use of astrology. When not working on the website she is busy writing her first book on love and astrology.

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