The Scorpio Man
Flat out — these guys are ruled by the thing in between their legs. No joke. He is restless and looking for his next sexual adventure. He can be hypnotic, charming, and just plain intensely sexual. A high voltage sign should be hung from his neck. Scorpios respond well to kindness and never forget it and always repay. But they can make enemies so easily, partially because he is so damn hostile sometimes. Often Scorpio men are drunks or prone to a bit of self-destructive drug play. Icky stuff. But because he can muster up power like no one else, he can also overcome those addictions pretty safely.
What You Will Learn:
- 1 His Core Features
- 2 Scorpio Man Personality
- 3 The Scorpion is his Symbol
- 4 Pluto Is His Ruler
- 5 Water Is His Element
- 6 Fixed Is His Quality
- 7 Scorpio Man
- 8 Scorpio Man Traits
- 9 How To Get A Scorpio Man’s Attention
- 10 How to Attract a Scorpio Man
- 11 Dating a Scorpio man
- 12 Erogenous zones
- 13 Sex With A Scorpio Man
- 14 How to Keep your Scorpio man around
- 15 Scorpio Guy
His Core Features
Scorpio is considered to be a man of mystery. Oftentimes he surprises people by revealing a side of themselves they never knew existed. Basically, a Scorpio is someone who is somewhat reserved and quiet about their personal lives and will do whatever they can to maintain their privacy. Even though they’re very private, they’re willing to share parts of themselves with people they trust.
They’re not just persistent, but they’re also really stubborn. The trait is present no matter the situation, for instance, if they wanted to sweep a woman off her feet, they would go against all odds to make it happen. No matter what, they’ll overcome whatever obstacles stand in their way.
Scorpios are often associated with sexuality, which isn’t always the case. His goal isn’t to become a promiscuous person who takes advantage of every opportunity. He puts a lot of emphasis on his sexuality and sensuality. However, he needs someone who loves him, is kind, and cares about his well-being. It’s easy to conclude that he enjoys being in love, and prefers a stable and reliable relationship.
With a Scorpio man, there is no in-between. You’ll find either he’s always available for you, committed, persistent, and very eager to spend time with you. Or it’s also possible that he is very uncaring, uninterested, and unwilling to spend much time with you. To keep a man born under this sign by your side, it is very important for you to always show that you care about him and that you are there for him since this is something he needs every day.
Don’t expect the Scorpio to be in a hurry all the time. No matter how persistent he is in achieving his goals, he always approaches situations very strategically. Always taking his time and making sure he calculates everything at every step, he never does this in a hurry. His feelings and emotions seldom lead him to leap into something blindly. His way of doing things requires him to take his time, no matter how long it takes. This is how he develops feelings, too. One moment at a time, slowly.
Scorpio Man Personality
- Not afraid to go for what he wants, socially, professionally, and personally
- intense and energetic
- known to be a charmer, and loves to be a seductive
- won’t forgive cheating ( id say this is a plus )
- he will be direct with you.
- does have a sensitive side to him as well. Knock that wall down.
- Can sometimes be arrogant
- Can be hard to read as a person, patience is needed with this man
- Has a wall up, you need to knock it down to get at his heart.
- can be brutally honest and frank, no filter!
- Can be jealous and possessive
The Scorpion is his Symbol
Some believe that the only possible symbol Scorpio could have would be that of the Scorpion. But the truth is that it has two different symbols.
One is that of the eagle, which signifies change, and the other is that of the Scorpion, which symbolizes death. Rather, it signifies renewal rather than death. A Scorpio man may exhibit both of these characteristics since he is multifaceted. Although he will most likely be closer to one of them than the other.
Pluto Is His Ruler
Pluto is the ruler of Scorpio. Pluto was once considered a planet, although it was ultimately downgraded, and it is rumored that it could return to being considered a planet. Time will tell.
However, it should not be a big surprise that this is the ruler, as Pluto is the planet of both change and renewal. Pluto itself will bring many changes and lessons throughout our lifetimes.
Pluto is strong, fierce, explosive, and fearless. Scorpios are characterized by all of these attributes. These men have a very strong sense of self-determination. When they want to, they can be ferocious. When the heat of the moment or a battle is on, they can be explosive and can rise up without fear.
Life often consists of moments of death and rebirth. This can be in the form of career changes, or relationships that grow, only to fail and then find a new person again. This man will go through many of these moments in his life. He is a very complex and difficult person to understand. You think you know how the Scorpio mind works, but then they throw you a curveball.
Water Is His Element
Scorpio is undoubtedly a water sign. Just like water they can either be cloudy and hazardous or crystal clear and peaceful. Not only will their emotions play a major role in their lives, but also in your relationship together ( if you chose to be in one). They are definitely masters at hiding or disguising their true feelings. One thing they can’t hide is their anger or contempt towards their partner when they do something wrong.
It’s no secret that Scorpios are known for their unquenchable thirst for love and sexual gratification; however, many people don’t understand that they have a deep emotional awakening during the act of sex. You will be able to develop a much stronger relationship with them if you are able to connect with them sexually in bed.
One thing they can’t hide is the fact that they are capable of being consumed by jealousy. For this reason, their jealousy is known to be destructive to beautiful relationships. When something goes wrong in their relationships, they won’t whine about it. They are more likely to judge and toss insults your way. It’s almost like a safety net for them to protect their hearts. However, if they have a partner who can dish out as much as they can, they won’t be able to handle the heat. Even if that is their method of coping, they just don’t like being treated that way.
Fixed Is His Quality
Scorpio is considered a fixed sign. It is possible for him to be very stubborn and strong-willed. He can also display signs of being a control freak. It is not so much that he is a jerk, but rather that when he loves someone he becomes possessive. For some people, this can be reassuring or comforting to know that they are loved and cared for. Other people might find it so suffocating that the relationship almost feels like too much work.
To really be in a relationship with this gentleman you have to understand his depth and intensity. First and foremost, you should think about whether or not he belongs in your life. The problem is that he cannot let go of his possessive streak. Therefore, you must look inside yourself and decide if you are the type that could handle that lifestyle or if you are too free-spirited to fit into it.
He’s like a magnetic force whose power transcends the sexual plane. He’s got mystery and power going for him… just a very masculine presence. His reputation is terrible though because his character flaws tend to mostly show up in his love life. Sex brings his nature to extremes.
So much energy and passion in one man makes him easy prey for seduction; if that’s all you want out of the encounter with him. Forming a relationship with him…well that’s a different story altogether.
He wants nothing more than to have a relationship to soothe his very sensitive nature but for you, living with all that jealousy and unexpressed anger might not be so easy. His defenses are endless and he will never allow any woman to dominate him.
He’s the type to keep you dangling endlessly and then cut you loose altogether, without mercy. And if you dare be upset over it, he’ll truly be surprised because, in his world, he’s the only one entitled to vindictiveness.
In matters of the heart, he always knows the net worth of what he wants… moneywise, timewise, effort-wise…and if it’s too much, he’ll simply walk away. He’s aware of how attractive he is to women and takes advantage of it to the point that he can easily make any woman come to the boiling point in bed.
One of his most attractive sexual aspects is the fact that he knows what a woman wants, and if he doesn’t feel threatened by those needs, he’ll do everything he can to meet them.
He appears friendly and easygoing but that’s only what he wants you to see. Beware of underlying feelings always. He might be a lot to handle, but he sure as hell brings out the best in you!
Scorpio Man Traits
If you fall for anything it will be those eyes, whatever the color they will be intensely penetrating and probing. You must be careful though jealousy rides high with him and he tends to be possessive but hates to be possessed. Plays with two sets of rules one for you and one for him!
How To Get A Scorpio Man’s Attention
What to focus on:
- He has an innate ability to be able to read your mind almost. You’re going to have to get used to being like an open book to him. He will be able to look right for you and know if you’re lying or telling the truth.
- If he brings up his pet peeves and one of them is something that you are known to do, agree with his point of view on it, and then do what you can to change the conversation to something else.
- He comes across as a dominant male, so you always know what he is interested in or what he wants. He will always let you know.
- He loves it when somebody will show that they appreciate his attention. He’s very sympathetic when it comes to people that he cares about. So take the time to show him that you appreciate him. He will be considerate of your feelings.
- When it comes to his demands try to cater as much as you can to the issues that don’t matter so much. If something is important to you and you stand your ground he will admire that. He’ll also give you what you want.
- He almost has a magnetic personality, and a lot of women are attracted to that aspect of him. You will really have to pull back the reins of jealousy if that’s something that you have as a trait.
- He is truly passionate about everything in life including his sex life. You won’t last long in his life if you have a cold demeanor and are not as sexually intimate as he is.
- This guy holds all of his deepest thoughts close to his heart. It might take a little time for him to reveal everything about him. So be patient, in time he will reveal everything you need to know.
What Not To Do:
- If he desires any affection or attention from you then make sure that you provide that to him. If you make up excuses all the time to not do it he will look for it from somebody else. That’s not to say you should put yourself in an uncomfortable position if you don’t feel like it’s what you want.
- This is definitely a man that you don’t want to come across Crude too. Don’t goad him, as he has one of the worst wraths of all of the zodiac signs. He can split somebody in half with just his words.
- Don’t think that you’ll be able to hide very much from this gentleman. When it comes to finding out the answers he needs to know about things he’s like Sherlock Holmes. It won’t take him very long to find out the answers.
How to Attract a Scorpio Man
The Scorpio man is passionate, impulsive, and very intense. To attract a Scorpio man, you will need to be able to find yourself compatible with the “bad boy” and you will need to compliment his same passion. Scorpio males are attracted to beauty and elegance and don’t care too much for small talk like the Gemini male.
Scorpio men are intrigued by beauty and passion, and they are also extremely curious people. To attract a Scorpio male, you need to be open and carefree providing answers to his curiosities, or he may become quickly bored of you.
If you plan to go out on a date with a Scorpio male, you need to attract him by participating in fun, outdoor activities. Scorpio males are usually best suited for water sports since their passion draws them to places like lakes and beaches.
To attract a Scorpio man, be prepared to be very outgoing and social. Scorpios love anything social like parties, concerts, charities, and other social events that bring out engaging interaction with people.
Since Scorpio males are especially passionate, they can also become jealous and envious of you, so make sure that you always pay attention and stay focused on him or the jealous side of the Scorpio may come out.
You will need to constantly keep your Scorpio man interested. Scorpios are known to be adulterers and cheaters, so to keep them focused on you takes a lot of skill and intrigue on your part. Always stay attractive and keep traveling and sports-related activities as part of your relationship or you may find your Scorpio male falling into the arms of another woman.
Scorpio males are also the best love makers always concerned with pleasing women, so you will enjoy the night with your man.
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Dating a Scorpio man
How to approach him for the first time
Now, this guy is the type of guy that likes to be with somebody that’s passionate about life and the life that they live. In one regard he’s the opposite of a cancer guy, he can do without the sweet aspect.
He’s attracted to a woman that has a very sharp mind but also has a very sensual side to her as well. The big thing to note is that without the sharp mind his impression will start to fade. He needs that mental stimulation.
He’s not the type of guy that you play Coy with, because he doesn’t like to be manipulated in any type of way.
The most important thing you have to remember though is that this guy himself is very much into discretion. Not just within the relationship aspect of life but also business as well. Make sure that any advances you make towards him are done in private between the two of you, and not with any people being around being able to see.
So you got your first date
For your first date, it’s best to go with something that’s a little bit more feminine and sophisticated with your clothing choice. Make him say wow in his mind. A sweatshirt and yoga pants will definitely not get the desired outcome that you’re looking for.
Don’t pry into his personal life when it comes to asking him questions to get to know him right away. Leave those types of questions for a later date. Try going for imaginative conversations to get his mind going, and for food choices maybe pick somewhere that has exotic foods.
Being flirty is never a bad thing either.
This is a man that prides himself on his ability to control a situation. That doesn’t mean that you need to be manipulated into a situation you don’t want to be in, but if you let him practice having a little bit of control over the night his interest in you will become even more so.
Sexually speaking he could devour you if you wish that night because it’s not a myth that he’s a sexy beast. He knows what he wants and how to get it if you allow him to have that.
So you want to get out of a date with a Scorpio man
- start to giggle nervously around him, even if it’s not funny
- don’t take anything he says seriously and just laugh it off
- flirt with other guys in front of him, ignore him when he gets jealous
- start telling him all the intimate secrets you know about your friends
- start to gossip
his zone is his genitalia. I don’t think I really need to go into too much detail about what you should do over that situation.
Sex With A Scorpio Man
Scorpio rules the genitals and is the master of lovemaking. They take their rulership and their talent for seduction seriously so no joking around. Expect hot, heavy, emotional, skillful, high frequency, and explosive power. He may overwhelm you at first but just relax; this is his astrological territory.
You’re with the connoisseur of sex so you might want to pick up a book or two on the fine art of lovemaking if you want to seal the deal with this man.
Turn Ons: A good girl who is willing to be corrupted. You want to push limits and you’re turned on by the difference between daytime and nighttime behavior. At heart you’re not a philanderer: You’ll commit to two girlfriends at once and stay faithful to both of them.
Turn Offs: Someone who’s untrustworthy, even if you’re not monogamous. You need a strong bond (even if it’s only for one night), and once a woman breaks her side of the agreement, your legendary jealousy and possessive streak come out.
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How to Keep your Scorpio man around
give this man space
This is the guy that definitely needs his space and the privacy that goes with it. Scorpios are known to be very independent. He works in the opposite type of way than other signs, meaning the less that you demand of him the more he’ll give back to you. He always needs to feel like he’s in control.
don’t be a fixer
The one thing that Scorpios have a hard time dealing with is a failure. They absolutely detest if somebody comes along and helps fix their problems for them. Let them be the ones that fix their own mistakes, and adapt to their own situations.
help him to stop holding grudges
As everyone knows Scorpio has one of the hottest streaks of the zodiac sign. They love to hold grudges, and sometimes the only fix for that grudge is revenge. Heal this harmful trait of his, by reminding him or teaching him about the power of forgiveness. Help him to let things go.
Embrace Life Changes
This guy’s life will go in every direction possible. Whether that direction is up or down it is always dependent on the situation. When it comes to dating a Scorpio man you have to deal with changes that happen.
So take the time to embrace those changes. If you do, you can evolve in this relationship with this man. He really is a roller coaster of emotions.
This is definitely a guy who has a very vengeful and quite dark mood. That’s not to say he’s always that way. He needs a little bit more laughter in his life. He needs something that will offset this passionate and intense personality trait. If you break out some teasing that is done in a playful way or bring some humor into the mix he will love it.
The passionate part is great, the passionate part about revenge is not so much.
Take the time to win his Trust
One of the things that is at the very center of this man is that he has a hard time trusting anybody. Sometimes he has a very difficult time letting people get close enough for him to learn to trust. It might take a little bit of time but one of the best things you can do is help him to gain trust in you.
By doing so once he fully trusts you, you’ll break down that wall around his heart and he can love you with all of it.
Refuse to fight with him
This man has the ability to be callous a lot of the time. When he does attack verbally it’s usually a sting that lasts a long time. This is his defense mechanism or a way for him to express his displeasure in something. The best thing you can do is tell him that what he said was hurtful, and refuse to battle it out with him. With a Scorpio choose your battles wisely.
Let this man lead
He is definitely a guy that likes to be in control of situations including relationships. They need to truly feel that winning feeling. Failure to them is not an option. Offer your support to him and avoid situations where you’re both battling it out for control of the relationship.
Sex is an important aspect
Scorpio can just never get enough sex. Also, it’s not just a physical intimacy that they’re looking for but also the emotional. He looks at the act of sex as a bonding experience between him and his partner. It’s almost like it’s a very spiritual experience that he has when he has sex.
An eternal bond can form between the two of you if he feels that the experience is beautiful. It would be at that moment that he would see that you truly love him.
Be completely loyal
As everyone knows Scorpio is one of the most jealous zodiac signs there are. If you are in complete love with this man you have to do everything you can to let him know through your words and actions that you are into him. Even though he gets a bad rap for his fiery attitude, he really does give it all to the person he loves to be with. He will treat you like a queen.