Are Sagittarius and Scorpio Compatible?
In most cases, compatibility is low when you put these two signs in a relationship. They will likely not make it past the dating phase, as they will both find that their relationship can become complicated.
These two signs are very different, having quite differing viewpoints. That’s why things can be complex between the two, as their differences can usually cause arguments to flare up.
Scorpios can sometimes be misleading regarding their feelings and keep secrets close to their chest. Whereas on the other side of things, Sagittarius is honest with their emotions and very straightforward.
In this situation, the Sagittarian has a free and adventurous spirit that embodies who they are. The free spirit inside them will clash with the Scorpion’s very aggressive and possessive side. They want the focus of the Sagittarian to be on them.
One place they can find things working out very well is the bedroom. This will be one of those relationships that show a lot of fire and energy when they’re sexually active with each other.
The problem usually comes down to these two not being able to find common ground with each other. That is usually the breaking point between the two of them. Suppose they can work together and find common ground where they’re both happy in the relationship. In that case, they can build upon that Foundation and create something they both enjoy being a part of.
How Are Sagittarius and Scorpio in Love?
These two will get along famously when going out on dates and having fun. The problem usually arises when they move things past that, going from a casual relationship to a more serious one.
They will find out when they’re going out on dates together that they’ll have a lot of fun experiences. Still, as time goes on, they might start to appreciate the time away from each other more than the time together.
At the very beginning, the Sagittarius is seduced by how deep the Scorpio can be. On the other side, Sagittarius has a very seductive appeal to them, and their partner will love the optimism they exhibit regarding how they deal with life.
Although the attraction will be there physically, they will realize that things aren’t so peachy in their everyday life. They will find that their relationship with each other will be taxing on them, and the foolish arguments, as well as the heated ones, would be the end of the relationship.
That doesn’t mean that this relationship is all doom and gloom. It would be very important for them to sit down and work on things to make a foundation they can build a beautiful relationship.
The Sagittarius needs to take the time to become more aware of how they express their feelings to their partner while taking more interest in taking care of their loved one.
The Scorpio needs to open up and become candid about their feelings and express them to their partner. It will also benefit the relationship if they learn to become a little more spontaneous when it comes to life and live in the moment.
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Experts Discuss This Couple:
Melissa: The Archer is far too busy on worldly journeys to satisfy Scorp’s soul – this duo can’t find common ground long enough to get to know one another.
Celia: Never forget the Archer speaks the open, honest truth (their version of it!). Suspicion and accusation could break their spirit.
Jenn: With the carefree attitude and tendency to long for the freedom of the Sagittarius, this is probably not a match made in heaven. You are much too intense to put up with the restlessness of the Sagittarius for very long but your intense passion may be just what it takes to keep the Sagittarius around and tie them down.
Lidia: This will be one of those relationships where you are drawn toward your partner quickly and it won’t be long before you are under the sheets. Scorpio can be a very insecure person, but with Sagittarius on side, Scorpio will realize that there is not much point in seeing the negatives in everything. This all swaps around though when it comes down to actually discussing your future together. Where Scorpio needs reassurance and to see where you stand, Sagittarius will try to move the whole conversation onto a funny note, to dismiss it. This will hurt deeply to a Scorpio and it may mean you never get over the drift that emerges from these types of situations.
Socially, you both have different views of what a good night can be and while Scorpio is happy to stay at home, Sagittarius will prefer to go out and party. Compromise to prevent the arguments you are bound to have about this.
Laura: The Scorpio and Sagittarius couple will always tell one another the truth. Both are direct communicators and will have little time for verbal runarounds. Sagittarius may very well cause Scorpio to pitch fits as a result of the archer’s free-wheeling ways and tendency to flirt with others. If Scorpio can learn to let Sagittarius roam at will to play and collect information from outsiders, then Scorpio will realize that these travels are usually quite innocent in nature. Once reassured, Scorpio is more than willing to give itself wholly to the archer. Sagittarius will appreciate Scorpion’s intensity, his/her keen insight into humanity, along with the ability to see beneath the surface of nearly everyone they encounter. Sagittarius flushes them out with a cheery nature, then Scorpio’s human radar weeds out the unwanted. Socially, mutual friends will likely be thoroughly entertained by their candid observations and exciting travel stories
Tracy: Sagittarius and Scorpio match have contrasting attitudes and values meaning they struggle to understand each other. Scorpio tends to be possessive and most Sanitarians will rebel against this; resulting in a very shaky union.
Heidi: Although this relationship could start off interesting, it could bore easily. Scorpio will try to dominate Sagittarius and would like them at home. This doesn’t sit well for Sagittarius who needs to wander and explore. They clash when it comes to communication, as Capricorn tends to be somewhat secretive in nature, and Sagittarius talkative. Scorpio can become resentful of Sagittarius and Sagittarius’s opinionated and verbally assaulting toward Scorpio.
Keley: Scorpios may find Sagittarius’s devil may care attitude a bit annoying, as they are very intense emotionally. Sagittarius may find all the intense emotions quite trying at times, and eventually yearn for freedom.
Marcus: How different are we? Let me count the ways. This pair of astrological signs asks this question all the time. A Sag is often lighthearted, jovial, and open. Scorpios are myopic, intensely private, and quiet. Sagittarius interprets the Scorpio’s intensity as dark brooding, and in general just a downer. A Sag will at first try to cheer up his beloved Scorp, but gets discouraged easily when this doesn’t work and often skips off to the next party. There usually is a strong attraction at first between these two astrological signs, usually sexual. Unfortunately, it tends to fizzle out when they get down to the real nuts and bolts of running the relationship. Not a big winning combo in the zodiacal scheme of things.
David: Scorpio is complex and secretive; Sagittarius is straightforward and direct. Scorpio wants immersion; Sagittarius can’t live without independence. Nonetheless, the attraction is hard to deny.
Scorpio Man and Sagittarius Woman
The relationship between these two can be quite an interesting one as both of them have things to teach the other person. Scorpio man is a mysterious being with intellect and passion and a lot of suspicions. She is always honest and never tries to conceal anything that she observes. The doubtful nature he has can be quite irritating for the Sagittarius woman and her lack of sense of responsibility can be a great turn-off for him. The relationship can work out if both the members try to understand each other and tolerate each other in arguments and heated conversations.
How to Keep the Fire Burning
Know that your chemistry is great.
The chemistry between you is fantastic, and it’s not likely that you’ll become tired of one another. If you get out into the country or travel someplace you’ve never been, take your Scorpio along. It will resolve his suspicious nature and may bring him around to a place where some of that optimism rubs off on him.
Let him know you will not be limited.
Let him know right away that you have no desire to live under any form of limitation. You need social activity, time to pursue your personal interests, and direct contact with nature in order to thrive. If he truly loves you, his protective nature will enable him to do what’s best for you.
Be honest and open with each other.
He respects the strength of character and integrity; he is not attracted to those who don’t stand up for themselves or show weakness in the face of a crisis. You probably care about him for those convictions of his, being an idealist. Don’t hide anything from him; if the relationship is not going the way you’d like it to, don’t hold onto those thoughts, express them honestly and clearly. If you wait too long, you’ll have an angry Scorpio who will then consider you no longer worthy of his time, effort, and love. They are serious people; you don’t want to lose a friend like a Scorpio.
Sagittarius Man and Scorpio Woman
In the beginning, the Scorpio woman feels as if she is in a new world. The flirtatious nature he has and her admiration-loving nature make the relationship, in the beginning, a great experience. But eventually, she will get bored of the same tricks of the Sagittarius man. There are not many conflicts in the relationship. All they need is that he should learn a bit about the nature of the Scorpio and she should also try to widen her outlook and should pay attention to other aspects of the relationship.
How to Keep the Fire Burning
He must feel free to be fun.
He sticks to his ideals, and you tend to cling to your convictions. He can be impulsive and outspoken in the extreme but is almost always a fun person you enjoy being around. He’s not one to be tied down, and it’s best to give him plenty of freedom. Be careful when you do so because he might take it too literally and that could be hurtful to the relationship.
Never compromise your integrity.
One thing that makes a strong bond between you is that you will always return a favor in kind and that you will never allow your integrity to be compromised. A clever Sagittarius Man (and there are plenty of them) will recognize and appreciate this, because they are, essentially, idealists, and will never act purposely to lose someone’s friendship.
Let him know you don’t want to be laughed at.
The typical Sagittarius is so used to acting in his fun but clumsy fashion, with no sense of embarrassment, that they are not likely to be observant enough to recognize that they have hurt you. When they do, they’ll apologize immediately. Unless they know right from the beginning that your sense of humor does not include being made fun of, they may continue with their habits until they end up receiving the brunt of your fury. Nevertheless, they are, for the most part, exciting and enjoyable conversationalists, and generally good company.
Scorpio & Sagittarius Friendship
Mentally you two could be on such different planes that conversation may be tricky. Lots of crossed lines.
For The Scorpion:
It’s respect. A strange kind of respect..but respect. Sagittarius cannot shock you. You can’t shock them. You won’t trust everything they say but that..in itself…can be a form of trust. They will soon learn to be more honest with you than they are with anyone else.
For The Archer:
Sometimes you just cannot relate to their intensity…then again…sometimes you can. For all your differences Scorp and you often have a very sweet kind of friendship. Always stay upfront with them…that’s what counts.
Sagittarius & Scorpio Relationship
For The Scorpion:
Where the friendship has a certain instant click, a romance takes more time. They live by their own rules…rules you probably aren’t comfortable with. Give it time, give each other plenty of space and do that thing that always works….accept each other as is.
For The Archer:
It was probably their passion that attracted you in the first place. It can get a little touchy though when things get more serious. Watch the jealousy issues and work hard to overcome them.
If you do manage to get on as friends you will be very compatible lovers.
If you don’t try to force each other to make decisions and let each one of you draw your own conclusions then there is great hope for this relationship.
The most exciting thing about this relationship in the short term is the fact that you have very different outlooks on life.
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