Dating a Sagittarius and Relationships

sagittarius in relationships

Sagittarius in Relationships


Sagittarius is not a sign that likes to feel fenced in by a relationship. Because of their free spirited and adventurous nature, it can be hard for them to keep long lasting relationships. What they need is someone who can understand their need for freedom, someone who doesn’t try to control them, and who trusts them. When a Sagittarian has that from a partner, they will gladly be loyal and loving because deep down they crave that soul mate connection. As a passionate fire sign, Sagittarians tend to throw themselves whole heartedly into a relationship at the start. But trying to keep that pace up isn’t easy. Many Sagittarians will have long stretches where they are single.

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What a Sagittarius likes In a relationship


Intellectual compatibility with their lover.
Flirtation ( for their partner to keep it fresh)
Freedom and some independence in the partnership
Being confident their in something good.
Active relationship where they go out and do things.
Daydreaming about the future with their partner.
Risk taking
A sense of adventure ( that they can explore together)


What a Sagittarius Dislikes In a relationship


Their partner being lazy
Jealousy rearing its ugly head in their business
Someone controlling them
A partner that doubts them
Being forced to give promises
Being looked at as a possession
Needing to explain themselves

How To Attract Sagittarius


If you want to attract a Sagittarius, you must be conversational with them – ask them about themselves and share stories with them. Do what you can to make them laugh. But, whatever you do, do not ask them about intimate details of their life. If you stay emotionally aloof from them, they are more attracted to you.

Outdoor fun – wild and wacky – is generally in order for the people of this sign, as they love activities. While Sagittarius are regarded as being easy to get a date with, it doesn’t mean it’ll happen. They have real commitment issues. Now, if you like spending with them, that’s fine. However, don’t be surprised if you have to move on or share them with other folks. This sign is all about fun and non-commitments.

Dating a Sagittarius


If you are an animal lover then a Sagittarius is the perfect date for you. Impress them with an outing at the zoo, or a day of horseback riding, or a hike on a nature trail. Sagittarius also love travel and the great outdoors so a camping trip is a wonderful step towards winning their love. Another favorite place to take a Sagittarius is anywhere there are a lot of people, as this sign loves to party. The more the merrier is the Sagittarians motto. Sagittarians are very concerned with justice and moral responsibility so always be honest and forthright around them. In addition be careful not to cling to a Sagittarian as they love their independence.


What It’s Like To Date A Sagittarius Man


This male is not the type to easily tie down. He loves the chase so while you’re trying to win over his heart, he may be out getting other women’s attention. When he tells you he likes you, he is being sincere. But, be warned! He may also be telling other women the same thing.

He’s not the sign that’s overly romantic – and he generally attracts women who love the idea of chasing. If you’re going to win this man over, you must be unassertive about love. Do not try and get him into an emotional commitment such as future together conversations. The Sagittarius male is perfect for females who don’t want a commitment or are scared of a relationship. Fearless, adventurous females will find the Sagittarius man is perfect for them.

What It’s Like To Date A Sagittarius Woman


This lady presents with a wonderful attitude and always out and about. A man who has plenty of energy and originality can find love with the females of this sign. Since she’s the sign that enjoys change and nonconformity, anything unplanned or last minute wins over her heart.

If you’re going to want to keep her, you must ensure she is happy. If she ever becomes bored or not happy, she won’t try and repair the issues tearing the relationship apart, she’ll just leave in a blink of an eye. Of course, happiness for her isn’t that difficult.

Be the friend she wants; love isn’t that serious to her anyway… at least not in the beginning. Give her freedom, do some flirting and be sure the relationship goes slow. Rushing the lady of this sign will only end in misery. Be sure you are honest – no mind games – adventurous and a positive person. If you’re lucky to date a Sagittarius woman, you’re in for a wonderful relationship that’s full of adventure.

Sagittarius cheater or faithful?


First off it’s important to note that Sagittarius are excellent lovers,and a great partner to have.

These are people that will devote themselves to a relationship, and make sure that their partner has everything that they need to be happy.

It should also be noted that they are very loyal and very faithful to anybody that they are with.

In some cases though unfaithfulness can come into the picture. After all they are only human.

When it can happen

In the majority of cases it is usually due to the idea that they have found something in another person that is missing in their relationship.

They usually won’t let it get to this point though, as they will take the time to sit down with their partner and discuss what is upsetting them about the relationship. They will talk about what they feel is missing from the relationship and see if there’s any way that it can be fixed. It’s usually at this point that they will decide to end the relationship instead of being put into a situation where they make the decision to be unfaithful.

It should be noted that Sagittarius usually will not premeditated their sexual encounters with another person behind your back. If it does occur it usually happens when their in a moment of weakness.

If they do choose to be unfaithful, they will be honest with their partner about what happened. They will own up to their mistakes and be sincere about what they did. In a lot of cases this will be the moment the relationship ends, but in some cases they might try everything they can to continue the relationship.

The fact of the matter is is Sagittarius people are usually very faithful towards their partner as long as their significant other is treating them well.

The best thing that you can do if your dating a Sagittarius person, is to always keep the line of communication open. Any problems that they have in the relationship you discuss them with them and see if there is a mutual understanding that you can both come to to fix things. This goes both ways.

Quiz: Sagittarius lover – What kind of Lover are you? or is your partner?


To answer each question, meditate or think about each one to get an answer of either Yes, No, or Sometimes, which ever applies best to you in regards to the question.

Yes=3 Sometimes=2 No=1

For Men

Is freedom the most important thing for you?
Is being faithful important for you in a relationship?
Are you active in sports?
Do you look for the easy way out in situations?
Does jealousy and possessiveness make you sick?
Are you born under a lucky star?
Do you have a problem controlling your fantasies?
Do you think that sexual variety is essential to your happiness?
Would you break up a relationship with someone who was too demanding of your time and space?
Do you hate routine?
Are you a free spirit?
Do you have the gift of gab?
Are you often late and forget things?
Do you believe in love without marriage?
Would you feel at ease having two or more lovers at the same time?
Do small uneducated, unsophisticated people get on your nerves?
Do you love adventure?
Do you think that children are only good for other people?
Do you find it difficult to remember dates and names when it comes to other people?
Could you fall in love with a women who is already involved or married?

For Women

Could you live without freedom?
Do you hate jealousy and possessiveness?
Are you attracted to married men?
Do you like to surrender in love?
Do you like sports?
Do you experience panic attacks?
To be happy do you need a goal in life?
Is it difficult for you to be loyal in love?
Do you believe in marriage?
Could you cheat on your lover without feeling bad about it and keeping it a secret?
Are you impulsive?
Do you like to break the rules?
Could you go from one lover to another spontaneously without remorse?
Are you a feminist?
Does your free-spirited attitude make men feel insecure?
Is your social life exciting?
Do you live for the moment?
Does challenge in a relationship turn you on?
Do you break the law to do things your way?
Is it difficult for you to believe in soul mates?


1 – 35 POINTS

You are an-all-for-me kind of Sagittarius with a need for less freedom. You are also very altruistic and very gifted, with a strong faith. The Jupiter’s fiery element is mellowed down by the Water elements.

35 – 45 POINTS

You are the positive Sagittarius with a need to reach a balance between social life, home life, and adventure. You are also extremely creative and very capable of making a difference in the world.

45 – 60 POINTS

Jupiter brings good fortune towards all the good and bad qualities of the Sagittarius personality.

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Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez currently has 10+ years of experience helping people navigate life with the use of astrology. When not working on the website she is busy writing her first book on love and astrology.

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