1. Most of the comments on here are from girls – here’s a story from a guy.

    First let me say I was a married Aries guy so wasn’t looking around. I was working at a customer site and one evening went for a works drink with my main customer and a few people who I didn’t know. A girl had joined the group at the pub but I didn’t pay much attention. However, when I was introduced to Sag girl (lets call her S) it was like nothing I can explain, the only thing that comes close is the “zing” from the film Hotel Transylvanian. For the following 4 weeks S and I continued to have to work together and the bond just got stronger. I didn’t hide anything from her, she found out a few days later through normal work conversation that I was married but when I was with S it was like the world around us blurred into insignificance when we were together. Nothing happened between us other than a friendship/bond/connection neither of us could fight. About a week later she got some very sad news and turned to me as a confidant to talk about the problem. It was life changing, sad and personal news that she couldn’t share with others at work and found it easiest to talk to me. This only strengthened the bond further. S was given 6 weeks sick leave to give her time to deal with the news. I was due to visit my parents 5 hours drive away and it turned out her parents only live an hour from my parents and were on the way. I probably shouldn’t have done, but offered to drive a distressed S to her parents so she could be in the safest place for her. Her parents were very grateful that I had brought their precious daughter home safe and out of appreciation they offered to cook for me – so I accepted their hospitality and stayed for a great BBQ. Thinking back now in hindsight, the bond between us must have been obvious and her parents tried to convince me to stay over so I could have a drink. Anyhow, I left to see my parents and got a phone call a few days later from girl saying that she’d had an argument with her mother after her mother found out I was married. It was at that point that I realised how much I’d fallen for S. What did I do? The only thing I felt fair for S, her relationship with her mother and for respect for my own relationship and told S that we couldn’t be in contact any more. Now I thought that after a few weeks, I’d forget about all this and it would be a distance memory, but it seems I cheated my heart as here I am 12 years later, although still (mostly happily) married, but often thinking about a Sagittarius girl like it was last week. Morel to the story – Aries+Sagittarius is for the long term, just make sure you are in a situation to be able to take it in both arms and never let it go.

  2. I’m the sag. He was the aries. First off, I want to say he was the sweetest guy I ever dated. He treated me like a princess and i didnt deserve it. All he could talk about was our life together and it scared me. He didnt like me having guy friends and was very possessive. It felt like i was always trying to inch away and hide from him. Its almost like he was too nice and dependable for my taste. I really wanted to make it work but after a year I felt like he was sitting on me…. and now I miss him. Dumb sagittarius.

  3. Im a sagg woman in a long term on off relationship with an aries man. we dated when we were teenagers he had the control i was not prepared for the mind games, possesiveness,he was a risk-taker.! I do like to have my freedom tho! he needs to be needed and wanted and lusted after he cud be demanding like a child for a long time. We met years later and it was love at first sight like we had never met before it was instant attraction all over again wow this time I was more in control and i put down some ground rules! hes needs to have some boundaries cus he will always try an take the control even asking for it out right lol yes he did!I love my aries man because of his confidance and passion i can be my self fully around him he has made me feel love to heights i never knew existed. he works at love im attracted to that. sex is important he likes to satisfy me he believes its his job to be good at it. we like a challenge so we create some 2 spice up life n love.x.

  4. I think this works because even though sagittarius’s don’t Like to be smothered and constantly around their guy/girl, an Aries will give you that then take it away and dangle It in front of you!! then just at the right moment they’ll give it back. they’re so good at manipulating and even tho us sag’s are smart enough to realize this, there’s something soooo sexy about it. I’ve never felt so attracted to a guy and I usually push people away but I find myself just wanting more…haha there are fights but making up is sweet and i love the playful wrestling. oh And no other couple can laugh and make jokes as much as we can!! it’s just so perfect. if you have this combination don’t let it pass!! and once you have it hang on tight because Trust me no other signs can keep up. or understand our odd child like humour :) ****warning Aries are sooo insanely jealous! any type of flirting or rumor will set them off. it’s worth it tho. Aries will give you anything you want when they know your loyal!

  5. I recently got out of a 4 ½ year marriage with a Capricorn male (which was the WORSE mistake an Arian gal like myself could make…). It’s been awhile since all the mess. I made my first mistake with a Libra male that I knew from the past- that blew to smithereens. I was wary of dating anyone after that. The Sagg I have been dating almost 10 months now- we knew each other in high school- he was shy, I was outgoing. HE wanted to date. I LOVE this man. He is sweet, gentle but we both share that fun sense of adventure and freedom. We don’t expect anything from each other and that WORKS. WE give each other space as needed and I have learned to understand that (from past experience). My Sagg is playful but still serious about this relationship… I must say I was skeptical at first but then I was convinced when we seriously started to date. My parents are female Aries and male Leo…that’s another Arian relationship that works too…but this Sagg personality is just right- we are fair even

  6. marie (sagittarius) says:

    I just started to date an Aries guy a few weeks ago, im sag Let me tell you, this is an intense beginning. I mean, I am not in any type of friend ship unless it is very REAL and intense but, this guy surpasses me. I only have a few close friends and I give them my all. Many times, I feel like I don’t receive the same amount of effort that I put into a friendship or relationship but, with an Aries man..the intensity is AMAZING, even a little scary for me. He seems to need his space and the second I am like great he’s not into me…he comes with open arms- ready for any conversation, adventure, or lazy time. I can tell he is much more sensitive than me, I am very blunt and I know he loves my honesty but, I can tell he has taken offence to it once. I can work on that though. All he wants to do is pleasure ME in bed…which is very different for me because usually that is my role. We have started off great but, he is a little sensitive about a few things. I cant wait to see what happens

  7. Me and my Aries are Always smart mouthed truthful people. We don’t really get along but as I’m learning (or hoping) he likes me much more then I think. He has chased after and waited for me through relationships. We’ve established a “no relationship” speal. After months of chasing I never appreciated him. Now I do. I’m not sure if it will work out seeing as though we have been fighting the feeling for some time. I have chosen leos the other fire sign over him. I obviously have been making the wrong choices. Dear Aries will you be mine? :)

  8. Lisa marie says:

    Our relationship started out as an on-line friendship. We met on-line 2 yrs ago and have talked everyday since! and I mean everyday. He is so thoughtful, sweet, and spontaneous!He gives!!! and is very concerned about pleasing me in the budoir. But there is another side, the controlling possessive, argumentative, side of him. Its was hard for me to deal at first because like a true Sag, I was like to hell with this! I don’t need the crowding. I even asked for some space which sparked a WWIII. I’m still trying to adjust but just as someone said before he knows how to turn it on and off and when it’s off I miss it because he can become very cold. I don’t know what to do since he lives far away and our relationship is long distance, but I an honestly say this is one of my best relationships to date. I hope and pray it lasts. Any advice on how to really date an Aries man would be helpful!

  9. cuddly gurl says:

    OMG i met this guy online ( mind you, im 27 he’s 22) and we had conversations online for about a week or so. He really stimulated my mind to where i couldnt wait to get online and check what he wrote next. I was a bit skeptical about him being younger than me, but he was so intelligent and witty with his words and i loved the fact that he read a lot. I also loved how he took his time before asking for my number…He wanted to know more about me first. I was happy to give him my number. He’s such a sexy young man and handsome as ever. He’s passionate and gentle, something i love! He makes me feel so good inside just by thinking about him and when were together, he just mmm! makes me feel like a woman!! i never thought a younger guy could make me feel this way. Being that ive had experience with a sag before, i already new to give him his space and not make him feel like i was trying to tie him down…until he’s ready. He’s everything. sometimes i think im in love with him! wow!

  10. I’m female sagittarian, He’s aires man. Electric relationship from the day we met. Been together 10 years in and out. Sometimes good and sometimes bad to very bad relationship. Jealousy, Control, Possessiveness are all part of the Aires Male. They do like to be lusted after, wanted, assured that they are the best. They have a lot going for them but the negative side of their personality creates many problems. They never forget a mistake even though they’ve made it themselves and double standards are quite common. Their sexy minds never make the bedroom boring. They will also never fail to pursue the female sex and lie to your face and say they don’t. They can’t be trusted but they are fun and generous. What bothered me most is their dark personality and never admitting that someone else might be right.

  11. Everything seems dead on we fell in live in a,week. But she is a bit crazy. She started affectionate, and out no where went back to her ex. It hurt but anger made me deal. But she made sure to constantly call out of no where. And come by and tell me she wanted me back playing both of us. So as of a year to date he’s in jail. She says they have been way done. And I know I would never have taken her back, cuz I had hot girls that loved me. But I did and I never stopped loving her. And she must feel that way or would not always come back. But she’s the type acts tough and needs no one and if I am with someone its all the way. Don’t know what to do. I am afraid If I ignore her she will be to stubborn to let me know she needs me. Which as a man I feel like a puss. But I know it can be great, if we both saw what I see. Anyway, I hope it works for everyone else. Cuz after this I’m a bachelor for life cuz I know I’m possessive and controling

  12. I’m sagittarius woman, I started out a shy and introverted girl. Once, I broke out of my shell, I met a man I will never forget. I was a girl of the age of 14, I had finally grown into my curves, and boys were chasing me every which way I turned. I met him then, I remember it clearly, he was dancing, his sweat soaked hair glued to his forehead. It was love at first sight, I knew this when we locked gazes. I dated a couple town boys, but the thoughts of the dancing boy were locked deeply within my mind. We developed a inseparable friendship in my group of friends. He never asked me out, our relationship simply grew into a romance almost immediately. Once we were dating, conversations that wouldn’t end began and we spent hours on the phone. Days of adventures, passionate kissing, and young love. We dated for six months, and due to my parents disagreeing with the relationship, we seperated. Two years later, he returned in my life. It’s been four years since then and we couldn’t behappier

  13. I’m Aries, he’s Sag. Met him online and we began talking. We chatted back and forth online and by phone everyday for about a month, and we got along great. I really liked his wit and sense of humor, and I was hesitant to show any sort of interest towards him yet, since I didn’t know for sure if he was interested. Soon enough, he wanted to meet in person. He let me pick the place and the date. This was my very first time meeting someone from online in person, and my first date in a very long time. Needless to say, I was very nervous about this. When I first showed up, things were sort of quiet, as I’m actually pretty shy, and I guess he was too. However, as the date went on, we both loosened up and it ended up going great. Then, for at least a week after the date, he didn’t call me. I called him first, and he said he’d just been busy. I gave it some more time. He didn’t call again. I know astrologically we’re supposed to be compatible, but this was really humiliating for me. Never again

  14. sheryl ann says:

    I am an Aries woman and he is a sag man. I really don’t believe in the majority of the personality traits of either but some of them ring true. Me and my sag friend have been friends forever. This may sound a bit unorthodox but giving them there so called freedom can help the jealousy aspect of things. I am going to be real about it; I have another man friend who takes up the time my sag doesn’t. I mean hey it curbs my need for attention and stops my jealousy because my mind isn’t thinking negative thoughts about him every 30 seconds. I have learned that u can love two men and be open and truthful and above all safe with all ppl involved.

  15. This guy I met, was a Sagittarius. I have known him for about 8 months and felt this instant attraction. How can I describe it, it’s like I felt he was so genuine and a great listener. He’s so fun and popular with his friends, yet he has a sensitivity about him also. He is very confident, a leader type, but so humble enough to bring people together without taking credit. He’s so handsome, and tall and dark, and has the best morals. He lives in a fantasy world for sure, but is one of the smartest guys I have ever met. He has an amazing intuition, it’s like he knows stuff about you that you try to hide. I told him how I felt three times, the third time I demanded a response from him. He told me he has never liked a girl in his life. Very odd character at times, but in some weird way my confessions to him brought us closer together as friends. And I can’t hep but daydream that he really does care for me, but is scared of getting hurt. I don’t think he would ever admit that though.

  16. Chunky monkey says:

    I finally found my Sagittarius man, perfect! However the last couple months have been a constant blur of arguing & even fighting.. Two fire signs together = very good | very bad! I don’t know how to get past it, it’s so stupid. We’ve forgot how perfect we was before & I don’t know how to get it back, I don’t want to let him go but I don’t know how much longer I can do it all, it’s tiring!! We are both as bad as each other, probably too alike, which is where we clash but it’s constant! On a positive note he’s perfect, we get on so so well, our views on everything are the same. You can see we’re content when we’re together & things are good but one little things & it all goes pear shaped! Does anyone have any ideas on how we can break out of this mess together???

  17. I’m Aries. He’s my Sagittarius Man We looked at each other and we knew there was something there. It was like there has always been “us”. There was definitely fireworks in our relationship. We had an explosion in every aspect. When we made love, it was similar to a volcanic eruption….when we worked together, our ideas warmed up the plate, and would sometimes burn the food. Static was everywhere. When it was good, it was perfectly hot…when it was bad, it was the fires of hell. He was a wanderer…I wanted to keep him tied to my invisible leash…wasn’t I enough? He was the same way. He was always doubting me. We were both very controlling. If we had the same idea, we rocked. But if they were different, there was no room for argument. It was a one-up-manship game. Neither of us would back down. But since I was his woman…I gave in to his machismo. But it wasn’t enough. The more I gave, the more he took. I was blamed for every mistake. Until one day, I left. He didn’t fight for me. Now we both miss us.

  18. I’ve noticed that in my adventures with Sag men, I am the pawn that they chase after. I’m not sure if it’s just the thrill of the chase, but they do flock to me. I have an instant attraction to Sag men. They have this spark, this amazing personality that just allows me to let loose and be free in my own character. We have the same exact sense of humor and we find joy in the exact same things. The most current relationship with a Sag man is amazing. It’s like someone turned on a light and it won’t go off. My mind won’t escape thoughts of him. But, he is equally obsessed. I feel our attraction was instantaneous for both of us. Sagittarius men are definitely the best for Aries women. We can dominate them in bed and they take it like champs. They also equally put out some dominance. If you keep in mind you’re both freaks in bed you won’t feel jealousy or feel the need to look outside the relationship. Try threesomes. They help everyone.

  19. well, he sure is a tough one. when we first met, he was in the middle of a big group of friends and loudly telling one of his offensive stories… i thought “who the hell he thinks he is? such a bastard…” he acted over-confident, too loud and too carless. first i thought that i might go home, i won’t listen to this.. but instead i choosed to stay, so when he finished (i’m very outspoken), i told him that in my opinion he is a careless prick and a total bastard. after that he was very surprised and began to get interested in me. haha… this is how it began. now most of the times when we talk, he keeps challenging me which drives me mad, but on the other hand i don’t give up easy so i shoot his remarks right back, which gives him hell. it seems we are always fighting with words, sometimes nobody can follow us, but this is what i love, intelligent debates, with a huge amout of temper and fire.

  20. we get each other on every level.. mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually.. we compliment each others failings and givings.. it’s equal and honest.. pure. We don’t take advantage of each other’s natures.. we laugh together all the time, we both look at the same problems and bring different answers to the table..The love itself is like the oceans of the earth.. it’s life giving, nourishing, but scary as hell.. sure you have the boat to protect you but look out for rouge waves and storms on the ocean lol.. and the friendship is out of this world too… the problem? There are two of them and they are both friends.. I have to make a decision, and it has to be soon and has to be for life.. because i can’t live without either one of them from now on.. the bonds were quick and quickly becoming permanent.

  21. she is a bit youn though. she is currently 19 and her mother and family are so protective of her. im worried she might want to explore her options and leave me for good. but on the other hand i want her to go and mess around. since she is so young. she must live her life to the fulest and only know that im just her support structure for when she falls. Ive never felt like this. i feel like a child. we have a long distance relationship and i dont want to stress her. i think we have a bright future together and i honestly feel like i can marry her tomorrow but we are both young and the love is still new so stuff might go side ways. she reminds me of my mom. they were born on the same day and they possess the same traits. ive read most comments here and it has only made me realize how to understand my mother a bit better and obviously her too. i have no other reason why we should break up. ive tried cutting her loose but she refuses to let me go. ive tried that twice but she refuses

  22. cherry lips says:

    Sag lady, aries lad ..We basically complete each other. Started as classmates many years ago until it enveloped to full time best friends. Fell in love one day out of the blue, can’t explain it further than that. He happened to be sleeping on me while I browsed the internet and the moment was so perfect as I acknowledged in my mind what my heart had always known. It’s not without its up and downs but their is no one else I would share my experiences with. Good luck to all looking for a special person to call their own. When you find it, treasure it.

  23. Ok so I been with this guy on & off for 4 years. And there’s always something that makes us argue we don’t get along point blank but I’m still with him.. Cause I love him and another thing is hay I can’t trust him! He has never donde anything to make me not trust him but idk I just don’t! We argue for the dumbest thing you can think of ! I just don’t get along with Aries people !

  24. Curvy girl says:

    Just to confirm the rumor about Aries woman & Sag man. Yes, it is obviously perfect. Startled me to find out that this is the man whom I can be myself, totally myself. And “the click” it’s kind of scary to be true. And it is true, Aries & Sag always have each other in good or bad. We failed to be a lover, but we stayed as friend-not friend relation? I dunno. He’s dating my best-friend and we met sometimes, three of us. And not good, it is suck. I want to get off him, but keep bumping to each other again. UGH! Well, all I wanna tell is yes, yes, yes. He is my soul mate. I dream about him before I met him. We both have a telepathy installed on our brains, like we can hear each others mind. The problem is I don’t know where is his heart belongs to and neither with mine. So, yeah. I decided to wait for the future while now I try to keep my distance as far as I could, stayed as his friend or whatever it seems. Perhaps, a sag need a lot of experiences with women before he realized something.

  25. hi am a 52 yr old gal who had an intimate relationship with my friend aries boy. at first we were just gym buddies then after four years we became intimate.. we were playful and just loving the game of mind he thingking of jst messin with me and i thinking i am falling for this guy. Until last year Oct 2012 he said he is loving me so mucha and cares for me and that we better stop messing and playing bcoz it will destroy the relationship. At first I said i don’t buy that shit but anyways I played his game. we became more closer like seeing each other at least three times a week. he would call me almost everyday. He tells me his sex life with other women and in as much as I am jealous i kept quiet. now am helping him with his case and i am not content with just being the best of friends.. we were intimate before and so i dont find it why we cant be intimate again since we both know we have feelings for each other but not declaring it,,hard to understand but I am ready to play your game

  26. He’s Aries and I’m sag We dated online on Nov12for a month,then we started real dating for 2 month,we get departed and in April we started it online again,we met in June12 and till now May13 we have been a happy couple but now there is a time we should decide to get serious or leave each other slowly,After a year I don’t know if i can tell he loves me truly or not ,although he says so I get jealous over his open relationship with other girls and with 2 and a half year age difference(I’m younger)I feel he’s younger,8 cm height difference(I’m shorter)and his head a bit smaller than me,I’m feeling incompatible His characteristic I don’t like is being judgmental and he won’t change his mind actually in no way As a sag I can leave people physically very easy but unfortunately even after leaving him,I know he won’t be erased,but he’ll forget me ,so I’ve hesitated to leave him as I clearly see the love between us won’t happen between me or another or he with even the sweet girls around

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