Libra and Scorpio Compatibility: Sex, Love, and Friendship

Scorpio and Libra Compatibility Key Takeaways:

Libra and Scorpio can generally co-exist in a friendly manner for brief bouts of time. But in general they aren’t very compatible romantically. Scorpio wishes that Libra was more assertive and less fickle. Libra wishes Scorpio would look at things with a more objective mind. In this relationship, Scorpio is most likely the one with the most control, and in many ways the fate of the relationship lies solely on their interest level.

Compatibility: Low to Average

Read on to learn how you can make things go smoother

Are Libra and Scorpio Compatible?

These two as a couple really hit it off when they first meet. If the couple works together and compromises, they can move forward in their relationship. They must make their differences, their positives. If they don’t, it will not work out.

From the very beginning, these two are physically attracted to each other. Even though that sounds a little superficial, it gets them to notice one another.

Astrology shows that they are considered opposites of each other. In this case, their differences become pretty complementary to the relationship. These dissimilarities help each other overcome different things in their lives, as one supports the other.

Libra is one of those signs that sometimes have difficulty making decisions independently. The Scorpio, in this case, can enter their lives and help them with their decision-making. They will not only help with the decision that needs to be made but also gives them the push to do what they need to do.

Scorpios, on the other hand, are known for having conflicting emotions. Sometimes they need help dealing with the contrasting emotions and feelings that are swirling through their mind, and this partner for them is one of those signs that can help them balance their inner self.

How Are Libra and Scorpio in Love?

They both have a little bit of work to do before they can get into a deeper relationship with each other. As said previously, they do have almost opposite traits.

The Scorpion is the type of person that, when they’re in a relationship, puts everything that they can into it. They almost believe things must be all or nothing, especially in relationships.

On the other side, a Librain sometimes needs a little push to help things move into a deeper relationship. This is something that the Scorpios themselves might find will get under their skin since they want that all or nothing.

It will usually start out as friends first and then progress to lovers. The scale’s overall charm will be what brings the Scorpion closer to them. The real question comes down to who is going to make the first move into making this into an actual relationship.

This would be one of the significant setbacks they will face as a couple and one considered the ultimate test they will have to overcome. If this setback is viewed as a non-issue by both of them, or they can get past it, they have a future together.

The Scorpio is known to be quite blunt and sharp when it comes to their ways. The good thing, though, is that if these two get into a dispute with each other, the Libra themselves will be able to ease the tension between them. This will promote a more stable relationship, with more peace between them than fighting.

Overall these two can make a very good couple if they can work on their differences and make them positive. When you combine the scales’ stability and balance with the Scorpion’s strength and energy, you have a force that must be reckoned with.

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Experts Discuss This Couple:

 

Jenn: You have met your match here.  The Scorpio is just as intense as you are.  You have dual personalities, one minute happy and the next sad.  The Scorpio will have no problem relating to you which makes this a nice match.  The two of you should compliment each other very well.  There really isn’t much needed to make this one work, it just comes naturally.

Laura: Libra may find Scorpio to be a little dangerous at first, but therein lies the intrigue. Libra is normally curious, while also being attracted to the strength of character types and Scorpio has plenty of that to go around. Scorpio will be hard pressed to resist Libra’s delicate, polite, and rather innocent personality. Libra, however, also comes equipped with an inner fortitude, which the Scorpion will ultimately discover. At this turning point, Scorpio will give Libra some much earned respect. Scorpio’s intensity within this relationship keeps Libra on his toes and will continue to peak interest – providing Scorpio remembers to keep that stinger under control.

Tracy: Scorpio and Libra can be a good match if they understand each other and Libra curbs the tendency to flirt. Libra often naturally works hard for harmony and if Scorpio is the dominant partner then this could be a very compatible match.

Heidi: At first, Libra can be swept away by passionate Scorpio, but once Libra’s moody side shines through, Scorpio changes tune. Scorpio can be possessive, which at first, Libra may enjoy, or even be amused by. However, over time, the two could become disappointed with each other. If they don’t discover a common ground, Libra may look for more and more outside interests, changing Scorpio’s possessiveness into resentfulness.

Keley: This relationship can be very difficult, as these two have very different approaches to life. Scorpio may find Libra very cold and unemotional, while Libra may find Scorpio too emotional and extreme.

Marcus:  Scorpios great flair for intensity and drama can often bewilder and confuse the carefully balanced Libra. The Libra is not by any means a cool and insensitive person, it’s just that Scorps can often be intense to the point of being intimidating. Libra’s detached aloofness can sometimes infuriate the possessive Scorpion, just as a Scorpio’s moodiness and secret ways can throw a Libra off balance. These differences are not monumental and emotional ties between the two of you tend to be very strong.

David:  Although both long for romance, Scorpio desires emotional intensity (and perhaps melodrama), while Libra prefers a more serene love. The attraction will be there, but perhaps not long-term potential.

Libra Man and Scorpio Woman

These Ladies love to lead and command and Libra men love to get inspired and influenced by the dominating nature of others. Still, there may be many conflicts based on the nature of both of them. He thinks that the other partner needs his help while she is of persistent and stubborn nature and will react to any attempt to change her attitude. The Scorpio female will eventually get bored of the continuous attempts he makes to change her attitude and nature. In the meantime, he may be learning a lot from her, and the overall relationship may not be a very perfect and ideal one.

How to Keep the Fire Burning

 

Avoid being possessive.

He may be happy with the intensity of your passion, but he’s likely to feel quite unhappy with the intensity of your possessiveness. It’s easy for the two of you to talk over trust issues, though, because you’ll know where he’s at with one of your Scorpio gazes.

Use your skill of “Gentle Persuasion” on him.

You can find his changes of mood frustrating, but your skill at “gentle persuasion” has the ability to bring him back into balance. You are also one of the few signs who can shorten his decision-making process; he may be a little shocked at first by the strength of your convictions, but after you’ve seen straight through his pros and cons and come up with the right decisions a few times, some of that strength will probably rub off on him.

Help him learn to see your point of view.

Most of your disagreements will probably be based on his efforts to make you give in to his choices, or see his point of view. You won’t give in, but he will keep trying. These discussions will usually give way to his sentimental and peace-loving nature, but the idea of “losing” (his idea) will cause him to try again. This is a lesson that Libra Men need to learn, and you, as a Scorpio Woman, are willing to teach.

 

Scorpio Man and Libra Woman

Living together is valued by both Libra women and Scorpio men and this similarity can be a good foundation for their relationship. She is blessed with natural beauty that makes her attractive to her this man. A Scorpio man is also very protective of his lady and provides her with the security that she desires.  Without mutual trust, a relationship can collapse so it is necessary for the proper growth of their relationship. The conflicts can occur if she is too convincing in her attitude and the difference in their modes of expressing themselves can also create differences in them.

How to Keep the Fire Burning

Don’t mistake his silence for lack of love.

Don’t mistake his silence or lack of affectionate words for a lack of love. No matter how open he may be about other matters, he rarely has words for his feelings. Believe in him and trust that his silence can be more eloquent than the words of most people.

Consider having separate bank accounts.

Because Scorpio represents the astrological house of money for Libra, chances are very good that financial matters will be a constant source of discussion between you. If there are other compatibilities between your individual horoscopes, these discussions will be on a positive note, but, just to be safe, it’s best if you have separate accounts. You’re not likely to be happy about asking him to use shared funds, and he’s not likely to be happy to give money away without there being a good reason.

Don’t force him into your social life.

Your fondness for people and social life is likely to be a slippery slope for him, because he prefers intimate and private associations with others, and certainly with you. Don’t try to get him “into the mix” for two reasons; one is that he’ll negatively react to being pushed into something, and the other is that your logic and charms have little chance of working on him, which is likely to frustrate you.

 

Libra and Scorpio Friendship

Lots of bounce and sparkle all the way in this friendship.

For The Scales:

You take things for what they are..or for what they at least seem to be. They don’t. They’ll call you on truths and ask for reasons and in all other ways get intense. You probably won’t share a lot of similar friends…but you do have a lot to learn from one another.

For The Scorpion:

Everyone loves them. That can be the very reason you take longer to warm up to them. You might not ever feel completely at ease in their huge circle of friends but they do have that special touch that can pick you up when you’re feeling down. Give them a chance.

Scorpio & Libra Relationship

For The Scales:

Sometimes just “the way you are” triggers their jealousy buttons. You love people..period. They want to know why you are around and who you’re around. It’s definitely a partnership that requires work. You can learn to be more upfront and decisive. The Scorpion can learn to trust more.

For The Scorpion:

That natural circle of friends is one of the harder things for you to accept in a romantic relationship with Libra. Sometimes, it’s hard to trust their sincerity. Plenty of communications help.

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Libra and Scorpio In Bed

After a few months together you will be able to write a lovers guide.

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Summary

This can be a very sexy and desirable match for any on lookers. You both seem to be very much in tune with each other, both on a sexual level and a more intimate level. Sex can never be quick and over in seconds for you two that just wouldn’t be enough for either of you! You will enjoy nights alone, bringing out the candles and taking action in the bedroom nice and slowly, to savor every moment you share.

Outside of the bedroom, you can have issues with Scorpio trying to work out the changes within a Libran. Moods can swap and change so quickly, especially with items so close to the heart, like family and work.

Scorpio must take these areas slowly and be aware they may well be treading on thin ice when giving an opinion! Libra needs to watch the flirting a bit with Scorpio, as they can get very jealous, but the more time you spend out together, the more used to this behavior Scorpio will become. Can you make it work?

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