Aries and Gemini Compatibility – Fire + Air

Now these two together usually make a good love match.

Gemini is a sign of mutable air while Aries is a sign of cardinal fire.

Both signs plus their elemental signs will mix well and create a very balanced relationship.

Both enjoy experiencing new things, and enjoying new life experiences, as both are quite passionate.

Both are very active but in entirely different ways. The Aries is very active in the physical sense, where they are constantly on the go, while the Gemini is very active in the intellectual sense, in which they are always in thought. Geminis are quite clever.

When you take these two qualities and mix them together, you can create amazing possibilities to have a very good time in the relationship.

The only downside is that they sometimes start things that can’t be finished. The Gemini is sometimes easily distracted and the Aries is known to be stubborn.

The one thing that can be assured when it concerns this partnership is the fact that there will never be any boredom in their relationship. The opposite will be true.

They are both the kind of people who will not shy away from making a decision in a hurry, and will always encourage one another to take risks. This may be good and bad, as it opens them up to more life experiences, but it also may lead to a bit of trouble at the same time.

So this is a combination that can definitely work out, but it’s best to also take a closer look at the other influences that they have in their charts. They have a more successful relationship ahead of them if they have a stronger influence in either of their Earth or they’re fixed quality.

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Experts Discuss This Couple:

Melissa: You’re both balls of energy, but yours is the physical kind while Gemini is into verbal stimulation, creating an out-of-sync sexuality.

Celia: Bubbly, excitable Gemini suits your mood and won’t try to tie you down. Together you can go to the end of the rainbow.

Jenn: You two should be very happy together. You both seek variety and have a sort of restless nature. With your not being afraid to take risks approach and the Gemini always breaking the rules, you two should never be bored! The Gemini will have it’s hands full always putting you first but when the effort is made you will be only to willing to reward the Gemini. This relationship is full of wild fun and good humor which is the bond that will hold the two of you together.

Lidia: With Aries and Gemini you have instant attraction and sex appeal flowing through the two of you and this will lead to a very active sex life. The bedroom can almost become a competition ring as you both fight to be the one with the latest idea to bring into your bed, to excite situations even more! Gemini’s tend to be on the ball and always looking for amusing comments to come out with, the one always entertaining and paying attention to whoever you are with.

This can bring out the jealous side of Aries a bit too much, so make sure you keep a lid on it, to prevent unnecessary arguments. One thing a Gemini doesn’t like it to feel is controlled, so Aries have to ensure they give as much freedom as possible for this to work. This is the perfect friendship though and the two of you can be pals for life, no matter what way your relationship swings.

Laura: Aries will captivate Gemini with the swiftness that Gemini needs, in turn Gemini will intrigue Aries with not only the ability to keep up, but in adding more to boot. Aries will need not to step on Gemini toes too much, as they are more sensitive than they may appear.

Tracy: Gemini is an air sign- this aligns with Aries as air fuels fire. Astrology suggests this means Gemini can help Aries to fulfill their full potential. Many Arians will be drawn to the sociable Gemini but the Aries propensity to dominate can arouse the Gemini’s defiant nature. This couple may regularly bicker as both enjoy a good argument

Keley: This couple can be very good for each other by providing balance. Gemini will calm Aries down, and Aries will enjoy the intelligence of Gemini.

Marcus: This could be a very stimulating relationship with no restraints. Conversations and life itself won’t be boring. Both enjoy trying new things and seeking new adventures together and own their own. Aries intellect suits the Gemini’s clever mind.

David: You’re both fast-paced and quickly bored, with wide-ranging activities and interests. Aries is very physical, while Gemini lives more mentally. Nonetheless, Gemini is a very compatible sign for an Aries.

Aries Man and Gemini Woman


Aries men are always friendly and have a creative nature. An Aries man can win anything he wants in his life as well as the woman of his dreams. Aries men are honest and faithful, and are always ready to help anyone. They love to lead by birth and when they are in love with Gemini women, they always act as a mental buddy and are always ready to help her fulfill her dreams. Gemini women are a little aloof and can sometimes restrict the Aries’s man’s warm spirit, but some adjustments can help them live and stay together all their life.


Aries Man With Gemini Woman


Aries Man Gemini Woman Real Life Stories


Amber L

I am a Gemini woman and since of lately ive been meet a lot of Aries guys they are all good guys and it`s shocking to me that they all have the same loving kind and caring attribute about them i always think zodiac is crap and people choose to be who they want to be and your sign as nothing to do with it i was so wrong. I am Gemini my boyfriend is Aries and there is no better match you can take this from a girl who talk to or have been in a relationship and is associated with guys from all the zodiac signs.

Heather R

I’m Gemini married to an Aries guy. We are very good together in almost every way, we are both creative and work in the same field so it is great to be able to talk about our projects. He is very stubborn and has a lot of quirks, but this is all kind of interesting to me, like a puzzle! I never get bored with him, which is honestly the best I could hope for, because I always got bored with guys I dated before him. One big problem is, my Aries doesn’t like to talk very much! He is very expressive and has a lot of opinions when he does talk but he prefers to mull over them on his own unless he happens to be in the mood. Sometimes it drives me crazy! I found other ways of dealing with this like listening to podcasts (basically radio shows where bunch of people talk talk talk) haha. Also, my advice to Gemini’s is to set clear rules together (usually set by Aries but you can negotiate) and try to follow them as much as possible. It is the only way you can stay on an Aries’ good side!


I’m a Aries girl and he’s a Gemini and I’m so in love with him. I think the most important and best way to have a stronger relationship is to not chase a Gemini but have the Gemini chase you. When me and my boyfriend met he said that he loved me first sight but I just felt like being friends first not quite knowing what that connection was in the beginning and I was scared to fall in love. It took me about 3 weeks to finally let go and fall in love and now we’ve been dating for 4 months and our love grows stronger everyday. I think for a relationship to work with a Gemini have them chase you and depends on they’re personality, habits etc it seems like the stars fell inline for us and i can say so far that I can see myself with him for the rest of my life good heart funny sweet and great sex.

 Gemini Man and Aries Woman


Gemini man has a calm and nonchalant nature and he always tries to avoid anything which can put his freedom on the stake. With an Aries woman, he lives a happy life full of love. Aries woman supports her Gemini man by all means and loves to do so. Her witty mind is admired and loved by the Gemini man. During physical contact, Aries woman is more demanding and Gemini man is not compatible with her in this sense as both have different views regarding love making. Any conflict that arises in the relationship is due to the possessive nature of Aries woman and carefree nature of Gemini man. 


Aries Woman with Gemini Man

Gemini Man Aries Woman Real Life Stories


Angela J

It has been four years and I am still not the woman I used to be. Geminis are wonderful friends, but don’t fall in love with these people. I wasn’t crazy before I met him. Now, I look back and see the head games, the double life, the other women, and the benevolence (Today I love you, tomorrow, I dont know, I could meet a really cool chick and then what do I do?). Ladies, it takes years to figure out what happened, and the more you love him, the longer it takes to recover. Do yourselves a favor and pay attention to those red flags. They are there for a reason.

Sharon R

I’m an Aries f, he’s a Gemini m. Met when we were 12 and fell for each other instantly. We were off and on for 4 years until I left him for someone else. We reconnected at age 20 and dated for almost 2 years until he left me because I wanted him to commit and scared him off. 2 more years of separation went by and he recently came to me at our age of 24 and told me I’m the one for him. Of course we fell in love all over again. There really is something magnetic about our connection, I’ve never felt this way with anyone else I’ve dated so far. He says that he now has matured and does want to get married and have kids with me so we’ll see.


I am a Gemini man and in love with an Aries woman, its been over 8 years and the love keeps growing and growing each day, i mean yeah the arguments aside but those arguments fade in less than a minute, to keep an Aries and Gemini relation stable the Gemini has to be really submissive and should allow the Aries to lead, something that is hard for Gemini to see but be warned if you keep telling Aries to lead and make decisions that would make Aries feel uncomfortable and force them to think that you are dependent and can’t make decisions. As long as you allow them to lead and submit and then take charge whenever they feel down then you are set forever, and never argue about the space that Aries needs. I have read that Gemini’s are flirts and are not loyal and honestly i am proud to say ALL GEMINI’s are loving and they love till the end. If you had a bad experience with a Gemini then i feel sorry but it means that the relation didn’t go well for you. Still in love with Aries 🙂

Aries and Gemini Friendship

You will share many intimate thoughts and secrets about those around you.

On a friendship level both of them have a lot of chemistry and can understand each other on a level that most others can’t. They both like to joke around and have a great time, and the Gemini who is an extrovert and quite funny can attract the Aries quite easily as a friend.  They both can mesh well together and make amazing friends.

the Friendship compatibility between these two is very high

Gemini and Aries Relationship

As lovers:

You will be able to communicate and excite each other easily.

Long-term relationship:

A very good chance of success.

Short-term relationship:

An instant bond will form that will be very special and intimate.

Read More about how the signs are in dating

Dating An Aries | Dating a Gemini

Aries and Gemini Sex

Hot, Hot, Hot.

The Gemini will bring out the best in the Aries to have fun in the bedroom together. These two will really let loose in the bedroom and explore new sexual pleasures that one of them may not even have thought of.  These two will never get bored as they both have great imaginations.

The sexual compatibility between these two is very high


aries and gemini sexually compatible

Read More about how the signs are when it comes to sex

Aries in Bed | Gemini in Bed

Aries Compatibility with Gemini Overall Score:

overall score 75%

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Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez currently has 10+ years of experience helping people navigate life with the use of astrology. When not working on the website she is busy writing her first book on love and astrology.
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  1. my aries tries to be controlling, but is also a beer drinker which makes it worse. When he is like that I get pissed and become more dominant (macho as he says) and then he says sorry and everything is okay again for awhile.

    1. I am a gemini and my “someone” is an aries. I must agree, that we really attract each other. Our relationship is exactly how it was described in one of the articles about love match for aries-gemini. My “someone” really wants to dominate me all the time and I myself always find humor it it=)

  2. Aries Subdued says:

    My dear significant other is a Gemini and an artist in every way. She is creative, unexpected, flexible, bright, passionate, and deeply caring. And, she puts up with me, so add tolerant and long-suffering to the list… Our relationship is a joy, filled with laughter and mutual understanding. We have some difficult situations to face at present, and it is the laughter that allows us to soar above the clouds. I simply can’t imagine life without her…

  3. During my relation with an aries ive been angry and dead jealous the whole time.. Yet whenever ignored he comes back trying his best to win me, i guess aries r very attractive to us geminis we can have conversations that are interesting for both cuz we both love to compete n challenge but to me i cant see my self in a serious relationship with an aries..

  4. AlphaAries says:

    I’m the Aries and I have always been in love with a certain Gemini. I’m not sure if its because they show such a lack of interest in me or not, but I want that one thing that I can’t get. We never run out of things to talk about. Everything needs to be discussed or debated about. I love it and it keeps me hooked, since I have never been able to do that with anyone else. I want to tell my Gemini everything. There are fights, but once we make up, it’s stronger than ever. Gemini can be too much of a trickster sometimes and knows exactly what to say to undo me. Depending of the circumstance that undoing can be amazing or heart shattering. He really brings out my fiery emotions and makes me want to better myself. I could see forever with him, but I don’t think he could see that with me since he gets bored easily.

  5. BestAngelFace says:

    I adore and Love my Gemini man. For a year he has kept me at bay & not made me his # One Love Partner. We are intensly connected & talk twice per day “BABY, SweetHeart” while he works out-of-town He refuses to “let-Go” of a prior relationship. I gave him the ultimatum last Saturday – wrong thing to do with a Gemini.. an ultimatum, But Gave ultimatum that I MUST be his number 1, or nothing at all. He at this point, will not return any of my calls – and I blocked him from my phone. If in future his heart overcomes his stubborn nature, he knows where I live. I actually have a hope that he will return to me in the future. I would Marry him and take good care of him for the rest of my life. Our year together? He has been verbally abusive and jokes cruelly. I also think he is Bi, and in the closet. I would have agreed to Poly – but only if I were treated fairly and with LOVE and in the open with the other (male) partner. So Sad. Intense attraction, My Heart Must Heal

  6. Still In Love says:

    I am an Aries woman and I had a Gemini male best friend. He always kept me laughing and he was extremely sweet. At first he had a kind of wall built up. My fiery nature and easy smile are what attracted him, I think. We also ‘got’ each other on an intellectual level. At the end of that year, my parents divorced and he helped me through that. Then, I was forced to change school districts. I was falling more and more every day. Now, I realize what could’ve been.

  7. My Aries is a perfect match for me in almost every way. We set the bedroom on fire. We have been together 3 years and have 2 daughters and it just keeps getting better!!!!!!

  8. I’m the Aries f, and he’s Gemini. 4 years ago, I developed a huge crush on him. I loved everything about him. I got closer to him as a friend, and eventually one of my friends told him that I liked him. We stayed friends. Some days he treated me like we were buddies, and others he gave me the cold shoulder for no reason at all. He would pretend like I didn’t even exist, and he’d flirt with other girls right in front of me, knowing how much it would hurt. I mean, just being downright cruel for no reason. I never clung to him or overdid things, I just tried to be there as a friend, and when he treated me this way it really killed me. He moved across the country, and I had a hard time getting over him. 2 years later, when he moved back, it was like he’d never left. This time, I think he showed slight interest, but then out of nowhere he was gone again. It’s been 2 years since, and deep down I’m still intensely attracted to him. I don’t think I could ever be with him. It would kill me.

  9. GeminiToHisAries says:

    I am a gemini woman, Ive been with my Aries for 3 years. We have fun sometimes, but mostly we sit in the house for weeks at a time. He is very boring to me has no real hobbies, interests, and friends of his own. It annoys me because he wants to spend all of his time with me. He has no sense of boundaries. He will share any and everything on his mind, whether appropriate or not. He is also not very financially respondsible so lets just say i pay majority of the bills. I often just want to end the relationship, but he is very sensitive, and after i mention it, he trys very hard to convince me to change my mind. This man needs too much attention. More than i am willing to give. Im ready to have a life again.

  10. Combustible says:

    Short-lived – I’m an Aries and I have more fun with Gemini individuals than I do other signs for some reason. It is a little difficult to dominate them, but when you do, the relationship becomes a little dull. There are no longer two (or three lol) heads with fun ideas, but one head determining everything. I usually get bored and leave these individuals, but I find it amusing when they try to dominate me after the relationship is over as an attempt (in my opinion) to show you they are worth respecting. Even if I can’t dominate some of these individuals, I still have fun with them for a short amount of time, and then we just part. I don’t get emtionally involved with Gemini, but I do remember a fun fling.

  11. juliogoaway says:

    Im an aries woman he’s the gemini. Im always in a relationship when he expresses his passion for me. We’ve been in positions to be in a relationship before. But he never wants me when im single. I’ve known this man 13 years. Hes oh soooo bad for me but the connection we have is just incomparable. We are mentally and physically bonded. This man frustrates the hell out of me! I just wonder if he will ever go away or if it will ultimately be me who cuts the ties that bind us

  12. I’m gemini girl, and have been with my aries man for 2 years more. He is younger 2 years than me. We know each other by online site. It’s little bit embarrassing since my friends complain about us. But I’m always on my way going with my Aries man. We both have fun all time. He is like to tease me with some funny joke when some people will think it’s real cruel joke. But we make fun. We make fun of everything. My aries is little bit naughty, he flirts some girls but it’s all I know and he stop everytime I told him to stop. Well, we are bestfriend at all. I’m so in love with my arian. He is lovely and dynamic, sometimes childish and cry like baby. But he give all of him total for me 🙂

  13. I’ve been 2 years 2 months with an aries guy. We are in LDR and never met yet. Planning to meet her this june but I think the plan is cancelled. I’m so in love with him. We find all time is not boring and always happy and fun. He loves teasing me with his rudeness stubborn and he is also honest to me since I don’t give limitation too much to him. As a gem, I’m a talker.. Always talk and talk. sometimes it will annoy my aries. My aries just tell me to stop blabbering, but the way he talks always like it’s just easy funny thing, not a serious. My aries is real possessive. He got jealous even if i’m going with my friends. He said he is going to jail me in home when we marry, i know it’s just a joke. Well, I do love him with unlimited love. I love teasing my aries guy. as a free spirited gem, i think i’m ready to settle down with this aries guy.

  14. shallow? No, you're wrong! says:

    Relationship between gemini and aries maybe looks shallow because we are a living moment couple and a thinker, not a feeler. So we both naturally avoid such heart deep feeling, but we both enjoy our company together as partner.

  15. Heartlocked says:

    everything about my aries guy is so perfect. Even it’s been years we have spent together, but everyday it’s always a new experience. My aries just asked me wondering yesterday, ‘are we really 2 years?’ he thought it’s less than 1 year and everything is always new and interesting. I love my aries. Sometimes my gemini bad side comes out when i have problem. I will just call him then crying without telling all of my problem. He understand me and treat me gently. He knows everytime I need him even he doesn’t know what was happened. I just want to marry him, even it will take 10 years more for a marriage since we plan to finish our education until we are stabile in finance and mature enough for experiencing new world of family. But still, my heart is attached to him 🙂

  16. im gemini and he is aries. we have long distance chat relationship. we chat and talk abt many stuff and it’s going so well & intense. after one month i know him , he came to my city and we almost had sex. at the day before he left,i ask him to be my bf. but he said ” i don’t want relationship at this moment and i don’t knw when i want to be in relationship”. he had bad relationship abt 2 months b4 he knew me (last relationship is long distance also and not last long). after he left we still chat like we used to be. we always passionate. and then i came to his town & ask him again to be my bf, but he still has the same answer. & now i move and live in his town, i think makes me closer to him and i still chase him now. do u think its good idea or not ? i don’t know what he wants? all aries please tell me what to do . by the way im a guy too . we are in kind of gay relationship im gemini guy who’s more on top (M) and he is aries guy who’s more bottom ( F)

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