Gemini In Relationships
Gemini’s are very restless individuals with many sides to their personality that it can be hard to find just one person that is compatible with them all. They also love to flirt. So their favorite part of romance is the courtship aspect, the flirty games, sidelong glances, and the general mystery of the whole thing. For a Gemini, a good soul mate also needs to be a good playmate in order for a relationship to work. The duality of Gemini’s nature means part of them wants that “eternal love” aspect of a relationship, and the other part equally wants freedom
What You Will Learn:
- 1 Gemini In Relationships
- 2 What a Gemini likes In a relationship
- 3 What a Gemini Dislikes In a relationship
- 4 How To Attract A Gemini
- 5 Dating a Gemini
- 6 What It’s Like To Date A Gemini Man
- 7 What it’s Like To Date A Gemini Woman
- 8 Gemini in Love
- 9 Best and Worst Qualities
- 10 Love traits
- 11 Gemini Cheater Or Faithful?
- 12 Quiz: Gemini lover – What kind of Lover are you? or is your partner?
What a Gemini likes In a relationship
Socializing and Friendship.
To learn as life goes on.
To share their ideals.
Cheerful and encouraging partners.
Intellectually stimulating people.
Conversation’s that captivate.
Thoughts and concepts.
New trends to explore.
What a Gemini Dislikes In a relationship
Despair in a going nowhere coupling.
To be confined and held back.
Procrastination from their partner.
Patterns and routines in relationships.
To be told what to do.
Being the decision maker.
How To Attract A Gemini
Gemini folks love talking so if you want to really impress them, keep that rule in mind. Be sure you know what you’re talking about, as Gemini are often intelligent and know a lot about a lot of things. If you know what you’re talking about on a particular topic and they don’t, teach them. This impresses them because they may think they know it all but learn they may not know it all. Sometimes, it’s just the sheer fact they’re too busy to learn about these things.
Gemini men and women love it when people speak their mind. Get them involved in a friendly debate but nothing too conservative. They find conservative topics boring. Loyalty is a must with the Gemini. Break their trust and you may never get it again. Gemini is rather easy to date – any activity at any time is fine for them. Just remember that a Gemini is fun to be with… like a friend.
Dating a Gemini
The true Gemini loves the new and different and constantly changing both in their life and in their chosen partner. Gemini also prefers a partner who is independent and free-spirited. Because of their constant need for variety, Gemini has been known to be devoted to more than one person at a time. In addition Gemini always need something going on around them at all times. When at the Gemini home, the television is always on or the radio is always blaring. Peace and quiet are not in the Gemini s vocabulary. To keep a Gemini interested in you try to adapt to the constant change in the Gemini s life. Gemini love begins with the mind. On a first date take the Gemini somewhere stimulating such as a lecture, sporting event or play. Then head out to a busy restaurant to talk about the event and people watch, (another favorite past time of Gemini).
What It’s Like To Date A Gemini Man
The Gemini man is all of the following things:
The thing to remember is you must keep up if you’re going to stick around with him. The ladies are often drawn to the men of this sign due to their enthusiasm, vitality and appetite for life. If you want to win him over, you may have to compete with a few others. Be mindful that keeping him all to yourself will be hard to do, as he is the type to be capricious. He’s not the kind of person that allows a woman power over him.
Rather, he sees women as a sidekick, not a passionate lover. He adores women and can cleverly manipulate them into his bed. He’ll say whatever he has to do attain what it is he wants. He is the seduction master. If you’re just looking for a fling, the men of this sign is what you’re looking for.
What it’s Like To Date A Gemini Woman
Gemini women are very enchanting; however, a date with her feels more like you’re out with a friend than an actual relationship. And, the reason is her spontaneous nature. This isn’t a full disadvantage especially to men who also have a spontaneous nature and don’t like overly romantic emotions. Gemini women have the duality sign, which means she is a real challenge. In one way, she must be loved and nurtured. And, in the other way, she must have stimulation.
A Gemini woman can be extremely demanding, and if she’s not given what she wants, she’s moving on to another adventure. It’s a real challenge to keep the Gemini woman interested but that’s not impossible to do. Thus, she is the ideal woman for a man who loves challenge and stimulation.
The Gemini lady must have a partner who is quick thinking and who doesn’t mind some emotional poking and prodding. She’s also quick witted so be sure you can keep up with her. If not, you may find yourself alone. The ladies of this sign are known for their keeping men at a distance until she completely looks him over and determines that he’s worth her time and attention.
After he’s gotten her approval, jealousy can rear its ugly head. It occurs because she doesn’t want to feel like she’s going to get hurt or betrayed when she finally opens up. If you’re dating a Gemini woman and you notice she’s jealous, you know she’s falling in love with you. Since they are so exciting to be with, they are worth your every effort; a person they are likely to remember.
Gemini in Love
Gemini, more than any other sign (barring Sagittarius), draws less of a line between sex and the other parts of their lives. These people love to sleep with their friends – partially because they associate a good conversation with romance, partially because it keeps things interesting, but mostly because their friendly feelings and their romantic feelings are so often inseparably intertwined.
Once in love, they bring a passion and an enthusiasm to the relationship that’s unmatched (again, except possibly by Sagittarius). Much like anything that Gemini has enthusiasm for, this will be expressed verbally – aren’t we great together? Isn’t this so much fun? And you know what? It will be.
What to look for in a partner: well, if it’s not clear from the above description, I just don’t know. A Sagittarius. A friend. Somebody who loves to talk every bit as much as you do. Somebody you can stand to listen to for more than thirty seconds at a time.
Best and Worst Qualities
Geminis love change and always like to be the first to know “what’s happening” around them on all levels. Love lots of information about everything.
Best qualities: Good company, like to communicate and always be connected and relating to their partners. Like to shake things up and keep their relationships, on all levels, exciting, “fresh” and young.
Challenges: Can be superficial in talk and actions (and can also come to “flirt” too much with the opposite sex). Tendency to not take life or relationships seriously in a practical manner.
One of the main Gemini love traits is to be a ‘love butterfly’ – moving to whatever (or whoever) catches their eye next. That said, Geminis are thoughtful, generous & charismatic. They love to help others and thrive on change. Geminis tend not to seek out the limelight but it sometimes finds them. Geminis are sociable people and, so, are easy to get along with. In fact, their personalities are infectious, making them a real pleasure to be with – most of the time. Geminis truly are chameleons who have it in themselves to mix easily with any company. Could be hard to tie down to a long-term relationship unless you really know how.
Gemini Male Love Traits:
A sophisticated charmer who is almost always fun to be around. A true individual who has the potential to give conflicting signals during your conversations. Likely to have mood swings, which will make you wonder if he actually likes you or not. Worse still, he can quite easily upset or offend people without realizing he’s doing it. Gemini man is guaranteed to be a constant source of surprises.
Gemini Female Love Traits:
The Gemini woman is renowned for have a dual personality but that makes for an interesting relationship. Great at forming relationships and, like Gemini man, a real charmer. Not the most practical person, though, and doesn’t really have a great head for managing finances – that’s what a partner’s for, silly!
Gemini Cheater Or Faithful?
With some signs of the zodiac it is difficult to predict whether or not they’re going to be unfaithful or not. Even though the Gemini are considered noble people, they are not immune to the idea of being unfaithful.
When things aren’t going too well with their partner, sometimes they can stray. Something that they really need is to have a lot of love, affection and support from their partner. If they feel like they’re not getting this and somebody else comes into their life who provides that it does open up the possibility of them straying. They truly need a partner that’s going to be able to give all those things to them all the time.
Another thing that can lead to them being unfaithful or being a cheater, is having a relationship where there’s a lot of arguments and differences between them and their partner.
That’s not to say that all Gemini’s go out and cheat on their partners. That would simply be an untrue statement. When they have a lot of love in their heart for their partner, infidelity is the last thing that’s on their mind. The key to their happiness goes back to the love and affection that they need from their significant other.
These are people that really take the time to meditate and think on decisions that will affect their relationships.
That is different with Gemini if they’ve been cheated on. They won’t take the time to think about the decision on whether or not that they need to move on. As soon as their partner lets them know that they’ve been unfaithful, they are gone. If they haven’t made it known at that point, it’s safe to say that they have moved on mentally anyways.
So when it comes to the idea of cheating on their partner they have patience when it comes to the relationship . But if their partner cheats on them, their reaction is the exact opposite.
Quiz: Gemini lover – What kind of Lover are you? or is your partner?
To answer each question, meditate or think about each one to get an answer of either Yes, No, or Sometimes, which ever applies best to you in regards to the question.
Yes=3 Sometimes=2 No=1
Do you find yourself attracted to married or engaged women?
Do you believe that your charm and sex appeal are irresistible to all women?
Are you looking to marry a woman who is smart?
Do you like to talk a lot?
Does possessiveness annoy you?
Could you be loyal to only one woman in your lifetime?
Do you like animal sex?
Do you like traditions?
Do you consider yourself multi-talented?
Are you moody?
Do you look at yourself honestly?
Do you like travelling?
Are you curious like a mouse?
Do you get aroused first by your brain, and secondly by the body?
Do you like to share your love conquests with friends?
Are you completely free and uninhibited?
Do you enjoy taking the lead in romantic situations?
Do seductive games, including flirting, really turn you on?
Is a good conversation more fun than plain casual sex?
Do you like controlling your mate?
Can sex be good without a good conversation prior?
Do you have the gift to speak and write?
Do you tend to have changing moods?
Do you love to talk?
Do you adore speaking with your hands?
Does sex start with a fantasy for you?
Do you often use the words “I Love You!” but not without deep meaning?
Does making love in silence turn you off?
In love do you prefer to conquer more than the actual act itself?
Do you hate routine?
Would you like to be more maternal?
Do you believe that true love starts with the head first and the heart second?
Do you have the tendency of attracting incompatible mates?
Does possessiveness turn you off?
Do romantic words sexually turn you on?
Do you love to make an impression?
Do you spend a lot of time analyzing yourself?
Do you have problems sleeping because you think too much?
Does lovemaking in vulgar pornography turn you on?
Is making love for you an expression of your creativity?
SCORES FOR GEMINI
1 – 35 POINTS
You are a very mellow kind of Gemini. You are tempered by the Earth element, which makes you more loyal and less of a social butterfly because the home is more important to you.
35 – 45 POINTS
You are a positive and more likeable Gemini. You possess more of the positive traits of Gemini.
45 – 60 POINTS
You are a true Gemini. You have all of the intelligence and all of the qualities of a Gemini.