Aries and Taurus Compatibility – Fire + Earth
- We have a feisty relationship, due to that we have great communication, call it arguing if you want, its more like rough verbal play. He has taught me to have thicker skin. I have helped him be more considerate. We deeply love each other though. Best financial match ever. Passion in bed even after many years.
Taurus and Aries are initially attracted to each other when they meet for the first time. While the ram is fun-loving and looking for a good time, the bull is just as fun-loving. They do so in a very relaxed and different manner. But the question remains: Do they have what it takes to make a lasting relationship?
Let’s look at what the two have going for them and against them. You can also read what our experts have to say about this couple!
Are Aries and Taurus Compatible?
It is well documented that these two have good compatibility when it comes to love ( when work is done to make it so!). There are many ways these two gel together, but it’s the financial decisions in life where they find a lot of common ground. At the same time, they are very successful in those monetary decisions.
They do have some characteristics that are opposite of each other, but as they say, opposites do attract. Taureans are considered more calm and more collective, living a lifestyle that’s more on the edge of monotonous or routine. The Ram likes to fly by the seat of their pants, often living life in the fast lane. That is quite a combination when one is very impulsive and the other is more interested in living a quieter lifestyle.
Suppose the Taurus can learn to become much more active than they usually are in a relationship, and the Aries can learn how to control their impulses and slow down a little bit. In that case, this couple does have the ability to have an excellent relationship together.
How Are Taurus and Aries in Love?
They will first be attracted by a mutual passion for something they share in life, sending them on an adventure towards a beautiful relationship.
In this combination, Taurus will be totally attracted to the happiness, energy, and leadership that the Aries will provide. On the other hand, Aries will appreciate the security and determination that Taurus brings to their lives.
Problems can arise in the relationship regarding the powerful personality that the Arian possesses, as they can be flighty at times and flirty with the opposite sex. Which can bring out Taurean’s possessive and jealous side. As things progress between the two, this will continue to increase. The more into the relationship they get, the more they need that security blanket.
Aries truly likes to live life freely and flirtatiously. In contrast, the Taurus can be very dependent on them and possessive when it comes to other people going after their partner. When Aries acts this way ( in their nature), it can destabilize the relationship and cause the Taurus to doubt what the future holds for the two of them.
For this relationship to work out, The Taurus needs to be in a place where they feel very safe and secure in the relationship. For this to happen, Aries must let down their guard and let them know how they truly feel. At the same time, the Taurus partner needs to understand that when the Aries tell them how they “feel” they mean it and not to keep bringing it up.
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What You Will Learn:
Taurus Man and Aries Woman
A Taurus man possesses a straightforward and practical approach. He looks for solid reasons rather than getting caught up in sentimental and emotional matters. Intelligent and wise, he is appealing due to his wit and wisdom.
Determination and strength of will are his hallmarks. When he is with this woman, he can feel protected and loved. Whenever he has a problem, she is there to help him. The Aries woman is cherished by him, bringing peace to her heart. For the couple to feel valued, they must show each other love.
How to be successful in this relationship
Let him handle the business!
Remember that he strives to provide a highly stable and secure relationship. The bond between you both must be very strong for him to be happy. So all you need to do is provide the drive, the motivation, and wealth of ideas.
You have to let him move at his own speed since to convince him otherwise is pretty pointless. He will only proceed in a relationship if he feels confident that he can handle it all. He likes to play it safe!
Don’t make him jealous!
He’s not really regarded as a jealous individual. He’d find such behavior offensive or unpleasant. He could be the very emotional type, capable of expressing his feelings easily (including being jealous). Or he might be the type to hold his feelings close to his vest.
So don’t think for a minute that he doesn’t care, or that you mean very little to him. In fact, the opposite is true. The last thing you want is for this man to be angry at you, even if it takes a lot to enrage him. So don’t do anything to awaken the jealousy that could be hiding from within.
Love’s stability and security
He’s definitely worth everything you put into him and the relationship. There won’t be a moment that you will regret solidifying things with him. The best part about it is you win by being in a relationship with a man that is there to give you peace of mind and stability. You will always know that he has your back at all times.
He indeed has moments where he can be very possessive and sometimes overbearing. However, this guy isn’t dishonest or unfaithful. He won’t leave your side when he’s truly in love with you. When he puts his heart into something, he’s all in!
Aries Man Taurus Woman
The Taurus women have a good sense of judgment and will generally think things through before acting. On the other hand, most of these men make hasty decisions and do not plan in advance. He will respond without thinking about it. Due to this, there needs to be a lot of communication and understanding between them.
Her nature is characterized by generosity, in contrast to those Aries men with stingy tendencies. The women look forward to doing everything they can to keep their partners from making snap and irresponsible decisions. She will address romance and security at the same time.
How to be successful in this relationship
let him help with the finances
Make sure to let him into your life as much as you can. This might include letting him help you with your accounting or finances. Because of your due diligence, verify that this guy is doing what he is supposed to. Just don’t tell him that you are overseeing his work. By doing that he will feel more grounded in the relationship and have the security necessary to feel comfortable. It will also help him to stabilize his thoughts and energy ( that Aries fire). In terms of you though, you mustn’t give up your instinct to think about the future with your security in mind. The most important thing to ensure is that you’re both on the same page to avoid ruining his positive outlook and enthusiasm.
Don’t look at his attitude as being a lack of loyalty!
It might typically take a great deal in life to cause you a lot of anger and upset. But when it comes to dealing with him, you will have to keep your cool and deal with his behavior accordingly. That doesn’t mean that you have to let him walk all over you, not at all!
He is a very outgoing and social type of guy. There might be moments when you feel as though he just doesn’t seem interested in you at times or that he’s not listening to you. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you, so don’t take it personally. That’s just him being him. He will care, and he will care a lot!
What you need to know about his love
You will notice that he will continuously try to please you and put a lot of effort into the relationship that you share with each other. As soon as you see a man of this sign continually working towards something, you know he’s committed. He finds the effort he puts in very worthwhile thanks to the safety and stability that you provide to his life. He’s the type of guy that if he understands that the relationship and bond that you both share is very solid and secure, you’ll never have to worry about him.
Aries & Taurus Friendship
The Aries can be aggressive and overactive regarding friendship, whereas the Taurus can be quite tranquil and accommodating. That over-activity brought on by the Aries can cause the Taurus to be overwhelmed. This would be since the Taurus is quite conservative.
For The Ram:
They are the Earth sign to your fire sign. They can sometimes limit your passion and enthusiasm. Sometimes, they might dampen some of your wildest ideas or dreams. Nonetheless, they can be very supportive. Always encouraging you along the way.
Taurus is kind and compassionate, and they have a great shoulder to cry on. Those are the people you can truly rely on in times of need.
For The Bull:
Your Aries friend may bring the encouragement and motivation you need to achieve your goals. Things you might not have done otherwise. It’s almost like they take the job seriously by motivating and pushing you to your limits. In reality, sometimes that can drive you absolutely nuts.
Although they may sometimes drive you crazy, you cannot help but appreciate their friendship. Their friendship enriches your life in so many ways. When you are not fighting or arguing with each other, of course.
Taurus & Aries Relationship
For the Ram:
Even a warrior needs a loyal partner that will always stand by their side. Taurus is such a trustworthy and caring partner. Sometimes in life, they can come across as a bit too possessive. They like to be in control of their own surroundings.
Keeping them involved in your plans and making sure they feel part of your life is a way to overcome this problem. Sincere gestures and gifts are always appreciated when it comes to them.
For the Bull:
It is sometimes difficult to read an Aries in a relationship. Aries partners require patience. Give them space to do what they need to do. You need to give them some space, but do not take it personally. It is not a sign of disinterest on their part.
They know what awaits them at home. They know they will find a welcoming and loving environment thanks to you when they return. If things go wrong in their lives, they know it is a caring and safe environment where they can hide.
As Lovers:
You will have to work at thinking of what the other wants in order for this to be it’s best.
long term relationship:
Provided you know each other’s boundaries, your long-term future looks good.
Short-term relationship:
If you both like going to the same events or watching the same type of film, you will get off to a great start.
Read More about how the signs are in dating
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Aries and Taurus Sex
When it comes to sexuality, they complement each other quite well and appreciate each other’s differences. The Taurus brings calmness to the bedroom and focuses on the pleasure of their partner. However, Aries brings a lot of physical energy and intensity to turn everything up to 11.
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Are they soulmates?
Taurus always wants to take possession; that’s what they desire. In contrast, Aries strives for dominance or the desire to be first. The relationship could be more successful if both partners have planets like Mars (passion) and Venus (love) under complementary or harmonious signs. Even if things seem challenging.
If it doesn’t work out
It could be because Taurus needs a life that is steady and stable. The fact that they require material comforts and a comfortable lifestyle. Aries could also be unwilling to take it easy, as they don’t know how to live a slow-paced life.
What they can do to fix it
Relationships can be challenging, but sometimes all it takes is hard work and effort. For things to change, the Taurus needs to become more adventurous. They must feel freer to explore the world around them. As for Aries, they need to learn to calm their lifestyle down. So that they can mesh with their partner. They also need to learn how to appreciate the finer things in life.
What Our Experts Have to say:
Celia: You like excitement. The Bull’s placid nature will have you tearing your hair out sometimes, but it’s wonderfully reassuring and safe.
Jenn: The two of you complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses nicely. Your optimism and confidence should help the Taurus see things in a brand new light while the steadiness and determination of the Taurus may just make you want to settle down a little more. When these two optimists meet, the right attitude about the relationship will keep them together.
Lidia: This can be an incredibly close bond, as Taurus men love to spoil and show off to their women, so you should be in for a loving and romantic time! Taurus and Aries are very compatible when it comes to sex and the two of you will have many wild times if you keep telling each other how much in love you are. Taurus has a few insecurities in love and this requires a lot of reassurance.
Jealousness and possessiveness will cause issues in your relationship, but you can rise above them by bringing more variety and excitement into your bed. The most difficult obstacle has to be the stubbornness you both suffer from. Aries need to learn not to be so independent and Taurus must wake up and see how smothering their need for security can be. If you try to have frequent discussions about these types of problems, you will be able to get to the bottom of them before they fire up too much.
Laura: The Ram will want to be the boss in this relationship and in most cases, Taurus will not mind. The bull is usually easygoing and more concerned with personal pleasures or acquiring wealth, rather than leading the way. Arians are more than willing to help Taurians spend that hard-earned cash. In exchange for sharing the wealth, they will make sure that Taurus the bull is never bored.
Tracy: A laid-back and logical Taurus partner may irritate the fun-loving Aries who can feel stifled if not kept busy. This relationship may work if Taurus can calm Aries though it is probable the clash of personalities will lead to fiery arguments.
Keley: This duo can work, provided that Taurus tries to make things interesting for Aries. Taurus will definitely appreciate the success and security that Aries can provide.
Marcus: Taurus tends to be a bit possessive and this may not sit well with the free-hearted Aries. Aries like to get involved in many things while, on the most part, Taurus is happy staying at home. Taurus is a saver and Aries is a spender. If both can reach a happy medium, this could be a strong dependable relationship, but it will take work.
David: The feisty Ram is motivated and quick to action; the stubborn Bull won’t be moved before the time is right. The differences in style and tempo can drive both partners up a wall.
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im an aries and im with a taurus and it a bad combination but i been with him and have 2 kids and it can work but we both put each other through hell
I just separated from my Taurus man we never argued we were the exact opposites of each other he was introverted looked grumpy moved slowly, I was happy bubbley extraverted did everything fast. They are not very good at showing emotions, they show love in other ways by making you something, we are cuddley people who love to touch to kiss, they are space people, only times their emotions come into play is when their cranky even if not cranky with you, you will think they are we will remain good friends cause that’s what we were like good friends
am dating a Taurus man and yes we r compatible. he is an earth sign and hence a solid. it’s hard for them to easily adapt as compared to us. we fire signs are always in a hurry to I don’t know where.. we r leaders they follow. be patient and try to understand him. but also don’t allow him to be too slow Coz u may end up bored. communicate without making him bad or left out or simply not good enough.
First off, I think a relationship depends on the people in them. With that being said, the Taurus that I dated was amazingly mind blowing relationship. We did knock horns a few times but we knew each other astonishing well enough to know how far we could push each other with our tempers. We had a lot in common so that helped and we was like yang and ying…our relationship was very balanced.
I’ve been married to a Taurus for 22 yrs. He is a great provider, hardworking, caring, compassionate, selfless and affectionate at times. He’s never cheated. He’s very much into family. The only thing I don’t like is their inconsistency in general. He is my calm tho. Ohhh the sex is amazing.
Taurus man are romantic! They will open up with you! Can be a liar at times so yo can believe them .having a relationship with them is good! Depending on the man. They will spoil you. So they can get to you. …can be a cheater.you cant trust them.
I dated a Taurus for four years. They’re somewhat romantic, workaholics, freaks and stubborn ass fuck… most importantly, they’ll never forget you!!
I’m and Aries and my kids father is a Taurus we’ve been together going on 4 years when its good its good but when its bad its bad if that makes sense
I have known one Taurus. He was a good friend a good person to have a relationship. But his mind got mess up with other things in life. I cant keep getting hurt going back to him..
Me and my Taurus are great, we are married. They are the most patient sign with us, in my opinion.. The battle comes when both egos are out.. You and your partner have to know when to hold them and when to fold them.. Other then that Taurus’s are amazing. They can teach you to not be so impulsive and you can teach them to be more aggressive in nature. It’s an exchange in powers.. You both just have to learn when to let one another win.. It honestly just depends on how understanding you are with one another, and how truthful you can be with one another without the worry of hurting someones feelings.
No no no lol but seriously i mapped the taurus i knew my whole life thought it was love! Nope was trickery very manipulative lazy didn’t help me do anything around the house or with our children! Smart asses like us, stubborn, did nothing but fight if he weren’t sleeping like all the time!! Just all around worst decision ive ever made was marrying him! If it weren’t for my girls id regret it to the moon & back! Maybe was just my luck but… I personally will NEVER attempt a relationship with Taurus! I can not… Lol
Was with a Taurus for 9 years …….. Been divorced for 6 from him. He was my stability I have to admit and easy to talk to but a real jealous type and when I finally opened my eyes and sen him for what he really was I seen a jealous control freak that is a outrageous liar and a big cheat. Not worth the headache in the long run
Me and the bull I’m talking to get along amazing he grounds me when I get carried away with my blazing nature and we challenge each other mentally physically and sexually it’s amazing
I was married to a Taurus man the father of my kids! It didn’t work but only because I think both him and I weren’t ready to make it work. I think depending on where you are at in your life and by that I mean spiritual growth, it takes a lot of shifting personalities and characteristics to make that work!
I’m totally in love with my Taurus. He is extremely supportive,loving and loyal. He can be a bit stubborn but that’s not an issue. He is the most passionate guy I’ve met. Loves to tease and hides in more than he shows
Pro and con. Depends on the how much effort you put in and accept. I was married to one who was a lazy ungrateful emotionally and mentally abusive excuse for a human being. It took some time to recover after the divorce. But guess what… after finally going back out in the dating world… I’m dating ANOTHER Taurus. And it’s AMAZING!! He’s the complete opposite. My BF is kind. Ultra supportive. Understanding and most of all stable ???? I’m thankful for him.
I’m an Aries. My fiance, brother and best friend are all Taurus and we all get along great. Of course we butt heads but I’ve never met anyone as loyal as these three. I’m one lucky Aries lol
Every Taurus I’ve known friends family etc all have been sneaky, good with words fool most but have been just very dishonest… you cant fool an Aries though lol
My best friend is a Taurus and we have a great relationship. 15 years and counting. We’ve cross the friend line many times and we are still strong
My love is a Taurus and I an Aries…3 going on 4 years…have two babies together with children from our previous relationship …we balance each other out….everything 50/50… He works…I work…he cooks every night…he watches the kids when im at work. Very thoughtful….he thinks about bills and kids first…we are a sober home and been sober together and will be for life.
Aries are too much of a free spirit for Taurus to handle they are way possessive and controlling. Worst relationship of my life, manipulative and abusive put me off the sign altogether
I was married to a Taurus, he was the worst man ever! Controlling, manipulative, abusive!!! A little on the evil side, mean as hell!!! Im not sure about all Taurus, but i dont think i could date another!
I dated a Taurus for 2 yrs. He was kind, considerate, understanding and would do anything to make me happy. He also was stuck in his ways of not wanting do anything. He would hold things in and of course personal reasons that every relationship goes through. Overall I think it can be boring and you have to work hard to keep it going..they are very settled. Not really an aries pace. Good luck though
I had to laugh at this because I’ve dated three Taurus men and said no more. Then out of no where I met another one and been with him for 3yrs so far and I’m in love. He’s nothing like the other three and he loves me. We have our stubborn moment’s but we are very chilled and the sex life OMG
I am an Aries woman and I’m with a Taurus woman and she is definitely the best thing in my life. We have been together for 5 years. She is totally my opposite, when I’m pissed and ready to hook and gut a pig bitch she is the one that will tell me I am being a hot headed cunt and I need to calm down and take a different approach. She is the calm to my storm. I guess it really depends on who you get with. Me and her have at least one major fight in the day *not all the time but most of the time* but we are so damn hard headed and stubborn that we do tend to butt heads, but once we are calmed down and actually talk about what we argued about then we usually find a resolution. I know fighting isn’t good but I appreciate our fights because when we come back to each other after it makes me feel better because it shows me that no matter what we will be there for each other.
I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and counting. We’ve had our differences but I wouldn’t change a thing. You as an Aries has to keep an open mind and remember, us Aries are observant and we like to study people, well Taurus’ do too. Taurus’ are looking for someone who’s there thru thick and thin. Unconditionally. If you’re ready for it, then I wish you so much happiness.
I was with a taurus for over 5 years loved him dearly we had a daughter still love him and even tho we’ve moved on and are with different people I still love him way more than my current
It can work. But in my opinion Taurus men once in love they will do anything for you. And as we know Aries love a challenge. So it gets boring. But a Taurus man will provide you with stability.
The best relationship I’ve ever had! ?? My wife is an Aries and I’m a Taurus. I was attracted to her fire and she was attracted to my earth. Like ALL relationships no matter the signs, communication and understanding is the key!
I WAS MARRIED to a taurus (as an aries) It was one of the most amazing experiences i could have ever had. she completely stabilized my energy and organized my life, and i have her the KICK she needed to move forward. UNDERSTANDING AND APPRECIATING THE DIFFERENCES IS KEY.
Im with a taurus, been together for 4 years. Let me just say.. When it’s good, It’s great. When it’s bad, it’s horrible. Yes.. they can be verbally abusive, mine is. He says some hurtful shit sometimes. But I know that’s just his way of making himself feel like a “Man” he trys to act like a hard ass, but he has a soft side too. You just have to work really hard to get him there. It’s rare. But I love mine, either way. I know I can say some mean shit too, so I can’t be a hypocrite. If you think you can handle it, go for it.
Great friends. Will lack passion after a while. Boring. Never admit when they are wrong and will never apologize
My ex was a Taurus. It didn’t work out. He was manipulative and wasn’t willing to make me one of his priorities. Plus it’s hard getting them to open up, they’re very closed off when it comes to their feelings.
My Taurus man was Possessive!!!! To the point of paranoia. I can’t, was accused of cheating, which I wasn’t doing at all, because he felt I was “too fucking friendly” on social media. Like I literally just post memes and talk shit and THAT made him think I was out with other guys. NEVER again.
it is honestly up to you and what your heart feels. I am with a Taurus male and it is honestly the best relationship I have ever had yes we both maybe stubborn but we learn how to work it out as we go we talk things out. It’s all how you connect with the person. Go with what your heart and mind tell you not what other people tell you cause we can’t choose who you date or fall in love with you have to be able to so that your self. Just some personal incite
Aries and taurus is FIREWORKS in and out of the bedroom… Passion rules the relationship. I loved the Taurus I was with. But he was a look at me look at me type. Anything for shock value. They have amazing hearts. Beautiful people. But the bullhead and wishy washy ways. He had a hard time committing. He was gorgeous and knew it. Best way I’ve always described it is Katy Perry’s Hot and Cold. We haven’t been together in 7 yrs and we are still very close. I’m the one he misses, and he checks up on me at least once a week. He still bends over backwards for me. I’m his only weakness.
Amazing! They are bull headed but will bend for their Aries! My Taurus is absolutely a perfect fit for our family! Loyal, Sweet, and kind but firm! Don’t take their kindness for weakness because the last thing u wanna do is piss them off! My husband is quiet and observant but will bring the noise if need be!
I see the Aries/Taurus like this: Aries is stubborn:But we’re stubborn in that we will not give up..tenacious..we Ram our heads against the obstacle,trying to move it….The Taurus is stubborn in that they dig in their heels. They will stand there and not move,and they are stuck. They dig in their heels and there is no movement. They refuse to be moved.
I’m stuck. I’ve been dealing with a Taurus female for awhile now, super stubborn.moody cranky an down right mean.I’m so blessed to a 4/1 king that nothing she do overwhelms me or causes me to become upset,im just so ? cool an mild mannered ,that i can tell it eats at her because of my easy goin fun loving personality.i also have 5 female friends that are all Aries.an we all enjoy our super secret hangout time they all are so possessive of me. Im so topshelf.
I tried once, but Taurus likes to take things slowly and it drove me up the walls ?
He was thinking whether or not he wanted a relationship and I was already 20 steps ahead (so I scared the fuck out of him)
And we were both stubborn as fuck.
If you have him, he keeps you. They’re very romantic and hold on to relationships. Unless you really did him wrong, the break up is a forever break up too. Their anger is impressive and they hold on to their grudges. So be careful with your own Aries temper. When you think you were just ventilating, he may not forgive you. Taurus likes to be cozy at home, Aries wants to go on adventures.
A positive trait is we like personal space and taurus needs time for themselves too.
We’re 10+ yrs strong. It works if you are willing to give up on a few things here and there.
what is with taurus men and that royalty attitude, this mysterious front when they dont want you to know something, nasty attitude but want to come to you after saying horrible things and act like they love more than an Aries??
Yeah they try to cut deep, but they don’t know that Aries are on a whole nother level of petty shit. Were not gonna say hurtful stuff, we’ll just tell you the truth lol
Beautiful as long as u can agree to disagrees. Remember both signs have horns