Virgo and Scorpio Compatibility: Sex, Love, and Friendship

Scorpio and Virgo Compatibility Key Takeaways:

This is an intense relationship that can work out quite well. Both signs usually see matters in the same light, and if Scorpio can put up with Virgo’s criticism, things will go smoothly.

Compatibility: High

Read on to learn how you can make things go smoother

Are Virgo and Scorpio Compatible?

These two combined usually make a couple that is undefeatable. The compatibility between the two can be pretty high compared to other couples. In this case, with an earth sign and a water sign getting together, it can create an excellent relationship with a strong bond.

Both like to live a life that is more tranquil as well as peaceful. Living a life that’s more pragmatic and down-to-earth.

The Virgo can bring into the Scorpio’s life the ability to show self-control and restrain themselves since they tend to respond emotionally to problems.

On the other side, the Scorpio will bring a lot of strength, energy, and determination that is lacking in the Virgo. The Virgoan is a thinker; usually, with any situation, they like to take their time to look at every option to fix any problems they face.

So, in this case, you could definitely say they complement each other quite well.

How Are Scorpio and Virgo in Love?

There will be a lot of attraction between the two in the beginning, which will continue throughout their relationship.

They will get along with happiness and a foundation built upon their friendship.

The Scorpion will need to have a little bit of patience since Virgoan is a person that is quite reserved at times, and they are always guarded when it comes to their hearts. Virgo definitely does not want to get hurt in a relationship.

The problem could arise when Scorpio’s patience wears thin. Suppose Virgo wants to make the relationship they share work. In that case, they need to show great determination and commitment to make the connection happen. If they can’t show dedication and love before the Scorpio loses their patience, then it’s too late.

On the other side, Scorpios can show a lot of depth and intensity in their approach to dealing with life. This can affect Virgo, who lives life looking at things reasonably and modestly.

There is no doubt that both of these signs are pretty challenging and demanding, and this is where they need to communicate well. They need to ensure that the demands they make on each other are not overreaching. This relationship needs to be give and take, but never a tug of war between them.

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Experts Discuss This Couple:

 

Jenn: You will more than likely find the Scorpio to be a little too intense for your liking. You will be annoyed by the Scorpio’s jealous and child-like behavior at times but at other times will be drawn like a magnet to them. The Scorpio will probably not share our feelings since the Scorpio cannot appreciate your need for organization and efficiency.

Laura: If Scorpio can give Virgo good reasons to feel confident about self-image, this relationship can do well. If Virgo decides to challenge Scorpio’s power through the art of criticism, Virgo should rethink that strategy right off the bat, because Scorpio is relentless in defending. Both enjoy a certain amount of order in their lives and both are down to earth, no nonsense types. This is where the Scorpio and Virgo couple can build a bridge for something longer lasting. Scorpio can also pull the passionate side out of the Virgin, bringing this sign into a new awareness of depth.

Tracy: Virgo and Scorpio can be a compatible couple as they may both be loyal with common interests. If they manage to work as a team this can be a fruitful match.

Heidi: Scorpio has a way of making Virgo feel secure and loved. Mental stimulation won’t be a problem in this relationship. However, reserved Virgo and somewhat secretive Scorpio may have a communication problem when it comes to personal issues.

Keley:  This is an intense relationship that can work out quite well. Both signs usually see matters in the same light, and if Scorpio can put up with Virgo’s criticism, things will go smoothly.

Marcus: The usual Virgin tactics of handing out unsolicited advice does not fare well with Scorps. Scorpios are ultra-sensitive to any kind of nagging, scolding, or criticizing. They despise being analyzed or categorized. And of course, we know that Virgo’s motto is “I analyze”. Can we see the potential explosiveness here? These two will respect and admire each other from afar, but they are not of one mind in affairs of the heart.

David:  This can be a great match. Virgo can satisfy Scorpio’s lustier yearnings, while Scorpio can match Virgo intellectually. Scorpio is a highly compatible sign with Virgo.

Virgo Man and Scorpio Woman

The couple cooperates with each other and has a good relationship. The Virgo male would always love the calm and determined Scorpio partner. He trusts his Scorpio woman and is always thinking that she is aware of his feelings and emotions. So, the shy-natured Virgo remains shy-natured. The relationship is romantic and emotional and very stable. She’d love to lead him, and he’d love to follow her! So the relationship usually is a good one without having much conflict and problems.

How to Keep the Fire Burning

 

Trust, honesty, and integrity are the glue that binds.

Honesty, integrity, and the thirst for knowledge bind you together, and there is very little that can tear you apart. He’s not likely to cause you to become suspicious of him, and if you are, don’t be afraid to talk it out. He’ll truly understand you, and you’ll truly understand him.

He loves your mysterious and secretive charisma.

Your mysterious and secretive charisma is likely to make some people avoid you or even become nervous around you, but makes you even more attractive to him. His curiosity is piqued by your hypnotic gaze and your self-discipline; he is honestly interested in what you have to say. You’ll find that he is a wonderful listener, and you’ll appreciate his words, even when they are critical, as long as you set your boundaries.

You don’t have to “teach” him any lessons.

When you are hurt by someone, you have the tendency to teach them a lesson. The cautious, practical and intelligent Virgo is a little too practical to cross the line, because he can “read the signs” of your hurt quite easily, and the last thing he wants to do is to hurt anyone. Plus, it’s seldom that you have to tell a Virgo anything more than once.

 

Scorpio Man and Virgo Woman

When a Virgo woman loves her partner, she means it. This aspect of this woman really pleases a Scorpio man. So, both of them make a good couple. They can reason with each other due to the calm attitude that both of them have. This eliminates most of the conflicts that generate due to misunderstandings between them. The critical attitude that she has can be annoying for him. To make the relationship last longer, she should remain cautious of her attitude. The confidence that both of them share is a good thing. Since both have separate ways of expressing physical love, it may seem odd to either of them.

How to Keep the Fire Burning

 

Travel will feed and grow your relationship.

He is as careful as you are about financial matters, because of the comfort and security that money can buy. One of his cravings that he has in common with you is travel; a couple of days at the lake or seashore will do more for a Scorpio than a month at a spa will do for most people. As for you, a change of scene has a similar effect, because boredom is torture for your Mercurial, variety-loving soul. Travel, whether for business or pleasure, is like medicine for both of you; remember this as you plan your long life together.

Integrity matters.

You can be sure that if he has made a promise, he will keep it. This is especially true about love. Even if he is sorely tempted, if he has declared himself to you, he will quickly and honestly let it be known to anyone who might try to come between you. His integrity is more important to him than any other personal virtues.

Room to grow.

Both of you are aware of your personal flaws. While you tend to be more critical of yourself than anyone else, the Scorpio, with his powerful intuition, picks that up; his well-honed protective skills and instincts will kick in and do whatever he can to keep you from feeling hurt, even if that hurt is something deep inside you. His discipline and his sense of his own shortcomings give him a fondness for self-improvement, and will gladly join you in whatever means you take to improve your own life.

Virgo and Scorpio Friendship

Your ability to bring out the conversation in each other will make for the perfect platonic friendship.

For The Virgin:

You are a pretty upfront and honest zodiac sign and they trust that. Trust is the number one necessary friend quality. When a Scorpion is your friend there is nothing they won’t do for you. And you really don’t mind that hidden side of theirs.

For The Scorpion:

You enjoy the quiet, tender, honest essence of your friend. They care…period. You don’t take advantage of their compassion. They don’t take advantage of your emotions. This works wonderfully.

Scorpio & Virgo Relationship

For The Virgin:

They are quiet, watchful and you can appreciate that. You are loyal and open and they appreciate that. Although this may start slowly it’s worth your efforts. They are amazing people to be in love with. Yes, yes..they can be jealous..that’s why you need to be able to say No…and mean it.

For The Scorpion:

Ditto for love. They also has a super secret side…(there’s that magical word that drives you wild…s-e-c-r-e-t) and you KNOW it’s there. This can turn into a romance for the memory books

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Virgo and Scorpio In Bed

This is one area where you won’t need to discuss your actions. Although you pair may be timid in bed together at first this will soon disappear and you will be like sexual twins.

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Summary

Virgo is one of those star signs that can stand up to Scorpio and see them for what they really are, sincere and very loving. Scorpio is all too ready to hide behind how they really feel and fester on these unwanted feelings, but the emotional support and dedication that a Virgo can offer will really begin to make Scorpio feel safe and ready to open up. Virgo should have an increase of confidence with a Scorpio, as they can really pull away all of the inhibitions and self-esteem problems a Virgo can suffer from.

Sexually, the two of you are well matched and eager to take it in turns to dominate the bedroom, which is a quality Virgo rarely lets out of the bag. The only major difficulty you can have, are feelings of jealousy and secrets, both strong traits of a Scorpio, but the Virgo too can allow their self-confidence problems to get out of hand and worry about what they don’t know about.

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