Are Virgo and Libra Compatible?
This is one of those couples that usually have a hard time making things work out, but it’s not impossible to do. Most of the time, their compatibility is low, but things can change in their favor with a bit of work.
When you put an earth sign and an air sign in a relationship together, they usually find they don’t have much in common. However, if this couple can adapt to each other and take the time to get to know each other, they can become successful together.
In most cases, the two individuals in this relationship are on the other side of the spectrum of each other. For instance, the Libra is usually more open-minded and spontaneous, and they can adapt to any situation they need to be in or find themselves in.
On the other side, Virgo can sometimes be close-minded. They may also be a bit critical of their partner while at the same time being reasonable and steady in their thought process.
So this relationship usually works out in one of two ways:
They either do not understand each other, or their communication is so poor that they go their separate ways eventually as things fall apart.
Or they work together and embrace their differences. Taking advantage of the good traits that their partner brings to the relationship and vice versa for them to take their relationship to the next level.
How Are Virgo and Libra in Love?
As things between them progress from dating, they will move into an exciting relationship, to say the least. They will find that they make good partners for each other, but they will need to work together to fan the flames of love.
These two both need to be seduced, so the question comes down to who will be the one that makes the first move. The other thing to consider is that both of them usually are very slow to commit to being in a relationship.
Libra likes Virgo to be concerned or worried about them and to show some emotion regarding their partnership. The Virgoan will be able to chill and relax a little bit in the company of their Librian partner. They will do everything in their power to get along with them.
Unfortunately, in many cases, this just doesn’t solve any issues. As things progress, they realize that maybe they can’t give each other what they need.
Virgo brings to Libra’s life a high level of understanding and also helps them persevere when it comes to their dreams and goals that they want to accomplish. Sometimes those goals could be ones they might not be able to accomplish on their own.
On the other side, the Libra brings to the Virgo somebody with a great attitude and can offer them balance in their lifestyle. Someone who can take them out of the routine they are usually in, one that is based on responsibility and accountability.
For this couple to work out, the Virgo will need to be more accepting of the way that the Libra needs to live their life. At the same time, Libra has to make little concessions as well, and use their skills in diplomacy, to the point that they take it a little bit easier on their partner and do not critique them so much.
It definitely cannot be sugar-coated, but this relationship does take a lot of work to maintain and continue. It’s not going to be easy, but if both partners can fully put their hearts into the relationship, and keep the communication between them very open, then this will have the chance to make it.
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What You Will Learn:
Experts Discuss This Couple:
Melissa: Better professional partners than passionate – Virgo’s need for a monogamous relationship won’t last with philandering Libra.
Celia: You’ve analyzed the situation and found the solution – but Libra can’t help muddying the waters by arguing for the other side.
Jenn: You share the Libra’s need for order and organization which should work out nicely for the two of you. You will probably end up being more social with Libra’s influence over you which is a good thing. Your differences actually blend nicely together and what little differences don’t blend won’t take much effort to work out. This combination has a great chance for success.
Lidia: This has the makings of a really good relationship, but be prepared that a lot of the effort will stem from Virgo, as Libra focuses too much on other areas of life. This needs to be made apparent as soon as you notice it yourselves and then you can make amends before you get upset or resentful about it. Libra has an amazing zest for life and will make sure there are not too many dull moments in your social calendar and with the extra love Virgo can bring into any relationship, you should find yourselves having a lot of good times together.
Keep reassuring and letting each other know how much you feel for one another and stick close together when you are out to increase the special bond you can have. The main key is to put each other first and not to be afraid of sharing all of those innermost emotions. Don’t look at this relationship in the same way as any other failed partnerships.
Laura: The Virgo and Libra couple shares similar purist-type qualities. Virgo appreciates Libra’s excellent manners and refined nature, while Libra relates well to Virgo’s sense of order – which, for Libra, translates into beauty. Libra can help Virgo to appreciate having fun in general, allowing Virgo to let loose more often, as Virgo often struggles with internal demands of perfection. When Virgo stops cutting off its animal side, the sun shines more often and playfulness becomes more habitual.
Tracy: A typical Libra and Virgo pairing combines two agreeable individuals who may struggle to understand the other, yet is willing to work on any problems though if Libra is unfaithful this may be a short relationship.
Heidi: Totally different personalities. Virgo is reserved and somewhat practical, and Libra is outgoing and usually has expensive taste. Libra is affectionate and Virgo doesn’t usually display much affection. Libra may end up feeling unloved while Virgo may end up not getting mentally exhilarated, which could be the cause of a breakup in this relationship.
Keley: This is an excellent match for both signs involved. Both partners are well grounded and understand the need for being cautious and analyzing details. Libra is fairly laid back and should be able to deal with Virgo’s desire for nitpicking.
Marcus: Virgo will be attracted to a Libra immediately. Libra’s are pleasant, enticing, intelligent, and stimulating. Most sun signs find them very agreeable. The problem lies when a Virgin starts getting persnickety with them. Libra hates being nagged, judged, or criticized. They rarely defend themselves, they simply leave. The fate for these two is definitely not happily ever after.
David: Careful Virgo and cerebral Libra connect on a mental level. But hard-working Virgo goes for perfection, while the more easygoing Libra needs more time for relaxation and romance.
Virgo Man and Libra Woman
There are some similarities in what Libra and Virgo love. Both of them appreciate a life full of coordination and cooperation. On the other hand, Libra woman loves to imagine things while her man has a practical style and more realistic approach. He is a hard worker and often gets deeply involved in his work. It may seem to this woman that she is being ignored but that is not the reality. He loves his partner but lacks the power of expression. She loves her partner wholeheartedly and she gets hurt if she is ignored. The Virgo man sometimes shows an attitude that cannot be understood by her and it can lead to problems and differences.
How to Keep the Fire Burning
Let him comfort you when you are hurt.
It may be hard to meet someone better at comforting you when you’re hurt than him. He can bring a “mellow vibration” into the depths of worrisome issues; his practical nature and his efficiency at handling problems are calming even in a crisis. You’ll appreciate his efforts to create a peaceful and happy relationship.
Your logic and charm may not work as well on him.
You may find your strategy of utilizing your combination of logic and charm to be less effective on him than on other signs. Rather than disputing your points as the “discussion” proceeds, he’ll let you continue until the end, and then point out the errors in your argument, apparently immune to the charming smile that usually serves you as an exclamation point. He respects you as a consummate debater, but rarely engages in debate himself. You’ll find his method of dealing with important matters both frustrating and accurate, and somehow, will be excited about his passion for clarity.
He will listen and may change his mind.
Although you might not get the kind of “rise” from Virgo that you do from men of other signs, he listens carefully and takes your Saturnian wisdom into consideration. Although he may be critical of your reasoning process, he is born into a Mutable, or changeable sign, and will often end up agreeing with you. Since your physical chemistry is good, this usually works out to be quite comforting – and helps you sharpen your conversational skills as well.
Libra Man and Virgo Woman
These two signs are somewhat compatible with each other. A Libra man has a fascinating personality and is very attractive. He is full of emotions and expressions. Virgo woman loves to even out flaws in others. Her perfection-seeking attitude and her intelligence are admired by her partner. Since he has a dominating sentimental attitude and she has a more practical approach, there can be differences at times. He sometimes tries to use others and if she observes this aspect of his nature, she will consider it better to look at other possibilities while moving on in life.
How to Keep the Fire Burning
Join his active social life.
He is usually quite charming and likes a varied social life and activities that involve many people. Those kinds of parties usually aren’t at the top of your list of priorities. But remember, your planet, Mercury, is of changeable nature, and you are born into an adaptable Mutable sign; it’s much better to “get over it” and attend these functions with him than it is to worry about who he’s charming when you’re not around. After all, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
Don’t unfairly judge him to be lazy.
Libra works furiously until his energy is exhausted, and then takes a period of rest. You’ll notice this pattern fairly quickly, and when you see the productivity of his highs, you’ll realize why he needs to periodically recharge.
Share your differences with each other.
He tends to believe that any mistake can be corrected, but you believe that it’s easier not to make the mistake in the first place. You’ll tend to think that as fascinating and correct your Libra’s decision making process is, that most of the time it’s unnecessary. At the same time, you both can be of great benefit to one another, if you can openly and fairly discuss your differences.
Virgo & Libra Friendship
If you are surrounded by other people you may ignore each other. If you are thrown together you will become the best of buddies.
For The Virgin:
Here’s why this works. They are a secret worrier, it’s why they always ask everyone’s advice. You help them find answers. You also share a sense of artistic style that seriously compliments one another. Just don’t get upset when they float between friends. It’s just how they are…and they really do love you.
For The Scales:
You both have an ultra-deep awareness about how things (including each other) look. It has to be this way or that way, it has to fit, and it has to be color coordinated. If you’re “doing” something together you’ll find plenty to share. Otherwise…They are always busy and you’re always looking for a chat.
Libra & Virgo Relationship
For The Virgin:
If you don’t mind making all the decisions this works great. If you don’t mind spending Friday night with all your shared friends…or all your friends..this works great. Define your boundaries first.
For The Scales:
They are quiet, modest, truly caring, and compassionate. In a romance, that takes getting used to. Yet, they will always be there for you and they absolutely do not mind helping you find your answers or cleaning up the mess around your house.
Heartbeats will race frequently and temperatures may also rise occasionally.
If you both learn to compromise you will at least be on the right track. If you don’t …
A challenging period of two intense personalities will arise in the short term of this relationship.
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Virgo and Libra Sex
When you are hot you are very very hot, but when you are cold you are ice.
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