Dating a Virgo and Relationships

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Virgo In Relationships


Love can be a bit of a challenge for the Virgo native due to their high standards. They would much rather choose to be on their own rather than settle for second best. They tend to scrutinize people which can feel a bit intimidating, but deep down they are probably being hard on themselves. A Virgo does have a certain child like innocence when it comes to love and relationships and have a bit of a romantic, and old fashioned streak to them. They are drawn to the “Cinderella” visions of love and romance and, in truth, a Virgo just wants to be wooed, courted, and loved. Many Virgos are timid, shy, and introvert which can make them seem hard to get to know at first. But they are deeply loyal, practical, and giving when it comes to relationships.

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What a Virgo likes In a relationship


a partner with good Personal hygiene.
To be active and out enjoying life
Parity in their relationship
to feel completely safe.
Being coddled when they’ re upset.
Smooth romantic displays.

What a Virgo Dislikes In a relationship


Their partner showing too much weakness
Personal chaos.
Heavy show of affection.
Hypocrisy within the relationship.
Being stuck with no forward motion.
Their partner being late for things
Someone being completely rude ot them or their partner.

How To Attract Virgo


Virgos desire intellectual stimulation so provide them with details and facts to make a positive impression. When talking to them, have a conclusion whether you agree with each other or don’t agree with each other. They just don’t like topics that have no ending.

Virgos like to take time and think about things so don’t be spontaneous or force them into making a rushed decision. It’s not that they’re slow; it’s just their brain likes to take things in and evaluate them. Don’t try to get inside their mind because, until they feel they have a solid relationship, their emotions will stay closed off. They choose when that time is going to be.

People of this sign naturally worry about things – don’t let this bother you. Be sure you don’t give them a reason to worry because this can really get to them. Allow the Virgo man or woman to control things that are happening. Any date should stay tasteful and non-vulgar. These folks love classy, calm atmospheres and folks.

Dating a Virgo


To attract a Virgo partner do something thoughtful. Actions speak much larger than words where a Virgo is concerned. So take some time to show your Virgo they are special by putting together a lovely picnic or writing a poem or a song. Anything that shows some creativity and thought on your part will help tremendously to win Virgo love. When taking a Virgo out on a date be neat and presentable as Virgos hate sloppy. And be sure to show up on time, as dependability is a must to any Virgo. Plan an outdoor date hiking or kayaking, as Virgos love to be close to the earth. And instead of showing up with cut flowers, plan on bringing a plant instead. The true Virgo is also very service oriented so plan a date that involves helping the community, like visiting a soup kitchen or spending the day building a home with Habitat for Humanity. And never, ever make a promise to Virgo you cannot keep, as this will mean a swift end to the relationship.

What It’s Like To Date A Virgo Man


Virgo men are extremely sensitive on the inside and cool on the outside. He respects women and treats them like his equal. Due to his reluctance to express his emotions, he desires a woman that will stir them up. When he tries to express himself, it causes conflict with him and in the relationship.

Women must be patient and understanding with a Virgo man. He doesn’t try to get close to people, and anyone that does try so will make him feel threatened. Virgo men don’t want an unconventional or impulsive woman. Rather, he wants someone who is predictable and classy so he feels safe.

For women who are conventional and down to earth, this sign is the perfect mate. He’s not the type to sweep women off their feet but he is the type of person who is extremely loyal. Time will determine when his sensuality is let loose. If a woman craves stability in a relationship, the Virgo man is perfect for them.

What It’s Like To Date A Virgo Woman


The earthly Virgo woman can come across as detached and cold but under it all lays a very passionate and powerful lady with a real capacity to love and love deep. She plays hard to get and will be hard to get because of her apprehensiveness to getting hurt. If you want to be with her, you must be patient and court her.

Once she has fallen in love with you, it’s long-term. She’ll do everything she can to ensure your happiness and bring order to your life. The women of this sign are usually old-fashioned and conservative and great for a man who wants a challenge and likes taking relationships slow.

Virgo cheater or faithful?


The people of this sign are Social Butterflies. They are very open and fun. They always love the idea of being in a relationship with someone.

They like to have a partner that will spend a lot of time with them but also give them time to be by themselves as well. They believe a lot in love, and the power of a beautiful relationship. If they believe in their relationship they put everything they are into it.

Sometimes though relationship problems can rear their ugly head. This is where infidelity can pop up.

How can they be unfaithful:

They are very passionate people, and truly believe in The Power of Love. When they are with their partner they need to feel the same way as they did at the very beginning of the relationship. Even though relationships can get into a routine, it’s important to keep the relationship fresh and fun.

Virgos even though they enjoy their alone time, cannot feel like they are truly alone in a relationship. If they start to feel like the relationship is becoming monotonous, or that they are starting to have ill feelings towards the relationship, they will sit down with their partner to talk things over to see if changes can be made.

If their conversation with their partner is ignored,  there is a possibility they might go looking elsewhere. They could end up finding somebody else that can give them exactly what they’re looking for, and this is where cheating can happen.

If they do cheat, it usually isn’t an ongoing affair. There is a chance that it could last a few days, and they will do the right thing and end the relationship afterwards. They do have a big heart so they do have a hard time saying something that they know is going to end up hurting their significant other.

They truly don’t like being unfaithful. so most natives of this sign will end things way before it gets to that point. When they do end things they try and keep it as amicable as possible.


Quiz: Virgo lover – What kind of Lover are you? or is your partner?


To answer each question, meditate or think about each one to get an answer of either Yes, No, or Sometimes, which ever applies best to you in regards to the question.

Yes=3 Sometimes=2 No=1

For Men

Do you do exercises every day to keep fit?
Would you like to be more appreciated at work?
Are you a fan of Arnold Schwartzenagger?
Do you have one love at a time?
Do you like to criticize?
Is routine part of your life?
Are you picky with your food?
Do you like to do things slowly?
Do you like to have the leading role in bed?
Are you faithful in long-term relationships?
Do you feel that homosexuality is wrong or immoral?
Are you prude towards other people’s sexual preferences?
Does owing money bother you?
Do you get upset easily over small things?
Do you have a good sense of observation?
Do women who are assertive in sex turn you off or scare you?
Would you say that you are responsible?
Do you believe in families with a few children instead of many?
Are you upset with poor hygiene when it comes to lovemaking?
If you do not have enough sleep do you feel restless?

For Women

Are you very picky when it comes to food?
Do you think your mother has too much power over you?
Do you prefer financial security to sex and marriage?
Would someone with a bad smell turn you off?
Do you like to take your time?
Are you able to take initiative in bed?
Are you afraid that people think that you are too shy or old fashion?
Could you easily do without sex?
To be happy do you need to be financially autonomous?
Do you have a nurturing nature?
Would you be in shock if someone in your family took part in pornography?
Do you have a gift for organization and planning?
Do you love clothes that prevail the classic look?
Are you still able to work and take care of chores if you did not sleep enough?
Do you get angry if people throw things away?
Is it typical of you to say no to sex if you do not feel in the mood for it?
Do you feel that we are living in an immoral world?
Do people say that you have good handwriting?
Are you capable of making decisions quickly?
Do you believe that it is easier to be a man than a woman?


1 – 35 POINTS

You are a very less perfectionist kind of Virgo. Mercury is tempered very much by the element of Water, which makes you more sensitive and gives you a more loveable personality.

35 – 45 POINTS

You are a positive Virgo with all the positive and perfectionist traits without the criticism.

45 – 60 POINTS

You are the Virgo who has the full increment of Mercury, which possesses all the good and bad increments.

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Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez currently has 10+ years of experience helping people navigate life with the use of astrology. When not working on the website she is busy writing her first book on love and astrology.

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