Virgo and Aquarius Compatibility – Earth + Air

aquarius + virgo

Are Aquarius and Virgo compatible?

Usually when two people of this sign start a relationship together at first they might not see it, but the compatibility between the two of them can be quite low.

The very nature of both of the signs are on the opposite side of the spectrum, and when that’s the case it usually means that there’s not very much in the way of attraction ( outside of maybe physical) . Also it should be mentioned that their philosophy when it comes to life is pretty much different as well.

It should be noted that even if the compatibility is usually rated low for these two signs, that with hard work and a lot of love anything is possible. So for this relationship to make it there has to be a lot of love between the two of them, open communication to get their feelings and points across, and a big dose of patience.

How are Virgo and Aquarius in love?

When they first meet there’s going to be a lot of curiosity in getting to know each other, and with that a desire to learn more. Obviously a physical attraction will be there.

Where they might find issues with each other is that both signs are emotionally hard to figure out. A lot of the time they are really busy when it comes to their lifestyles, and the question comes down to who is the one that’s going to seduce the other in the first place.

As things start to develop between the two of them they might start to view themselves as the ideal partner for their mate, and vice versa. This is a relationship that usually works better with a friendship foundation first, due to the fact that neither of them has the drive or the patience to start a relationship from the ground up.

There is a positive side to this relationship though. If Virgo is able to let themselves loosen up a little bit, and reach out to their partner on an intellectual level, then this union has a pretty good chance of making it. When the Aquarius sees this change, they will adapt to the situation.

The important thing is that they sit down and communicate their feelings with each other, and what exactly they’re looking for out of the relationship. If they understand that, and the fact that a lot of love and patience is needed, then they can make it as a beautiful couple.

Experts Discuss This Couple:

Melissa: Innovative Aquarius fascinates Virgo, while Aquarius is impressed with Virgo’s analytical skills. But, the Water Bearer’s tendency towards the far-out is a little much for fastidious Virgo.

Aquarius has a vision for the future; you like to sort out today’s mess. Your joint humanitarian approach could conquer the world.

Jenn: The Aquarius loves chaos. They are so easy going and with your need to be organized and efficient, the two of you are sure to clash. The Aquarius is a dreamer while you are a doer and it is unlikely that you two could find a neutral ground.

Lidia: The problem with this relationship is that you both seem to be on different wavelengths, each believing that you know best. This is not the way forward and it will break you up if you don’t take control early on. Aquarius needs to become more attached to all of the things that are important to Virgo, so that there is plenty of emotional support flowing between you. Virgo on the other hand needs to let go of the little items that don’t matter as much as you may well make out. With time, if Aquarius is not careful, they will push Virgo away, being too focused on other people and their needs or desires and this will not enable your relationship to work more than a few months.

Virgo has to be careful not to smother too quickly and tie down Aquarius as well. Overall this needs a wad of compromise from both of you, but you can make it work well, turning your love affair into something quite solid over time.

Laura: The Virgo and Aquarius couple will likely talk up a good storm for hours upon first meeting. If each can give the other leeway when it comes down to everyday individual living preferences, this union has a chance at finding common ground. However, if Virgo is expecting Aquarius to somehow fit into a neat little box, there will be much disappointment in this relationship. Likewise, if Aquarius thinks that Virgo will happily join in non stop socializing, again that might be a stretch at best. This couple will need to become energized mentally first, then let the rest will fall where it may.

Tracy: A Virgo/Aquarius bond can be an odd match and success depends on how they handle their differences. Ideally they can work to balance their strengths and weaknesses to create a mutually beneficial love match.

Heidi: Both can be intellectually stimulated by the other, but the stimulation ends there, as they each have completely different goals in life. Aquarius is outgoing and Virgo reserved, which can be a big problem in this relationship.

Keley: This relationship usually starts out with a strong attraction, but it can quickly degenerate. Virgo is just a bit too interested in stability and security to put up with Aquarius’s flights of fancy.

Marcus:  A first glance these two seem mismatched. Virgo, who always has everything organized and neatly planned, and Aquarius who floats around dreamily and rarely deals with details of this world. How can it work? These two often are great friends and stay that way. They also seem to fill each other out like missing parts to a jigsaw puzzle. The Virgin seems to be good at what the Water-Bearer lacks and vice-versa.

David:  Virgo’s intriguing intelligence excites bright Aquarius, whose unconventional mindset help prudent Virgo loosen up. You have great fun, and connect intellectually. But both of you avoid the messy theater of emotions, so when problems come up in that area, you can both feel ill at ease.

Virgo Man and Aquarius Woman

Everybody knows about the Virgo men. These men crave for perfection in everything. Even if they are in a love relationship, they would want to it to be perfect. Talking about the Aquarius women, they love to have fun and are very enthusiastic. They do not want any sort of perfection in their lives as they have fun facing the challenges. Due to these basic differences, it becomes difficult for Aquarius women and Virgo men to balance in a love relationship. The Virgo men are very judgmental about some stuff and if their Aquarius girlfriends would talk to other men and hang out with them, it would obviously turn out to be a cause of doubting in a relationship

Aquarius Man and Virgo Woman

There is a basic difference in the nature of a Virgo woman and an Aquarius man. Aquarius does not like to get restricted by others while Virgo wants someone who can provide her complete security. Due to this difference, there can be conflicts and troubles for both the partners. Physical union can make their relationship safe and sound. In fact, the couple is not a compatible one and it can survive only if both the partners try to understand each other rather than trying to mold the other one according to the desire. If any one of the pair tries to do so, it may put an end to their connection.


Virgo and Aquarius Friendship

You can both be night owls and enjoy your own company as well as a crowd.

Aquarius and Virgo Relationship

As lovers:

You may find yourselves watching many films together then discussing them afterwards.

Long-term relationship:

You will both analyze almost every aspect of your relationship and talk about it with each other until you are happy with your pairing.

Short-term relationship:

You will live for fun and live for each other while loves magic spark is alight.

Virgo and Aquarius Sex

You are more likely to read a good book than devour each others mortal passions. However, once you have finished the book…

virgo and aquarius sexually compatible



Aquarius Compatibility with Virgo Over all Score:

overall score 30%

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Virgo Compatibility Index | Aquarius Compatibility Index| Zodiac Compatibility Index

Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez

Melissa Martinez currently has 10+ years of experience helping people navigate life with the use of astrology. When not working on the website she is busy writing her first book on love and astrology.


  1. Aquaman not Dc says:

    Ive been with a few different virgo women for years and i love it. the mental connection is huge. the spiritual growth these types can achieve together is well worth the petty fights over sex or organization

  2. bluesky Jen says:

    I really appreciate seeing the diverse comments. I’m an aquarius and I started dating a virgo guy. I couldn’t believe the way his mind worked- he was with me on every level. For me to feel secure I have to feel like I can connect intellectually with someone, especially in a relationship, and I even have butterflies in my stomach when I’m around him- so I know I’m attracted to him. So when I found out he was a virgo, I was caught off guard- then read about the connection and felt a little disappointed that all the advice was negative. So I’m going to just trust what is there between us, and am thankful that as humans we rely on our personal interactions to tell us what is good for us, and will help us grow.

  3. We’re both 25 and he’s an Aquarius and I’m a Virgo. I would say he has been my toughest challenge because he is completely opposite in the general aspect of life. I’m a saver and a giver, he’s a spender and a taker. He’s spontaneous and I’m well-grounded. I’m very organized and he’s a go with the flow kind of guy. The reason why we work is that we are both intellectual beings who enjoy a challenge. We can talk for hours on end on just about anything. And in the bedroom, it’s fierce! He likes the security in me and I enjoy his spontaneity. We do fight a lot because of our differences but at the end of the day, he wants what I have and I want what he has.

  4. DanceLoveBroom says:

    I am a virgo, dating an aquarius and we are really good together. We both aren’t quick to rush into anything serious. On an intellectual level, we can talk for hours about any and everything. Sexually we are fierce. At first we decided to wait because he is very cautious, but unlike many virgos, I am a very sensual person. So I was the one who initiated the act. But we are both really busy people. So when we see each other, it is magical. He can be detached, aloof, and in his own world, but at all the right times. We actually mesh really well. I teach him to be more organized and push him to acheive. He teaches me to be more laidback and take everything one day at a time.

  5. I am a Virgo woman with an Aquarius man. Intellectually we have a great rapport. Sexually he is the one who is inhibited due to other factors in his natal chart. However, we have a wildly passionate *HOT* sex life and I was the one who initiated it at the start of our relationship. Being able to have a meeting of hte minds enhanced/es the sex. I have no interest in being a maid so I hired on to do the shoppng, cooking and cleaning. He and I spend a lot of time out of the house doing things together. I have never been regimented with a daily list of things to do, but that is also because of other placements in my natal chart.

    I enjoy that he is cold, aloof and detached as an Aquarian. It gives me space and tiem when and where I need it. When Aquarians get to know you they are quite loyal and share themselves and their emotions.

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