Gemini and Virgo Compatibility: Sex, Love, and Friendship

Virgo and Gemini Compatibility Key Takeaways:

These two signs usually can’t put up with each other. The rarely see eye to eye on anything. Not only do they have opposing views on life but each finds the other person’s views maddening. Virgo tends to take things seriously and stays on the side of caution while Gemini often throws caution to the wind. There is little these two do together that doesn’t bring up some sort of argument.

Compatibility: Low to Average

Read on to learn how you can make things go smoother

Are Gemini and Virgo Compatible?

This is one of those relationships that can pretty much go either way. Even though Mercury rules both of these signs, their compatibility can be a mixed bag. Either a fantastic relationship happens, or everything goes down in flames.

Despite their significant differences, this couple also has similar and somewhat common traits that make them a good match.

They really need to be able to work together to smooth over any areas of conflict that could come up in their relationship. They definitely have to have a lot of respect between the two of them to make things work.

This is a great combination, though on a level of intelligence. Both signs are very wise, and they both enjoy having brilliant conversations with each other.

Gemini sometimes can be very restless and distracted, so Virgo can give them the reassurance and security they need.

Virgo is known to take life a little too seriously, and the twins can help them relax and unwind a bit and take their minds off things. They can help them see that even though life has serious overtones, there are fun moments to be had simultaneously.

How Are Gemini and Virgo in Love?

It has been said that they usually get along the best when they’re just starting to get to know each other. This is when they decide whether or not there’s a future to the relationship or there isn’t.

They tend to have stimulating and engaging conversations on different sides of the spectrum. Virgoans seem to like conversations with a hint of mischief, but they seem to have some criticism hidden in some of their comments. On the other side of things, the twins really like to have clever, amusing, and even conversations that are pretty inconsequential.

Often their opinions can be fragmented or mixed. This can cause strain between the two if they’re not seeing eye to eye.

For this relationship to work, it would be good for Gemini to become more focused and centered on their partner. At the same time, try to be more committed and accountable to the relationship that they share.

On the other side, it’s essential for Virgin to be less judgemental and critical of their partner and to learn to relax a little bit.

There is quite a possibility for this couple to remain a couple for a very long time. But the important thing is that they get along very well. There needs to be a lot of love between the two to continue working through any issues.

It’s also vital that when there’s friction between the two, they can sit down and work on those problems so that it doesn’t hurt the prospects of the relationship down that line.

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Experts Discuss This Couple:

Jenn: The Virgo is drawn to your intelligence and communication skills and never finds them to be boring. You will always be able to keep the Virgo on their toes. While you could learn a thing or two from the Virgo’s organized and efficient ways. You two make a perfect match.

Laura: With both signs ruled by wordy Mercury, this couple will rarely be at a loss for words. Both are naturally attracted to each other because of curiosity, but mainly intellect first. Virgo will gladly take the lead when it comes to organizing, while Gemini will provide an outlet for the lighter side of life.

Tracy: A Gemini/Virgo would need to understand each other before diving into a serious commitment. Conflict is possible from classic Virgo’s fussy nature and Gemini’s flightiness. Success is only possible with good communication between the couple. Capricorn may be too sensible and serious for the average Gemini. For a compatible match, both partners must learn to work together.

Heidi: Gemini may become bored in this relationship right from the get-go, and Virgo may tire from it just as quickly. If the relationship continues, Virgo can become very critical of Gemini and Gemini may get thoughtless and brash toward Virgo. Each has different interests and this relationship could lack passion and emotional stimulation.

Keley: This relationship can be quite difficult in a few areas. Gemini will find Virgo’s criticism quite hard to take, and Virgo will find Gemini’s lack of practicality quite frustrating.

Marcus: The Gemini-Virgo combination shares a sharp intellect, sense of humor, and tongue. Not all of these fares well in this relationship. Virgo, also known as the imperfect perfectionist, sometimes finds Gemini too frivolous and childlike. Your both like to talk, to hash and rehash things through. Your shared ability to communicate will see this couple through.

David: Witty and clever, you connect right away and the conversation flows naturally. But Gemini loves spontaneity and serendipity, while Virgo is the logical mathematician. Eventually, you may just annoy each other.

Gemini Man and Virgo Woman

A mature and sensible woman may have difficulty getting along with this man, as a Gemini man might make no sense to her. The Virgo woman uses her analytical and intellectual skills to make decisions. At the same time, he is prone to making impulsive decisions. The mutual respect and love between them ensure a lasting relationship between them. Their differing natures also contribute to their interest in one another.

How to Be Successful in This Relationship

 

Keep your social life hopping.

He needs social life and activity; that’s where he’s in his element and can be at his best. This doesn’t mean that he’s prone to infidelity; if he’s with you, he’s made a choice that’s very difficult to start with. You need occasional retreats into privacy to collect yourself and organize; he will give them to you as you learn to trust him. He loves you for who you are at your best and wants the same respect and love in return.

Bring variety to your relationship.

You are far more practical than he is; because the Earth element is so strong in you. Don’t let your practicality cause you to have several of the same items in your wardrobe, or always wear your hair in the same fashion; Gemini men find that boring, and they hate boredom. Take a cue from the Gemini nature and bring more variety into your life and your relationship, and he’ll love you for it.

Rub off on each other.

You’ll need to learn to take both him and yourself less seriously; sometimes his ideas and conversations can be a little scattered or even misleading and activate your “worry circuits” unnecessarily. At the same time, he needs to learn to take himself, and you, more seriously in order to stay grounded and be more comfortable with his life. The good news is that you’ll rub off on one another over time.

Virgo Man and Gemini Woman

Both have a great deal of mental attraction and are always on par intellectually, so they can learn from one another and appreciate each other. But Virgo men are more introverted and like being with fewer people, whereas Gemini women prefer large crowds and independence.

They have a tendency to change their personalities constantly due to their wanderlust. They charm the people around them and manage to escape trouble, whether in their career, their love life, or with their friends.

How to Be Successful in This Relationship

He is almost always thinking of your feelings.

Common annoyances and irritations may cause him to grumble and complain, but he rarely lets that be the cause of an argument. He’s more concerned about your feelings than you think, and will only lecture you if he has been really been hurt. He can be a sensitive mate or a scathing critic; it all depends on your sensitivity to his needs

Don’t try to pry information from him.

These Men are somewhat secretive; they don’t like sharing their every thought with their partner. It’s not a good idea to try to pry something out of him he’s not volunteering; chances are very good that part of his quiet time is dedicated to improving himself, and he may not be willing to discuss that part of his internal “website” that’s “under construction.” He treasures his privacy and will give you plenty of freedom once he trusts you because it gives him a chance to enjoy it.

Don’t try to tell him what he is thinking.

One of the few things that can get him really upset is if you tell him what he is thinking. Just try to avoid doing so; he knows as well as you do that you’re only making an assumption and whether it’s accurate or not, he finds it really offensive.

Gemini and Virgo Friendship

Conversation is the keyword in your friendship. Lots of it.

For The Twins:

You’re both intellectual types. But you want to know about the world; they want to know how well the world is working. You might find a common bond hard to come by. Give it a chance, tho’…you have a lot to learn from one another.

For The Virgin:

Both of you LOVE using your mind. You put things together, however, and they take them apart. Alright, so…you think differently. You still have a lot to learn from each other, and besides…they make you smile and laugh and forget your worries!

Virgo and Gemini Relationship

For The Twins:

They are natural caretakers on one level or another. That goes double when they are in Love. Be gentle with their attention and take notice of it. Don’t leave them guessing about anything.

For The Virgin:

The problem is…they sometimes forget time exists and is almost always late, or profoundly early. They want to be around your friends. You want to be around them. If you can find some common ground, you can keep this together. Email and the phone are a good start. They LOVE talking. So..talk.

Read More about how the signs are in dating

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Gemini and Virgo In Bed

At last, you stop talking unless it’s to ask for your intimate pleasures to be fulfilled.

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Summary

This is a bit of an odd combination, as the two of you clash in several areas, making it hard to commit to a long-term relationship. Gemini naturally winds up a Virgo, with their constant desire to change and keep situations moving quickly, it is difficult for Virgo to keep up with what is going on. Virgo is incredibly fussy when it comes to the home and everything has to have its own home, so the untidiness of Gemini can be incredibly frustrating on an ongoing basis! The bottom line for the two of you is to think of how the other may feel about your actions and only then can you make this a successful relationship.

In the bedroom, you should find the differences between you showing up after time and you will slip into the same sexual routines. Let Gemini take over in this area for a while and you be able to spice things up! You need to try new things because without sex in a relationship all you have is a good friendship.

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