Is your current partner a Virgo man? You might wonder what it would take to keep him close to you and by your side for as long as possible if that’s the case. Here are 10 things to keep him happy:
How to Keep a Virgo Man Interested
Keep this man busy
This guy is definitely a thinker. So you have to help him make sure that that mental energy goes somewhere. You can get him out of his head by taking him to a movie or going with him for a walk. Even a party could help out. He tends to think more about things when left alone. It would be one thing if his thoughts were pure happiness, but another thing if he’s going into his mind to worry more than he should.
Let the criticism roll off your back
He does tend to criticize people a little bit more than he should. If you are in a relationship with this man, understand that he believes he is doing it for the greater good. He doesn’t seem to notice you’re bothered by it as much as you are. If you show that you appreciate his efforts to try and help, he will work even harder to try and be kind.
Since he is an earth sign he always has the mindset that he always has to be living in a stable situation. Be sure that you’re making an honest living and taking care of yourself physically and financially. Irresponsible actions drive him crazy, so don’t bring them into his lifestyle.
Try not to criticize him
Yes, I know that I just told you that you should let him off your back when he criticizes you. His problem is that he cannot take criticism when it comes back to him. He can give it, but he can’t take it. Mentally, he believes that he is perfect, just like the symbol of his sign.
Keep everything on the DL
This is a man you wouldn’t want to kiss and tell your friends about. He enjoys living a lifestyle that’s more private than most. As a result, he will get overly upset if you hear stories he told you about himself from somebody else. While he enjoys gossiping about other people, he becomes angry if it is about him. So keep everything about your relationship on the down low. I’m speaking about the dirty laundry part. There is no issue with you talking to your friends about you being in a relationship with this man.
Keep everything sparkling
If there ever was a zodiac sign that is a germophobe, then he would be it. So make sure your hygiene habits are top-notch. Or that your house or place is clean. You’ll see the same thing about him when you visit his house. His hygiene habits will be first in class.
His mind is his own
This guy is definitely very private and has a shy side to him. As mentioned previously, he has a lot of mental energy that he has to deal with. So he has a tendency to be stuck in his own mind at times. If you take the time to talk to him about his problems, he might open up about them. He will mentally shut you out if you try to pry it out of him.
Keep the mood light
This man tends to over-analyze everything. Everyone knows that analyzing things requires a lot of brainpower. So the best thing that you can do for this guy is keep everything light in your relationship. Keep focusing on the love and happiness you both feel in your relationship. The happier he is, the more he will be tempted not to analyze things.
Let him serve you
Virgo’s true calling is to be somebody that serves others. It’s kind of hard to believe since this gentleman is a hermit. Allow him to cook a meal if he offers. Let him do the shopping for you if he offers. Make sure that he doesn’t feel taken advantage of when you do this. Trust me, this man will also know when you are patronizing him. The easiest way to overcome this is to show him genuine respect and love. As well as an appreciation for him as your guy.
Remember that you’re part of a team
This is one sign that one can be content living by himself too. He will leave a relationship if he does not get what he needs out of it. It is here that a team mentality is crucial. You both are two players on the same team. Share the load, make everything equally 50/50. Without this, his mind will start thinking that he can do the same things but by himself without having to deal with a relationship.