Are you in a relationship with a fiery Scorpio man? Are you looking for a way to keep his interest in you? Let’s take a look at some of the top 10 things you can do to keep the spice going between the two of you:
How to Keep your Scorpio man around
give this man space
This is the kind of guy who needs his space and the privacy that comes with it. Scorpios are known to be very independent. He works in the opposite type of way than other signs, meaning the less that you demand of him the more he’ll give back to you. He always needs to feel like he’s in control.
don’t be a fixer
The one thing that Scorpios have a hard time dealing with is a failure. They absolutely detest if somebody comes along and helps fix their problems on their behalf. Let them be the ones that fix their own issues, and adapt to their own situations.
help him to stop holding grudges
Scorpios are known for having one of the hottest streaks of any zodiac sign. They love to hold grudges, and sometimes they feel the only fix for that grudge is revenge. Heal this destructive trait, by reminding him or teaching him about the power of forgiveness. Help him to let things go.
Embrace Life Changes
This guy’s life will go in every direction possible. Which direction he goes in depends on the situation. When dating a Scorpio, you have to deal with changes that happen.
So take the time to embrace those changes. If you do, you can evolve in this relationship with this man. He really is on a roller coaster of emotions.
This is definitely a guy who has a very vengeful and quite dark mood. That’s not to say he’s always that way. He needs a little bit more laughter in his life. He needs something that will offset this passionate and intense personality trait. You can break out some playful teasing or add some humor to the mix to make him laugh.
The passion is great, the passionate part about revenge is not so much.
Take the time to win his Trust
One of the things that is at the very center of this man is that he has a hard time trusting anybody. Sometimes he has a hard time letting people get close enough for him to learn to trust. It might take a little bit of time but one of the best things you can do is help him develop trust in you.
As soon as he fully trusts you, you’ll break down that wall around his heart and he will be able to fully love you.
Refuse to fight with him
This man can be callous a lot of the time. He usually attacks verbally with a sting that lasts a long time. This is his defense mechanism or a way for him to express his displeasure with something. The best thing you can do is tell him that what he said was wrong, and refuse to battle it out with him. With this guy, choose your battles wisely.
Let this man lead
He is definitely a guy that likes to be in control of situations including relationships. They need to truly feel that winning feeling. Failure for them is not an option. Be supportive of him and avoid any situation where you are battling for control of the relationship.
Sex is an important aspect
Scorpio can just never get enough sex. Also, it’s not just a physical intimacy that they’re looking for but also the emotional. He looks at the act of sex as a bonding experience between him and his partner. It’s almost like it’s a very spiritual experience he gets when he has sex.
An eternal bond can form between the two of you if he feels that the experience is beautiful. At that moment, he would see you truly love him.
Be completely loyal
Scorpio is one of the most jealous zodiac signs. If you are in completely in love with this guy, you have to do everything you can to let him know through your words and actions that you are into him. Even though he gets a bad rap for his fiery attitude, he truly gives it all to the person he loves to be with. He will treat you like a queen.