That’s me! Okay, number one thing: this is the most emotionally loony sign of the Zodiac. One minute Cancer girls are crying and miserable and the next they are happy as clams (who really knows how happy clams are anyway?) There isn’t a lot of middle ground. Cancer women also have very good memorys and if you hurt us, we remember and we will get you back: that’s right, we are vengeful! (hear me roar!) Cancer women love the past, their houses, food, their families, all the stuff that would make us good homebodies, except we rarely are totally happy in the casa. Cancer gals can keep secrets pretty darn good, but they are terrific story-tellers. As far as guys are concerned, she’s so insecure it’s scary, she needs constant reassurance you still love her and even then, she might not reciprocate for fear of being ridiculed. That’s a big deal to us Cancers, fear of being made fun of.
What You Will Learn:
Lets look closer at this amazing Woman
Feelings and emotions are the sources of this woman’s motivation and power. The moon rules over her, and with it, all of its moods. Her emotions can be unpredictable and ever-changing.
All of her relationships are based on her feelings, her emotions, and her reactions. If she doesn’t feel appreciated or valued in a relationship, or if she doesn’t feel loved, she’ll feel insecure. Anybody who shows her kindness, affection, and appreciation will win her over. That doesn’t change the fact that she’s tough and resilient.
She is very confident when it comes to safeguarding and supporting others. It is her nature to protect those around her. She is also very compassionate, kind, and loving. It’s almost like her motto is: You won’t leave me if you love me.
Often she seems cautious or hesitant about relationships as if she’s waiting for things to settle a bit before she starts to trust people. She’ll show her loyalty, her perseverance, and most importantly, her loving and compassionate heart if she’s able to trust someone.
Work is essential to her. Like any cancer, she needs a lot of security and safety. At the same time, she wants some cash on hand for rainy days. She has a keen eye for a good deal and seems to be an expert at bartering.
When it comes to her career, she feels more comfortable with something she’s familiar with, something she’s put a lot of time into. She’s probably the most motherly figure in the office.
She’ll be able to feel the emotional climate around her that most people won’t. She keeps up with trends and builds her skills gradually as she goes along.
Her patience and calmness are key. Both of those are things she needs to take off the stress and pressure of work. That’s what will make her feel better. They value devotion and security in relationships.
As soon as she falls in love with someone, she’s devoted to them. She shows her vulnerability and opens up to them. No matter what you do, don’t crush her dreams or neglect her desire for romance. Otherwise, her compassion and sympathy will evaporate. She would express that she felt betrayed, so even the simplest of partners would feel like a jerk.
When she feels safe, her shyness and sensitivity will start to fade. As a result, she will become more open.
Her family is everything to her. Her children, her partner, and her house will be her escape from the world. A very loving and dedicated mother, she might have a hard time letting go when her children leave for university. Or when she feels as if she has an empty nest.
Once her worries, anxieties, and dreams are out in the open, she’ll be able to put everything in perspective. That way she can take the edge off a bit, and everyone around her will enjoy her company more. She will be living life a little less stressed.
Her nature is definitely that of a provider and a fighter, but she also enjoys being protected and cared for by others.
As long as she’s in a comfortable position, she is very generous with her feelings and emotions. At the same time, she has a deep understanding of how human hearts work.
Cancer Woman – To the untrained eye, she’s that sweet, dream girl men carry around in some hidden compartment of their minds….but underneath that innocent exterior lays an extremely sensual woman. Thing is, the key to that sensuality is love. She will never be openly inviting. She’ll throw you very subtle hints and if you happen to miss them, you’re shit out of luck buddy. Her feelings are too vulnerable for her to risk another overture.
The Cancer woman is very careful about falling in love. Love and security are by far, her two greatest needs and therefore will pledge absolute loyalty to the man who makes her feel safe. She will cling onto that man with all her might. A betrayal of her trust is devastating. It will take her an extremely long time to forgive, if at all, and even then, it’s a forgive but never forget.
She is old-fashioned in that charming way that makes her think that love is the secret of life and that she wants to discover this secret with the man of her dreams. This is part of her charms and it’s what makes men feel protective towards her…so if it works, if it gets her what she wants, why fix it right?
She is a sentimentalist to the max and will collect mementos from the past and linger over them. She’ll frame old pictures, cherish old letters and maintain contact with old friends. She is devoted to her mate and her family. She most definitely has the tools and the know-how to make home a place her man will never want to leave.
For the Cancer Man
Cancer Woman Traits
This lady is a home bird, she loves to travel but the return journey home sees a satisfied smile on her face and a look in her eye that speaks volumes. She needs her prince to play with her Cinderella, her home is her world, she’s moody and she’s brilliant at getting right under your skin. A favourite saying of the cancer lady is “After all I did for you” she’s a master at making you fell guilty and playing the helpless female but she’ll be by your side and right where you left her when you get back home unless a stray puppy needed help or some friend in distress called by and needed her don’t worry she’ll be back.
Cancer Woman in Love
This Cancer woman can be considered a true romantic and genuinely old fashioned girl at heart. This woman’s personality is not loud and obtrusive but rather rich, deep, and gentle.
The deepest desire of the Cancer woman is for love and security. She is a type of hopeless romantic who is on the search for true love and views love as the answer to everything in life. She’s looking for a man who feels this way too.
The Cancer woman is subtle yet flirtatious. You must read between the lines with this woman and pick up on the clues she may be dropping to win her love. If you’re not quick to respond you may lose your chance forever.
This woman is very cautious when giving her heart away or even revealing her inner most feelings. Trust is of major importance to the Cancerian woman be sure to win it immediately.
Lost love and broken hearts take a beating on the Cancerian woman. She may take years to recover from a broken heart, especially if it involves any type of betrayal. She will recover but probably will not ever truly forget or get over it. This only increases her caution with love.
This old fashioned girl loves to be connected to the past which can be good and as in the case of broken hearts bad. She loves to collect old objects from the past and look at them often. She is extremely loyal and devoted always keeping in touch with her family, friends, and mate.
The old fashioned nature of this woman helps her to make a home a warm, comfortable, and nurturing place to be. If you want this woman be sure to pay her plenty of sincere compliments, be loyal, and try to avoid criticism. A sensitive creature by nature both criticism and genuine compliments are taken to the heart by the Cancer woman.
Cancer woman are extremely good listeners and give great advice on almost all subjects. Be sure to appreciate this aspect of the Cancer woman you find.
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Sex With A Cancer Female
Turn Ons: A big, strong man with the proper priorities and pedigree; someone who can be both your protector in the harsh outside world, and your guide in the bedroom. Your superman must also remember every holiday with a special love note or gift or you feel slighted. You want to be proud of your mate and his achievements.
Turn Offs: Commitment-phobes. Unconventional or loosely defined relationships confuse you. You never rush into a relationship or consummate one before you’re absolutely, positively sure about a man’s feelings for you.