Are you in a relationship with a Cancer man? If that’s the case, you may be wondering what you can do to keep him close to you. Here are ten tips to keep your Cancer man pleased:
How to Keep a Cancer Man Interested
Share with him too
Finally, a guy who talks about his feelings. He is a good person to ask for advice and will listen to your concerns. You will be able to hear his deepest feelings and thoughts, and he will be very caring towards you. It is not uncommon for him to become very emotional about things.
Feed this man
This is a man that loves his comfort food. Sometimes when he’s down in the dumps eating something as simple as chicken wings will get this guy in a better mood. He is also always down for a home-cooked meal. If you can show him that you are a better cook than he is, chances are he will be all yours. However, he won’t expect you to work away in the kitchen.
Show interest in his Hobbies
Spend some time getting to know what he is interested in. If this sounds like something you would be interested in, why not learn more about it? If you don’t know much about baseball, for instance (you might only know the basics), ask him about it since he’ll be glad to explain it to you. He will love that you showed interest in the first place.
Take the time for family and friends
He has a strong sense of loyalty to his family and friends. He will also be attracted to you if he sees you love your family just as much as he does. By becoming one of his inner circle, you will be able to integrate into his life with ease. Get to know his friends, and if he lets you meet his family, do so. You will see a big smile on his face as you integrate with them.
Leave him alone when he needs to be left alone
When a cancer man starts to feel depressed, he needs time to contemplate. This is the moment that he kind of pulls back into his shell. He will take his space when he needs it, and you should give him the space he needs. When he wants to talk about what’s going on, you’ll be the first to know.
This is a guy who could use some positive reinforcement in his life. You will lose him if you tell him he can’t do anything, or that his dreams are stupid. Take care not to let those crab claws come out by choosing your arguments wisely.
Accept his ever-changing emotions
The cancer man is ruled by the moon. So just like the moon has different phases, so does this man when it comes to his emotions. You can’t avoid it with him. Sometimes he will be elated, and other times he will be depressed. That is what makes him a Man of Mystery, but a good and worthy mystery.
Bring him into your home
This guy is the quintessential homebody. There is no place he’d rather be. He would love to spend morning, noon, and night with you there. Whether you invite guests over for a dinner party or just spend some quiet time together there. It’s wonderful to invite him in because he will help keep the place thriving. His place will become yours, and your home will become his.
Cuddle Em Up
Definitely one of the most romantic signs of the zodiac. He won’t hesitate to hold your hand in front of others, or even to cuddle under the stars. One of the best recipes that cancer loves is that of cuddling + kissing + hugs.
Give him that romance.
The funny thing about this guy is that he will probably try to romance you more than you imagine. So the more you try to romance him, the more you will get back in return. He will appreciate candlelit dinners, romantic walks on the beach, and even cuddling under the blankets and talking about you both as an item. He will go to any length for romance.
There are many things to do to keep your cancer man around. The first is to be supportive and understanding. Cancer men can be very emotional, so you must listen when they need someone to talk to and offer support when they’re feeling down.
Secondly, make sure you keep him interested by being interesting yourself. Be passionate about the things you do and have interests of your own. Lastly, show him how much you appreciate him by doing something special for him every now and then. It doesn’t have to be anything big or expensive; even a handwritten note telling him how much he means to you will suffice. If you follow these tips, chances are your Cancer man will stick around for a long time!