hereis a test to see how well you know your own partner.
“How well do you know your partner?”
1. Can you name your partner’s best friends? Yes No
2. Do you know what stresses your partner is currently facing? Yes No
3. Can you name the people that make your partner mad? Yes No
4. Can you list your partner’s favorite relatives? Yes No
5. Does your partner appreciate all the work you do in your relationship? Yes No
6. Can you name one of your partner’s goals in life? Yes No
7. Do you often kiss or touch your partner in an affectionate way? Yes No
8. Does your partner respect you? Yes No
9. Do you know your partner’s life philosophy (e.g. live and let live, hedonism, etc.) Yes No
10. Do you feel your partner knows you well? Yes No
11. Is your sex life with your partner mostly satisfying? Yes No
12. Is your partner glad to see you at the end of the day? Yes No
13. Do you think about your partner when you are apart? Yes No
14. Is there passion and fire in your relationship? Yes No
15. Do you think your partner likes your personality? Yes No
16. Is romance still a part of your relationship? Yes No
17. Are you and your partner best friends? Yes No
18. Does your partner help you solve your problems? Yes No
19. Do you enjoy talking to your partner? Yes No
20. Does your partner listen respectfully when you are speaking? Yes No
21. Do both you and your partner work together to make relationship decisions? Yes No
22. Do you and your partner see eye to eye on basic values in life? Yes No
How to score your relationship quiz: “Yes” responses are each worth one point. Add up all your “Yes” responses to get a score out of 22 points.
If you had 15 or more points (or yes answers) on your relationship quiz then you seem to have a strong and positive relationship. Good for you!
If you had between 8 and 14 points on your relationship quiz then you should be having a look at your relationship. Try to build on your strengths (you have many) and bridge the communication gaps you are experiencing.
If you scored less than 7 on your relationship quiz then you may be facing serious difficulties in your relationship. If you want to proceed with the relationship, you might want to seek some professional advice with the areas you identified as trouble spots in the relationship quiz.