Aries In Relationships
Aries in Love
If you only take one thing away from this article, take this: Aries LOVES to be the pursuer. They love it to the point that they’ll lose respect for you if you turn around and start pursing them. Aries is the sign that invented hard to get.
Part of the reason for this is their crazy energy when it comes to all things romantic – they have so much verve and so much enthusiasm, the passive role doesn’t really suit them at all. Not necessarily the most subtle people, Aries will blurt out what they’re feeling, no matter the moment, time, or place.
What to look for in a partner: try to find somebody who appreciates that fresh, blunt approach you have. Somebody who likes to take the passive role. A Libra would be very good for you – they have the ability to appreciate the truth while enjoying being the prey in the predator/prey dynamic you so enjoy.
One of the key love traits of Aries is passion – they must experience all that love and life has to offer. Sometimes Arians can appear slightly selfish and some demonstrate a single-minded ‘me first’ attitude (who mentioned Mariah Carey??)
Arians will not always prioritize their partners’ needs ahead of their own. Generally, Arians are known for their energy, enthusiasm, bravery and adventure but can also be pushy and impatient and can have a tendency to be outspoken (or is that bitchy?)
Aries Male Love Traits:
A sexy tease and a man who can flirt for his country! The good news is the this male likes security. The bad news is he can be disloyal in relationships, which doesn’t help when it comes to looking for husband material.
He has drive and leadership and can easily inspire people around him with his charm and charisma. He also loves to be complimented constantly, which might be the way to attract him….and keep him.
Aries Female Love Traits:
A lover of adventure who can be successful in most things she tries, this female also needs plenty of love, affection and support. She is funny and clever and will always have many friends. Ms Aries craves attention and needs it by the truck load. She also places great importance on the physical side of her relationships so prepare to be energetic . This is a person who gives 100% in everything she does.
What It’s Like To Date An Aries Man
The Aries man loves adventure. Thus, if you have a desire to be with a Aries man, you must prepare yourself for the excitement and adventure. He’s ever so enthusiastic to try new things especially when it comes to relationships.
Not all Aries men are the same but it’s generally true for most of them. If you are the kind of woman who likes taking the lead, your Aries man is likely to stay around.
The Aries man loves challenges – if you’re the kind of woman who can do this, he’s more likely to stay around for a longer period of time. Keep in mind that this type of man loves the chase but you need to act like you do care about him.
He’s the kind of man who wants to sweep you off your feet. If you come across as hard to get and innocent, the Aries man is yours. Don’t take him for granted though, as he has a short temper that will cause him to leave and never come back.
What It’s Like To Date An Aries Woman
When you date a female Aries, you’re never in for a dull moment. She’s influential and hot-tempered and you better be the type of person who can take the heat on. She is the kind of women who is self-driven and independent; someone who can take care of herself and doesn’t cling to her mate. This woman demands freedom.
According to an Aries woman, the beginning is felt as the best part of a relationship. After all, the spark is present and she’s doing what she can to catch you for herself. Her happiness is in long-term relationships, as she enjoys sharing anything and everything with her mate. She looks at her mate as her best friend.
The Aries woman has no desire to become dominated by her mate or be the dominator. Rather, she views her mate as being an equal. She is faithful and demands the same from him. Jealousy is a possibility of her mate does not give her his undivided attention. This jealously can be rooted into possessiveness; she wants to be considered number one.
She always provides strength and encouragement to her mate, which is why she is so wonderful during times of need and despair. For her happy ending, she must feel that you love and appreciate her.
How To Attract Aries
If you want to attract the female or male Aries, you need to make them aware that you admire them – they thrive on it. Be sure you make them aware that you adore their enthusiasm in and for life. Tell them that you find them fascinating, as they thrive on compliments.
Be sure you compliment both mentally and physically, and engage in intellectual conversations. When you ask for advice, you make them aware that you admire them.
They are the first zodiac sign, which means they are fairly straightforward and love followers. You should never be a pushover and never keep opinions to yourself – the Aries can become bored quickly if you’re always agreeing with them.
Never try controlling them since they don’t like over-domineering people. If you go with the Aries’ plans, a good time will be had. If they suggest things to do, go along with it, as they love being control of things that go on!
Quiz: Aries lover – What kind of Lover are you? or is your partner?
To answer each question, meditate or think about each one to get an answer of either Yes, No, or Sometimes, which ever applies best to you in regards to the question.
Scores:Yes=3 Sometimes=2 No=1
Do women’s changing moods upset you?Are flowers, love notes and romantic presents a waste of time and energy for you?Do you worry about your appearance?Is it difficult for you to take a break away from work?Do you live more in the present than in the past?Are you attracted by fast cars?Would you make love to your mate even if you were tired?Are you possessive in love?Do you like children?Do you have problems being rejected by a woman that you find attractive?Do you think of yourself as a pioneer?Is it easy for you to tell others what to do?Do you hate when people tell you what to do?Are you considered a rough, spontaneous, passionate kind of lover?Is it hard for you to say how you feel when you make love?If your mate is talking to someone you do not know, does it annoy you?Do you believe that you are always going to have money in the future?Do you consider men who cry as being weak?Does it bother you if another man flirts with your lover?Are money and material things essential to your happiness?
Do you own an expensive wardrobe?Does it bother you if your lover does not want to share his opinion?Are you attracted to more sentimental kinds of lovers?Do you like an exuberant or show-off kind of man?Does it bother you when other women talk about their childbirth?Do you feel that you are a leader and good at organizing and planning?Can you do more than one thing at a time?Do you believe that a wife gives power to a successful man?Are you the kind of woman who would make the first advancements, even sexually?Do you think that being sentimental is being childish?Are you the type that would pick up the phone to ask a lover to take you out?Do you believe in the feminist movement?Do small children get on your nerves?If you are not happy and content, do you express your feelings openly?Do you keep all love notes and romantic gifts preciously?Is sex very important to you even if you are married for a long time?Does the idea of working only for money bore you?Do you find it difficult to open up your heart and express your feelings?Do you consider yourself a passionate, aggressive lover?Do you find romance foolish?SCORES FOR ARIES
1 – 35 POINTS
You are a softer type of Aries. The Mars influence is tempered by the Water elements. You do not mind sharing your power with others.
35 – 45 POINTS
You are considered a positive type of Aries. It is tempered by the element of Air, which is a very likeable quality.
45 – 60 POINTS
You are the true Aries that has all the Martian characteristics